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Prologue

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 10:08 pm

Walter Martineck hardly knows Drew Peterson, a retired police sergeant in the Chicago suburb of Bolingbrook, but he’s a good friend of Peterson’s stepbrother, Tom Morphey. So it was that Martineck found himself unwittingly drawn into the events of October 28, 2007, the day Peterson’s young wife, Stacy, was last seen. The prologue that follows is a dramatization based on an account Morphey reportedly gave to police, as well as statements Martineck made in the media regarding his strange run-in with Morphey late that day, before Martineck had heard a word about Stacy’s disappearance. In the months that she’s remained missing, numerous stories have flooded out from both those who knew her well and those who barely knew her; stories that the police, and everyone following the case in the national news, are sorting through to answer the vexing question: What happened to Stacy?

Drew Peterson set a cup of coffee in front of his stepbrother, who was slumped in a stuffed chair in the back of Starbucks, away from the wide windows looking out onto busy Weber Road. Tom Morphey sipped the coffee and waited to hear why Peterson had summoned him there.

But Peterson only said, “Drink this. You look like you need it.”

Morphey could believe he did. He’d woken up that morning with a familiar dull ache behind his eyes and burning in his stomach after spending the day on the couch, watching the Bears give away a game to the Lions. Then he dozed off and might still have been asleep if his stepbrother hadn’t called at 5 o’clock that evening, asking to meet him at the Starbucks midway between their homes in the Chicago suburb of Bolingbrook.

Peterson told Morphey to be there at seven; it was important.

Morphey heaved himself off the couch and, since he had nowhere else to be, headed over to Starbucks, happy for the chance to help his stepbrother for a change. Usually it was Peterson coming through for him with things like money, furniture, or work. Just the other day Peterson had told him he could probably line up something at the local Meijer department store; Morphey needed the job, and it would not have been the first that Peterson had helped him get.

When Morphey walked into Starbucks, he was early for their meeting. Peterson was already there, sitting in back, reading the paper.
After getting Morphey coffee, Peterson asked, “How’s things at home?”

Morphey just shrugged and asked about Peterson’s three boys, daughter, and wife, Stacy. Peterson gushed about the kids: Tom at the top of his class and playing trumpet in the school band, Kris a champion junior high wrestler, Anthony and Lacy adorable and growing up fast. About Stacy — his fourth wife, mother to Anthony and Lacy, stepmother to Tom and Kris — he said nothing. He fell silent and stared across the table.

“Why aren’t you working tonight?” Morphey asked.

“Taking the day off.” More silence. Then: “I need something.”

So he didn’t just want to talk, to get something off his chest. He — Drew Peterson, Bolingbrook police sergeant, enforcer of law and order — needed something from his troubled, unemployed stepbrother. It was the best Morphey had felt in a long while.

“What?” he said quickly.

“Stacy,” Peterson said. “She said she’s leaving me again. You know how she is.”

Morphey said he knew.

“It’s like this every month,” Peterson said. “Right around her period. It’s getting to be too much. Especially since Tina.”

Stacy’s half sister, Tina, had died about a year before. Peterson had told Morphey how hard Stacy had taken it, about her depression, her pills. Morphey, too, knew a little something about depression and pills.

“You know what else?” Peterson said. “I think she’s running around on me.”

“Get out of here.”

Peterson pulled out his wallet and opened it to a picture of Stacy, in a tight party dress, leaning over Drew as he sat on a chair. “You’d say no to this?”

“She’s a fox,” Morphey agreed, “but that doesn’t mean she’s running around.”

Peterson put the wallet away. “It’s getting to be a problem,” he said. “She’s a problem. We got to dispose of the problem.”

Morphey didn’t know what to make of that. He didn’t really want to know. Had he even heard his stepbrother correctly? He didn’t try too hard to figure it out.

Peterson rubbed his temples and pushed back his hair. “I need you to wait here for a little while.” Then he reached into his jacket, pulled out a cell phone and handed it to Morphey.

“Take this. Whatever happens, don’t answer it. Just stay here. Don’t fall asleep. Get another coffee, whatever. Just don’t leave and don’t answer the phone. And don’t call anybody either. Think you can handle that?”

“Yeah, Drew.”

Peterson left. Morphey studied the phone. It was a nice one, but Morphey did not mess with it. He did not want to screw up. He sat there and tried to stay awake.

After about half an hour, a jolting ring made Morphey drop the phone in his lap. When he picked it up, he saw the caller ID.

Stacy.

Morphey stared at the phone until it stopped ringing. He didn’t know what was going on, but suddenly he wasn’t so sleepy.

Another half hour passed before Peterson reappeared. When Morphey asked where he had gone, Peterson told him that he just went to run an errand.

Morphey handed back the phone. “Your wife called.”

Peterson put the phone in his pocket without looking at it. “I know,” he said. “You did a good job.”

Out in the parking lot, Peterson said, “Give me a call tomorrow. I might have something on that Meijer’s thing.” He got in his GMC Denali and drove off.

A few hours later, he called Morphey again. “You think you can come over here? I need a hand moving something. The Denali and the Grand Prix are in the driveway, so just park in front. You’re all right to drive, right?”

Morphey put on his jacket and headed for the door. He told his girlfriend Sheryl he’d be back in a minute; he had to go to Drew’s.

When he got to Peterson’s house, his stepbrother opened the front door before Morphey had a chance to ring the bell. As Morphey stepped inside, Peterson glanced around the sleepy cul-de-sac. It was a few days before Halloween. The air was crisp, the house almost as dark as the street.

The kids were sleeping, and Peterson said Stacy was out with her sister. Morphey thought that was strange, since both cars were parked in the driveway. Maybe Stacy’s sister had picked her up from the house.

