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True Stories of Dangerous Food Allergies

  • Posted on January 19, 2010 at 4:07 am

Food allergies are quite common. In fact, a good percentage of the population suffers from food allergies. But the surprising thing is that most people just do not realize that they are living with food allergies. This is because in most cases, food allergies lead to symptoms that are ongoing and slightly troubling. Also, allergies may surface many hours after the food is taken in. So, victims do not make the connection. But, food allergies can interfere with your life because it can bring on unexplained problems, forcing you to lead a restricted and sometimes, pain-filled life.

However, in some people, food allergies can trigger an overwhelming, instantaneous reaction. Here are some real life examples of how food allergy can affect the life of people you love.

A 15 year old girl in Quebec, Canada died after she kissed her boyfriend. Examinations revealed that the girl had developed a severe allergic reaction to the peanut butter that the boy had eaten hours ago! The medical team that arrived to help the girl could do nothing to save her life.

Joanna was a healthy woman of 28 when she gave birth to her little daughter Kylie. Up until then, Joanna knew nothing about food allergies. But, 8 months after little Kylie was born, Joanna knew everything about nasty little food allergies. During a weekend vacation, Joanna happened to feed her daughter a formula that contained cow’s milk. Within hours of taking in the formula, Kylie developed angry red rashes all over her face, head and torso. Medical tests showed that Kylie was allergic to oranges and eggs besides cow’s milk.

For 15 years, Susan baffled doctors with her mild but persistent symptoms. She developed mild ear aches, felt listless and would throw up for no reason. Then, one day a chance conversation at a restaurant about food allergies made Susan carry out a food elimination test at home. She eliminated milk, then pepper, then fish, and finally eggs. A week into her egg free diet and Susan was a new woman.

On a night out with friends, Nathan was a little drunk when they decided to order a midnight breakfast. As it turned out, Nathan who knew he was allergic to Tobasco, ordered a pizza and spread tobasco sauce on it. Minutes after biting into the pizza, he developed breathing problems. His friends took him to the pharmacy but the pharmacist refused to give him a medication without a prescription. Nathan called his doctor on the cell phone, but the doctor did not answer. In desperation, Nathan called his mother who directed him and his friends to the doctor’s house, where the doctor gave him a prescription and accompanied him to the pharmacy.

As you can see, food allergies can hamper your lifestyle, whether they trigger immediate or slow, insidious reactions. In any case, it is important to know about your allergies and to carry medications or instructions regarding medications with you so people around you can help in case of a sudden allergic reaction.

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How do I be a good daughter – to an alcoholic.?

  • Posted on January 19, 2010 at 4:07 am

Nutshell : my mother is 71. She has been an alcoholic her entire life. She also was married to one – my father – and they together made my life a living hell until I got out of the house. Now, she is remarried to another alcoholic, after my father died.

I have spent my entire life healing from the abuse they put me through. now I am 34. I FINALLY have my crap together…I want to heal. I am understanding myself and feeling good! I feel hopefull and I feel good.

She lives 3 states away with her husband, and we have no relationship really. I won’t accept calls from her – at all after about 4pm, because she is *always* drunk. So she never calls me now out of spite…. I hate calling her — because she is very narcisstic and we don’t have much to talk about it. She isn’t really interested in my life —- and I am her only child. No other family. Holidays she pretends nothing is wrong – sends me sappy cards about how much loves me that she probably wrote when she was drunk. Its sad.

I have tried to have a relationship with her —- but unless I want to NEVER discuss my feelings with her, pretend that nothing is wrong or ever was — that isn’t going to happen. I am tired of being a robot who smiles for her and pretends that there isn’t a problem….I can’t be honest. I can’t tell her that I go to counseling. I can’t tell her anything REAL. Its all fake discussions about the weather, what clothes she bought, blah blah. She can’t relate to me on any intimate level.

I guess I am goign to loose whatever I had as a mom — or will ever have — because I have to stand up for what is right…..I try to be compassionate to her — but its really hard when she doesn’t recipricate any relationship or interest in me.

I can’t respect her when she continues this — into her 70s. I am going to be expected to pick up the pieces when her husband dies and/or her health fails?

I don’t want to — and I wont’. I can’t subject myself and my husband and our lives to it.

I go between just wanting to write it all off — just setting a firm boundary between us….and grieving the loss and wondering “what coudl have been” and feeling guilty. But I have almost no respect for who she is *today* or who she was as my mother.

Anyone have any advice or words?

THank you -

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Dating Younger Women

  • Posted on January 19, 2010 at 12:06 am

Dating Younger Women

 

Dating younger women is not as difficult as you might think. It’s a scientific fact that women mature earlier than men. Many times they’re tired of dealing with adolescent behavior in a man who is their age. There are a lot of young women who prefer to be with an older man because he is mature; someone that they feel they don’t have to raise.

 

To be sure, some younger women are attempting to find husband. Or worse, a ‘Sugar Daddy’. Unless you’re looking for a young wife, or actually like to have a kept woman, you should avoid these women like the plague.

 

Almost all women want protection and security. They know when they go out with an older man the likelihood of the evening going sour is greatly reduced. They are more comfortable and more open because they don’t have to worry about being embarrassed by a drunken or high boyfriend. They rely on the older man’s maturity to keep them safe.

 

You would be surprised at how many young women are attracted to older men. And why not?! Older men are generally better established, sure of themselves, and sure of what they really want. They love the way an older man can make them feel like they are the most special person in the world. They have his full attention and he lavishes his time on them.

 

There are some areas to be cautious with when dating a younger woman.

Don’t be too serious up front. She will become either scared or bored.

A woman loves to laugh. Find ways to make her laugh and she will, in turn, find ways to please you.

She’s your date, not your daughter. Don’t confuse the two.

Don’t make unnecessary advances. Let her start the flirting; you know the signals that she’ll give when she’s wanting to go a little further.

 

 

Dating a younger can be a wonderful, exhilarating experience for both of you. She’s ready for a man like you. All you have to do is read the signs.

 

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