Morphey followed Peterson upstairs and into the bedroom. He noticed a blue plastic barrel next to the bed. The barrel was tightly sealed and had two plugged holes in its lid, maybe openings for a pump. It looked a little smaller than a fifty-five-gallon drum.

Peterson squatted and put his fingers under the edge of the barrel’s bottom. “I’ll tip it,” he said. “You take it from the top.”

He pushed the barrel over, and Morphey accepted its weight. It was warm against his hands. Peterson backed out of the bedroom and toward the stairs. Morphey walked after, holding up his end. The barrel was not very heavy, and now Peterson bore all of its weight as he stepped backward down the stairs.

Morphey asked what was in the barrel.

“Chlorine,” Peterson said.

Morphey thought it was strange that Peterson would have a barrel of chlorine for his swimming pool all the way upstairs, next to his bed. He wondered for what reason it needed to be moved late on a Sunday night, not to mention why it felt warmer than the air in the room. But he didn’t ask any of these questions. He told himself to just believe his stepbrother, to go along with it and show himself capable of helping with this simple task.

Once downstairs, they carried the barrel through the attached garage and out to the driveway, where Peterson set it down to open the back of his Denali. The two men hoisted the barrel into the car. Peterson wedged a piece of wood against it to keep it from rolling around.

“Well, I better get this out of here,” he said.

“Where you going?” Morphey asked.

“I know a guy wants to buy some chlorine,” Peterson said.

“Now?”

“He wants it pretty bad.” Peterson pulled a wad of bills out of his pocket and palmed it into Morphey’s hand.

“Ah, Drew, come on,” Morphey protested. “You don’t have to.”

“Got to run,” Peterson said as he climbed into his Denali and closed the garage door from inside his car. Morphey watched the door go down, then drove home.

In his kitchen, he sat down and had a few drinks. His head throbbed. Dispose. Problem. He had a few more and then walked up the street to the home of his pal Walter Martineck. Lights shone through the front window, so he knocked on the door.

Wally opened the door, and Morphey blurted out, “I think I just helped move Stacy with Drew.”

Wally tried to follow what he was saying, but Morphey was drunk and rambling, nearly incoherent. He kept trying to push a handful of money onto his pal. Wally refused and asked where the cash had come from. Morphey wouldn’t say. He left his friend standing mystified in the doorway and walked back to his own house.

When he woke up the next morning, his girlfriend told him something that he already knew, no matter how much he tried to convince himself otherwise. So he went back to bed and tried to forget; he tried to pretend that it had never happened.

When he awoke the second time and couldn’t fall back to sleep, Morphey swallowed a handful of pills and chased them with what was left in a big plastic bottle of liquor. The rest of that day, October 29, 2007 — the day that Stacy Peterson was reported missing, as his girlfriend had informed him in the morning — was largely lost to Morphey. And as he gratefully drifted off again, he hoped the whole thing had been a bad dream.

Waking up in a hospital room in Naperville, the next town over, was no dream. Through his haze, he heard people saying he had tried to end it all with liquor and pills. He believed what these people were saying, never mind that he could not quite make out what they looked like. Whether he had intentionally tried to kill himself, which was entirely possible, or had simply overdone it trying to block out the terrible thoughts racing through his mind, Morphey didn’t know or care. They gave him drugs to sleep, which was nice, but when the drugs wore off, an unwelcome consciousness returned.  He slept and woke, and upon one woozy resurfacing, Drew Peterson had materialized next to his bed.

Peterson, catching Morphey’s eye, leaned over and asked, “How you feeling?”

The above is an excerpt from the book Fatal Vows: The Tragic Wives of Sergeant Drew Peterson
by Joseph Hosey
Published by Phoenix Books;  September 2008;$22.95US/$24.95CAN; 978-1-59777-606-6
Copyright © 2008 Joseph Hosey & Phoenix Books, Inc.

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In Bible versus Quran: God is the Grandfather of the Famous Mighty Men

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 10:06 pm

The Sons of the Lord God in Bible versus Quran (2)

This is the second article of the series:” The Sons of the Lord God in Bible versus Quran”.

The Bible says that the Lord God, the Almighty Creator, has SONS who were married the daughters of men.  When the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

The Quran says that Allah, the Almighty Creator, has neither a son nor a partner.  Allah is the Self-Sufficient, the eternally Besought of all; the One Who is always sought at times of need.

 

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The Sons of the Lord God in the Bible (2)

The Bible says that the Sons of the Lord God, the Almighty Creator, were married the daughters of men.  When the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

But the Bible does not tell the names of the sons of the Lord God,

The Bible also does not give the physical attributes of the sons of the Lord God. In addition, the Bible does not tell what the number of the sons of the Lord God was and how many they were?

In short, the Bible does not let us know who, how, when, where, how many etc. in respect to the sons of the Lord God.

On the other hand, the Bible gives some informative details about the sons of the kings of Israel, for example, but does not give any details about the Sons of the Lord God, the Almighty Creator, who are of course very much more important than the sons of the kings of Judah . 

On the other hand, the Quran makes it very clear and says that Allah, the Almighty Creator, has neither a son nor a partner.

 

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Genesis 6:4

 

New International Version

4 The Nephilim were on the earth in those days—and also afterward—when the sons of God went to the daughters of men and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.

 

New American Standard Bible

4The Nephilim were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men, and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown.

 

English Standard Version

4The Nephilim (Or giants) were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown.

 

King James Version

4There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

 

Young’s Literal Translation

4The fallen ones were in the earth in those days, and even afterwards when sons of God come in unto daughters of men, and they have borne to them — they [are] the heroes, who, from of old, [are] the men of name.

 

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The Sons of the Lord God in the Quran (2)

 

The Quran firmly forbids saying that Allah has a son.

It is not befitting for the Majesty of Allah to take to Himself a son.

In Islam, this point is very important faith wise.

In a very simple word, Allah, the Almighty Creator, has neither a son nor a partner. 

Again, it is unforgivable sin to say or to believe that The One Almighty Creator who is Allah or God or the Lord or Jehovah or whatever you name Him has a son or sons.

 

A group of the disbelievers and the idolaters’ people of Mecca went to the Prophet Muhammad, and said to him:

Describe to us your Lord,

What is the lineage of your Lord?

what is He made of?

And to which species does He belong?

Is He made of gold, copper or silver?

Does He eat and drink?

Who did He inherit this world from?

And to whom will He bequeath it?’

 

and so Allah, exalted is He, revealed this Surah (Chapter 112) to describe His attributes and traits, saying:

Say (O Muhammad): He is Allah, the One!

He has no son or partner.

Allah is the Self-Sufficient, the eternally Besought of all; the One Who is always sought at times of need,

He begets not, nor is he begotten, for anyone who is begotten will certainly die and whoever dies will be inherited. Allah does not die nor is He inherited.

And there is none comparable unto Him.

He does not have anyone who resembles Him or is like Him

Naught is as His likeness

 

From the Islamic point of view, the conclusion of this essential topic that may establish or destroy the faith is that:

Any one who believe that the Almighty Creator has a son or sons; he messes his faith up and is considered as a disbeliever and in the afterlife he will end up as an eternal inhabitant of the hell.

Any one who believe that the Creator has neither a son nor a partner; he has a good faith and is considered as a believer and in the afterlife he will end up as an eternal inhabitant of the paradise. 

 

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The meanings of Surah (Chapter) 112 of the Noble Quran:

 

Say: He is Allah, the one; He is the Master whose glory is at its peak and for Whom all created beings are in need;

It is also said that means: He Who does not eat or drink;

It is also said that this means: He Who does not have an interior;

It is also said that this means: He is the Everlasting; He is the Sufficient;

It is also said that this means: He who does not have an entrance or exit.

He begets not, nor is he begotten

He neither begot, for no likeness of Him can exist, nor was begotten, since createdness is precluded in His case.

He did not inherit and will not be inherited;

And it is also said this means: He does not have a son who will inherit His dominion and He was not begotten, which means that He did not inherit His dominion.

Nor is there anyone equal to Him’, neither match nor comparison

there is none comparable unto Him

He does not have an opposite, peer, or equal nor anyone who may resemble or begin to resemble Him;

and it is also said this means: He does not have any co-equal who would compete with Him about dominion and sovereignty’.

 

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Surah (Chapter) 112 of the Noble Quran:

 

Verse 112:1

QARIB: say: ‘he is Allah, the one,

SHAKIR: say: he, Allah, is one

PICKTHAL: say: he is Allah, the one!

YUSUFALI: say: he is Allah, the one and only;

 

Verse 112:2

QARIB: the called upon.

SHAKIR: Allah is he on whom all depend

PICKTHAL: Allah, the eternally besought of all!

YUSUFALI: Allah, the eternal, absolute;

 

Verse 112:3

QARIB: who has not given birth, and has not been born,

SHAKIR: he begets not, nor is he begotten

PICKTHAL: he begetteth not nor was begotten.

YUSUFALI: he begetteth not, nor is he begotten;

 

Verse 112:4

QARIB: and there is none equal to him. ‘

SHAKIR: and none is like him

PICKTHAL: and there is none comparable unto him.

YUSUFALI: and there is none like unto him.

 

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Back to my question to the smart and interested reader:

Is the Quran quoted from the Bible?

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The Unholy Trinity: Asthma, Allergies, & Eczema

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 7:21 pm

My youngest son has suffered from a myriad of allergies since he was just months old.

Mikey broke out in a scaly rash on his head at just about four months old. We thought it might be regular old cradle-cap, but brushing it out just made it worse. His pediatrician said that it was actually eczema, and with his little hands, my baby would claw at it until it bled.

The rash soon spread all over his body and by age one, the eczema was causing his fingers and toes to split open. He was miserable, and I was sad that all the creams and ointments in the world weren’t helping.

“So, Who In His Family Has Allergies?”

Doctors would ask me which of us two parents had allergies and eczema, because the two were “usually hereditary”, they said. “Neither of us,” I would reply, and they would shake their heads and say “it had to come from somewhere”.

We were scratching our heads too. Neither myself nor my husband had any problems of this magnitude; and we had asked our parents to make sure.

Later, we learned that the trilogy of allergies, eczema, and asthma usually go hand-in-hand. If a person showed signs of two, he or she almost always has the third one, if only in a mild form.

We found that Mikey also had food, animal, and dust mite allergies, when he became old enough to have the common “skin tests”. Last year, as he began playing more aggressive sports like football and soccer, we discovered that he had sports-induced asthma.

The Vaccine Factor?

Recently, I’ve been reading about all the toxic ingredients in the vaccines our children are required to receive. I haven’t completely gone to the extreme and refused any vaccines for my children; my kids have had theirs already, and won’t require any more for a long time. I think it’s a decision that families must make for themselves.

But I did realize that around the time my son began exhibiting all of these allergy symptoms, was near the time he first received round one of his shots. That might explain why doctors were mystified that none of our other family members had serious allergies and eczema.

I began to wonder what was in those vaccines. I didn’t like what I found out.

Vaccines contain formaldehyde, mercury, aluminum, fetal animal lung and kidney cells, chick embryo, and ingredients similar to antifreeze, among other things. We’re not told that stuff, of course.

All of these toxins have to go somewhere. There is an effect. How else to explain the skyrocketing cases of allergies (to the point of banning peanut-containing products in schools), and especially asthma, in the U.S. over the last 30 years?

Get Rid Of Those Toxins

A unique supplement called liquid zeolite was put on the market a couple of years ago that has some remarkable testimonies for many, many serious conditions and diseases. It acts like a cage, trapping allergens and toxins and removing them safely from the body. Here are some real testimonies:

Beth’s Story:

“…My name is Beth. I live in Texas, and the product that we are using is the (liquid zeolite). And my daughter has suffered from Asthma since infancy, starting at about 3 months….She is now 20 years old. We have struggled all these years to find something to help relieve her asthma, and since we got her on the zeolite product, and within a few weeks her asthma has disappeared…”

Vicky’s Story:

“My name is Vicky, and I’m a physician’s assistant. I have a grandson who was born with tremendous amounts of allergies, and he has asthma attacks so severely he’s been hospitalized five times in the first two years of life.

When he was two was about the same time that I learned the (liquid zeolite). Since that time his results have been absolutely remarkable. He has not been hospitalized once. He has not had a severe asthma attack. He has not had to take any medication for asthma. All the rashes on his body have cleared up. He’s growing well. He is now a healthy four-year-old, and just doing great….”

While there is no one treatment that works the same for everyone, liquid zeolite seems to be the healthcare breakthrough for many diseases, including allergic conditions.

A growing number of people are tiring of waiting for traditional medicine to give complete relief to those who suffer from allergies, asthma, and eczema. In response, several families are turning to supplements to meet their needs. They also want to know why. Why the increase in allergies, especially life-threatening ones, and why the spike in asthma cases???

Many kids are suffering for reasons that we don’t really know. What I do know is that something triggered my son’s problems, and a good deal of research suggests it could very well have been the vaccines that we’re told will keep our kids healthy.

In the meantime, there is something that can be done. Until we find the answer, liquid zeolite seems to be the solution.

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Herbal Medicine, Plant Spirit Shamanism, and Homeopathy

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 4:12 pm

Listening to the Plants – Nature is Talking to us.

The shamans say that plants connect us with nature because they take their nourishment directly from the earth, as well as the sun’s rays, the air, and water. They allow us to know and recognize ourselves. A shaman must know this and must love his people to heal them. Here are just a few of the plant healers.

Jergon Sacha (Dracontium peruviuanum)

My first exposure to this plant came about quite accidentally, when one day walking through the rainforest studying the properties of the plants, the maestro Javier queried why I always walked around with a machete. I jokingly replied “it’s against anacondas!”. He paused in thought for a moment and beckoned for me to follow him, a few minutes later we came across this tall stemmed plant. He proceeded to cut it down and then whip me around the body paying attention to my legs and the soles of my feet.. He then said “no more problems, you are protected against snakes”. I asked him why this plant was used in this way, and he indicated the pattern on the stem which looks identical to the snakes in the forest. Later as I started to investigate this plant even more, I discovered some interesting correspondences; this is a plant which is widely used as an antidote against snake bite venom in the Amazon.

This is accordance with the ‘doctrine of signatures’ concept. This doctrine is at the heart of homeopathy, folk medicine, and plant shamanism. The doctrine was revealed by the great alchemist and physician Paracelus who lived in the 16th Century. The underlying principle was that the healing properties of the plant are not only in the outer ‘physical’ form, but also in their inner or spiritual nature. The Doctrine of Signatures holds that this inner nature can be revealed by it’s outer physical form or signatures. This plant is a clear demonstration of the outer form indicating the inner qualities. It’s use is directly related to it’s physical appearance, the patterns on the tall stem closely resembles the skin patterns of the highly venomous pit viper known as ‘Bushmaster’ or Jararaca which is indigenous to the Amazon.

The large tuber of the plant is an well known and highly effective antidote for the bite of venomous snakes. The tuber is chopped up, and immersed in cold water and then drunk. Also the chopped tuber is placed in a banana leaf and used as a poultice which is wrapped around the bite area. These procedures are repeated every few hours. Of course the deal here is that it works, and as it not possible to store anti-venom vaccines in the rainforest without refrigeration, this plant has exceptional life-saving importance.

Mocura / Mucura Petivera Alliacea. This plant can be taken orally or used in floral baths to raise energy, or take you out of a saladera (a run of bad luck, inertia, sense of not living to the full). Gives mental strength and you can feel its effects as also with Ajo Sacha, both are varieties of ‘false’ garlic and have a penetrating aroma.

One of it’s qualities is that on a personal psychological level it can boost one’s strength. For example it is considered good in countering shyness, and can strengthen one’s own sense of personal value and authority. One of it’s properties is to help people overcome ‘irrational’ fears & fearful memories

Medicinal properties include asthma, bronchitis, reduction of fat and cholesterol. This plant grows widely in the lower Amazon, and it is used widely in purification (floral baths) .

Piñon Colorado Jatropha gossypifoilio

Has short lived effect after drinking but helps lucid dreaming later on when you go to bed. Can be used as a planta maestra and it is a plant that maestros can take when being during their initiation. Can also take with tobacco.

The plant’s properties on the physical level relate to problems such as, burns, swellings, intestinal parasites , Insect bites and stings, vaginal infections, and bronchitis. It is possible to take the resin which is much stronger but toxic if too much ingested. The resin can be applied directly to the skin.

Piri-piri, (Cyperaceae). Native people throughout the Amazon cultivate numerous varieties of medicinal sedges to treat a wide range of health problems, the native peoples for example, use sedge roots to treat headaches, fevers, cramps, dysentery and wounds as well as to ease childbirth. Special sedge varieties are cultivated by Shipiba women to improve their skill weaving and to protect their babies from illness.

Teresa a Shipiba craftswoman who joins us on our Amazon Retreats, told me that it is customary when the girls are very young for their mothers to squeeze a few drops of the ‘piri piri’ seed sap into their eyes in order to give their daughters the ability to have visions of the designs that she will make throughout her life.

The men cultivate special sedges to improve their hunting. Since the plant is used for such a wide range of conditions, it was once dismissed as being mere superstition. Pharmacological research has revealed the presence of ergot alkaloids, which are known to have diverse effects on the body from stimulation of the nervous system to constriction of blood vessels. These alkaloids are responsible for the wide range of medicinal uses. Apparently the ergot alkaloids come not from the plant itself but from a fungus that infects the plant.

Chanca piedra “Stone Breaker” (Phyllanthus Niruri)

This is a hybrid name “chanca” meaning “to break” in Quechua and “piedra” meaning “stone” in Spanish. This herb from the Amazon has been used by the indigenous peoples of the Rainforest for generations as an effective remedy to eliminate gall, and kidney stones. The plant has demonstrated its effectiveness against many illnesses including, kidney problems , urinary problems, colic, dysentery, jaundice and numerous other conditions. This herb has become widely used in South America as the herbal remedy for gall and kidney stones, and can typically be bought in capsule or leaf form from many stores. This plant is used only for its pharmaceutical properties, and is not a planta maestra. As a note, this plant is also starting to become known in Western Medical circles, as when I brought some back for my mother to help her with her kidney stones, her doctor was apparently familiar with this herb, but he still didn’t want her to use it due to possible contra-indications with the prescribed pharmaceutical medicine.

Reflections.

On reflection plant medicine is totally different than pharmaceutical medication which only affects one whilst it is being taken; these kinds of plant medicines seem to have a permanent effect in some way metaphorical or otherwise altering one’s consciousness or “DNA”. Paracelus, is still a source of inspiration to all those who work with the healing properties of herbs, and the plants.

One of the great revelations that we can experience in working with the plant spirit or consciousness is that we are not separate from the natural world. In our culture we perceive ourselves to be separate beings with our minds firmly embedded within our physical being (typically our head). The plants can show you that this way of being is an illusion and that we are all connected, all of us and everything else is a discrete element in the great universal field of consciousness or spirit.

Same propertise are also found in Homeopathic Remedies, as Shasa says!

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In the Quran: who is the One who is always sought at Times of Need?

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 1:06 pm

The Sons of the Lord God in Bible versus Quran (2)

This is the second article of the series:” The Sons of the Lord God in Bible versus Quran”.

The Bible says that the Lord God, the Almighty Creator, has SONS who were married the daughters of men.  When the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

The Quran says that Allah, the Almighty Creator, has neither a son nor a partner.  Allah is the Self-Sufficient, the eternally Besought of all; the One Who is always sought at times of need.

 

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The Sons of the Lord God in the Bible (2)

The Bible says that the Sons of the Lord God, the Almighty Creator, were married the daughters of men.  When the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

But the Bible does not tell the names of the sons of the Lord God,

The Bible also does not give the physical attributes of the sons of the Lord God. In addition, the Bible does not tell what the number of the sons of the Lord God was and how many they were?

In short, the Bible does not let us know who, how, when, where, how many etc. in respect to the sons of the Lord God.

On the other hand, the Bible gives some informative details about the sons of the kings of Israel, for example, but does not give any details about the Sons of the Lord God, the Almighty Creator, who are of course very much more important than the sons of the kings of Judah . 

On the other hand, the Quran makes it very clear and says that Allah, the Almighty Creator, has neither a son nor a partner.

 

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Genesis 6:4

 

New International Version

4 The Nephilim were on the earth in those days—and also afterward—when the sons of God went to the daughters of men and had children by them. They were the heroes of old, men of renown.

 

New American Standard Bible

4The Nephilim were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of men, and they bore children to them. Those were the mighty men who were of old, men of renown.

 

English Standard Version

4The Nephilim (Or giants) were on the earth in those days, and also afterward, when the sons of God came in to the daughters of man and they bore children to them. These were the mighty men who were of old, the men of renown.

 

King James Version

4There were giants in the earth in those days; and also after that, when the sons of God came in unto the daughters of men, and they bare children to them, the same became mighty men which were of old, men of renown.

 

Young’s Literal Translation

4The fallen ones were in the earth in those days, and even afterwards when sons of God come in unto daughters of men, and they have borne to them — they [are] the heroes, who, from of old, [are] the men of name.

 

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The Sons of the Lord God in the Quran (2)

 

The Quran firmly forbids saying that Allah has a son.

It is not befitting for the Majesty of Allah to take to Himself a son.

In Islam, this point is very important faith wise.

In a very simple word, Allah, the Almighty Creator, has neither a son nor a partner. 

Again, it is unforgivable sin to say or to believe that The One Almighty Creator who is Allah or God or the Lord or Jehovah or whatever you name Him has a son or sons.

 

A group of the disbelievers and the idolaters’ people of Mecca went to the Prophet Muhammad, and said to him:

Describe to us your Lord,

What is the lineage of your Lord?

what is He made of?

And to which species does He belong?

Is He made of gold, copper or silver?

Does He eat and drink?

Who did He inherit this world from?

And to whom will He bequeath it?’

 

and so Allah, exalted is He, revealed this Surah (Chapter 112) to describe His attributes and traits, saying:

Say (O Muhammad): He is Allah, the One!

He has no son or partner.

Allah is the Self-Sufficient, the eternally Besought of all; the One Who is always sought at times of need,

He begets not, nor is he begotten, for anyone who is begotten will certainly die and whoever dies will be inherited. Allah does not die nor is He inherited.

And there is none comparable unto Him.

He does not have anyone who resembles Him or is like Him

Naught is as His likeness

 

From the Islamic point of view, the conclusion of this essential topic that may establish or destroy the faith is that:

Any one who believe that the Almighty Creator has a son or sons; he messes his faith up and is considered as a disbeliever and in the afterlife he will end up as an eternal inhabitant of the hell.

Any one who believe that the Creator has neither a son nor a partner; he has a good faith and is considered as a believer and in the afterlife he will end up as an eternal inhabitant of the paradise. 

 

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The meanings of Surah (Chapter) 112 of the Noble Quran:

 

Say: He is Allah, the one; He is the Master whose glory is at its peak and for Whom all created beings are in need;

It is also said that means: He Who does not eat or drink;

It is also said that this means: He Who does not have an interior;

It is also said that this means: He is the Everlasting; He is the Sufficient;

It is also said that this means: He who does not have an entrance or exit.

He begets not, nor is he begotten

He neither begot, for no likeness of Him can exist, nor was begotten, since createdness is precluded in His case.

He did not inherit and will not be inherited;

And it is also said this means: He does not have a son who will inherit His dominion and He was not begotten, which means that He did not inherit His dominion.

Nor is there anyone equal to Him’, neither match nor comparison

there is none comparable unto Him

He does not have an opposite, peer, or equal nor anyone who may resemble or begin to resemble Him;

and it is also said this means: He does not have any co-equal who would compete with Him about dominion and sovereignty’.

 

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Surah (Chapter) 112 of the Noble Quran:

 

Verse 112:1

QARIB: say: ‘he is Allah, the one,

SHAKIR: say: he, Allah, is one

PICKTHAL: say: he is Allah, the one!

YUSUFALI: say: he is Allah, the one and only;

 

Verse 112:2

QARIB: the called upon.

SHAKIR: Allah is he on whom all depend

PICKTHAL: Allah, the eternally besought of all!

YUSUFALI: Allah, the eternal, absolute;

 

Verse 112:3

QARIB: who has not given birth, and has not been born,

SHAKIR: he begets not, nor is he begotten

PICKTHAL: he begetteth not nor was begotten.

YUSUFALI: he begetteth not, nor is he begotten;

 

Verse 112:4

QARIB: and there is none equal to him. ‘

SHAKIR: and none is like him

PICKTHAL: and there is none comparable unto him.

YUSUFALI: and there is none like unto him.

 

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Back to my question to the smart and interested reader:

Is the Quran quoted from the Bible?

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Acne Prevention – 8 Tips on How to Prevent Acne Breakouts

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 12:20 pm

Throughout your adolescence you probably suffered from acne. Most people would say that this is normal. Many people suffer from this condition. It is a fairly common skin disease that is shared by billions of people. If you are still experiencing acne or if you have a teenage son or daughter, you should seriously consider the various ways and means to prevent acne.

Acne Breakouts

Acne prevention is easy if you know how to. This is very important among young adults and teenagers since they are most likely to suffer from acne breakouts. Contrary to popular opinion, acne is not a condition that just afflicts teenagers. Even children may suffer from acne and there are people who continuously suffer from acne beyond adolescence. These people would probably suffer from acne for the rest of their lives if they do not find proper treatment for it. Fortunately, there are many things that you can do to prevent acne breakouts.

In order to pinpoint the exact acne prevention plan, you should at least know what possibly causes your acne. It may be due to improper nutrition or cleansing habits. Hormones could also play a huge role on acne breakouts. Knowing the probable causes of your acne or your child’s acne will help you direct your attention to the different acne prevention techniques.

8 Tips on Preventing Acne Breakouts

1. Usually, a skin blemish like a pimple would usually start to form two or three weeks before it actually appears on the skin’s surface. Before it actually pops out, there are some things that you can do to ensure a blemish-free skin.

2. Wash your face or skin regularly. It can never be too much stressed that you need to keep your skin clean and oil free.

3. Wash with a mild cleanser daily to keep off dirt and impurities. This will also keep your pores from clogging. However, frequent and obsessive washing may aggravate the condition. So, look out for this.

4. Use a mild or gentle cleanser. The kind of products you use to wash your face matters. Prescription soaps are also great for acne prevention.

5. Do not use astringents. This is only advisable if you have a really oily skin and use these on areas that are very oily.

6. Wash your hair regularly and try to keep your hair off your face. The dust, grime and dirt from your hair may irritate your skin.

7. Regularly wash your bed linens, pillow cases and towels. This will keep you from using items that are full with germs and bacteria that can cause acne.

8. Exercise regularly and adopt a healthy diet. A healthy diet especially one rich in Vitamin A will ensure a glowing healthy skin. Exercise will help in your blood’s circulation which will ensure that every cell in your body is properly nourished.

Acne is embarrassing especially for teenagers or young adults. It is difficult to socialize if your face is full of pimples, blackheads and whiteheads. This can take a huge toll on your child’s psyche or even your own self-esteem. If you are prone to acne, therefore, you should know how to prevent the occurrence of breakouts.

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How to Write a Best Man’s Speech By Ben Maffin of Maffin.co.uk

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 10:09 am

Intro

Ben Maffin of maffin.co.uk states that the Best Man’s Speech is generally some sort of a speech given after the meal at the wedding reception. The reason you may wish to give one can be as varied as the friendship, love, respect, a celebration of life or just because you want to recount the good times.

 

In many respects writing a Best Man’s Speech is similar to writing a good eulogy at a funeral. There are certain simple ground rules which you want to either do or avoid. Of course, once you’re on your feet in front of the audience there’s nothing stopping you from saying what you like – but bear in mind other people’s feelings. It’s a lot more gratifying having someone tell you how lovely the speech was, than getting something horrid off your chest.

 

What to do

Be nice; consider what you are writing as a celebration of the Groom or his achievements. Think about the audience and the person who is getting married (and who they are marrying)!

 

An older person will have a wealth of life behind them with which to draw stories whereas a younger person may not have achieved as much. This is no real obstacle when writing, as although there may be few details in someone’s life you have to play with it is likely that they are a loved one or friend so you may wish to talk about your POSITIVE thoughts and feelings.

 

It is important to type your notes up and save them, though as we will go through later you will not be reading them verbatim (sorry, but you just can’t) as you would a eulogy.

 

Keep the timing under 10 mins. No one will be listening after then unless you’re a professional speaker and have this down to a fine art.

 

What not to do

Be bitter. If the circumstances as to the wedding are controversial or you do not really agree with the marriage do not mention this. Do not use your speech to get back at anyone or try and have the last laugh. It’s just not what a Best Man’s Speech is for, chances are no one will thank you for it and your triumph will be short lived.

 

Do not mention other relationships, stay away from any drug use or violent stories.

 

If you’re not too sure what is, or is not appropriate consider how the bride’s mother would react if you sat in her lounge and gave the speech to her one to one. I found that one really worked well.

 

The Delivery

You are likely to be delivering the speech from the top table and without a microphone (if you do have a microphone make sure it is working before you start).

 

The key to a successful delivery for most people is practice. If you’ve used any long words or those hard to pronounce make sure you’ve practiced them aloud. Even better, leave them out and go for something else.

 

There is however no shame in standing in the bathroom going through the speech though you should ALWAYS do it aloud. It is not good enough simply going through it in your head, no matter how much you try and kid yourself.

 

A big tip here is DO NOT GET DRUNK before making the speech. It’s okay to have one drink, but save any heavy sessions until after you’ve finished.

 

The Delivery Notes

The BEST Best Man’s Speeches are delivered without reading off an A4 piece of paper. Do not read them verbatim – this is what school children do. No matter how nervous you are reading word for word makes you look nervous and your audience will respect you less.

 

Always TYPE up your notes in full before the event though just in case. Double line spaced in case you HAVE to read them out.

 

Ideally you want to use ‘cue’ cards which you will have hand written. Make sure the text is large enough to read from arms length. Remember that you will probably be stressed enough as it is without the added pressure of trying to find your place on a densely compacted narrative, or even worse notes you cannot read.

 

An example of a cue card I have used is located in this link. They are Concord Ruled Record Cards 5 x 3”

Do no rush the Best Mans Speech. There is never any rush. Take your time standing up when the MC introduces you, take your time getting your notes out and pause before starting. I would also look at your audience before starting as well, as it will connect you with them.

 

Always have three copies of your notes. One inside a jacket pocket, one inside a trouser pocket (or handbag) and one with a member of the audience who’s close by and will not give any of the delivery away and spoil the surprise.

 

Sitting Down and Actually Writing

This sounds like a weird thing to say, but until you start writing the speech you won’t actually have a speech. Sit down a good few months before the wedding and start drafting. It’s boring but do it. Try and find somewhere quiet where you cannot be distracted by a TV or Xbox 360 (I used the library).

 

Avoid using too many cliché quotes and steer clear of Best Man Speech books. Chances are half the people in the room will have heard the jokes from previous weddings, and remember the Groom speaks before you… if he’s been lazy (and Grooms are invariable when writing their speeches) he’ll have gone straight to the books and copied the quotes. You don’t want to try and tell the same jokes as him… they probably weren’t funny the first time, second time round you’ll drop like a lead balloon.

 

Structure

As with all speeches and writing in general the structure is key to successfully communicating what you want to say. Generally everything has a start, middle and an end. This may seem obvious but if you consider how this affects what you need to say and when, it is a great help.

 

Sometimes actually getting started is the hardest part of the whole process and having these three ‘idea bins’ (start, middle and end) to pop thoughts into make it a lot easier.

 

The Start

The start of any speech should set the tone of how the rest of the piece is to be delivered. This could include a somber start or even a joke. Just remember to try and get the tone right for the audience you are giving the speech to.

 

A good starter is stating the facts. Do not be crass, a simple line about who is getting married and why you are all there is perfect (see example above for my first cue card). Remember it can take a couple of sentences to get into the swing of a speech and keeping it simple at the beginning will help self confidence. It will also mean that the audience does not have to listen to complicated ideas or stories from the very start. As with the reader, it can take the audience a few moments to tune into what you are saying.

 

The Middle

The middle should be the major part of the Best Man’s Speech. This is where you get to stretch your metaphorical legs and deliver what you need to say. By this time your easy starter will have got you in the groove and your audience will be listening.

 

The Middle – Breaking it up – Narrative Linking

While the middle can be seen as the largest part of the speech, it is still best to break up the writing into easy, bite sized pieces.

 

Probably the most logical way of doing this is simple chronology. Most people’s thought processes use a simple time line to follow events. A to B to C. Start in the person’s early years and progress through. Avoid jumping about from one time to another as this will confuse your audience and probably you as you read it out.

 

There is nothing wrong in including funny stories as long as they are not too rude or would offend someone. Some of the finest speeches use visual aids (make sure they are not worth anything). A good example of this is when a bride’s father was giving his speech and he told the audience that his daughter had had a few serious relationships in the past but these were behind her, and if any of her gentlemen friends in the room had house keys to pop them in the jar at the front.

 

One by one half the men in the audience stood up and popped the father’s house keys in the pot.

 

Of course this was all staged, and the bride took it in very good humor but it is a perfect example of preparation and actions speaking louder than words.

 

It is possible to make up stories and fit a joke around them changing the characters.

 

By using other people and linking in this way you will find it will open up a larger wealth of stories and situations which you can talk about.

 

The End

This is the time to wind down the stories and end on a positive note. ALWAYS end on a positive note. Why? Because the end is usually the bit people remember. It is the bit they will have in their minds when you sit down and it is the bit they will associate you with.

 

This means keep it short, to the point and… you guessed it positive.

 

Round off the end of the Best Man’s Speech with a toast, “To the Bride and Groom”. Sit back and lap up the applause and if you’re lucky (or not depending what they look like) the attention of the bridesmaids.

 

Pulling it All Together

There are very few people who can write a speech in one draft. It usually takes LOTS of drafts and in many ways it is good to take a bit longer. Try and leave the speech for a few days before returning to it with fresh eyes. This way you will be able to see if something does not flow right or make sense. Sometimes it is advisable to read your piece in front of a confidant. This is a matter of personal choice. It can be quite hard to do but excellent practice!

 

Remember to take criticism on the chin if you go down this route. It’s not easy.

 

Conclusion

Maffin.co.uk reminds the reader that writing a Best Man’s Speech should be fun and it is a fairly simple affair if you follow a structured approach. It can be enlightening and the reason I have written this is because the Best Man’s Speech I wrote gave me a great deal of satisfaction after seeing the smiling faces of those I read it to. It also gave the audience something to consider and an easier opener to talk to people I didn’t know afterwards.

 

Lastly it is worth remembering that by the time it is your turn to give the Best Man’s Speech most of the guests will have had a tummy full of food and wine. They’ll be in the mood for a laugh and probably will not treat you too harshly if you get something wrong… and if you do it’s not the end of the world.

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I was an alcoholic and lost custody of my daughter Ive changed alot how can i make the mother see this?

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 6:09 am
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Prostate Health – Awareness is Crucial

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 5:21 am

Do you know what your prostate is? If you don’t, you are not the only
one. All men should know about their prostate. More than 30 million men
have problems with their prostate as they age.

Fifty percent of men over 60 have symptoms of an enlarged prostate.
Ninety percent of men over 70 have the symptoms.

Thirty-five percent of men over 50 have prostatitis (infection in their
prostate gland).

This year, 230,000 men will be told they have prostate cancer. 30,000
men will die from it.

Those are scary numbers for not knowing what a prostate is, aren’t they?

Prostate: What is That?

The prostate is a small gland that surrounds the urethra- the tube that
carries urine from the bladder to the penis. During puberty, the prostate
grows a lot. It stops growing and then starts again at about age 40. In a
lot of men, it doesn’t stop growing. About half of men do not complain of any symptoms regarding their prostate gland, but the rest of them develop health problems that need to be addressed immediately.

The 3 Illnesses Affecting Prostate Health
Enlarged prostate (BPH)

Prostate Cancer

Prostatitis, an infection in the prostate gland

Some symptoms of which every man should be aware:

Difficulty urinating

Pain while urinating

Erectile Dysfunction

Chills and Fever

Pain in the lower abdomen

How to Talk to the Doctor About Your Prostate Health

First, you need to make a list of all the symptoms you’ve been having and
any questions you have concerning your prostate health.

Tell the doctor about anything unusual you’ve been experiencing such as
changes in frequency of urination or problems urinating.

Describe your symptoms to your doctor. Don’t be shy about it. Doctors
can only help you if you tell them what is going on.

Whatever your diagnosis turns out to be, thoroughly discuss treatment
options with your doctor. Follow his advice and take medications as
prescribed.

If a man has prostate cancer and the problem is not caught before it has advanced very far, his chances of living are minimal. This is a terrifying thought because as studies have shown, men tend to put off going to the doctor. Some will go through severe pain and refuse to see an M.D… If you are one of those men, you need to listen carefully: If you have one of the three problems, you could end up impotent or worse- dead. If you are the wife, sister, daughter, son or father of a man over 40 and he does not see a doctor regularly, make sure he is informed.

By making yourself aware of the problems that will likely be part of your
future and making the doctor aware of the symptoms you have, you may
avoid years of pain, impotency and possible death.

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Is Nicole Richie Too Thin?

  • Posted on January 21, 2010 at 4:07 am

There is a great debate going on in Hollywood and everywhere else U.S.A. Celebrities are being scrutinized more than ever. Make that female celebrities:) And in this ever growing fish bowl is the new celebrity target – Nicole Richie.
In every celebrity magazine, every week, is a picture of Richie – looking quite thin – and bouncing about town in a new designer outfit and handbag that seems to be a bit bigger than she is:)
It was even rumored that her dramatic weight loss and refusal to get help for it was the source of the tragic:) break-up between her and her longtime friend Paris HIlton.
But to be fair – Nicole Richie has seriously transformed her life. She is the adopted daughter of a very public and tumultuous divorced couple – Lionel and Brenda Richie. Probably the initial source of many of her emotional troubles.
She battled her way back from a very tough alcohol and drug addiction through rehab and lots of family and individual therapy.
She landed a great reality television gig as Paris Hilton’s partner in crime on The Simple Life, and now she is getting married to fiance DJ AM. And appears to be very happy in that relationship.
Okay that sounds great – but isn’t she just too skinny?
While it is true that Nicole Richie looked unhealthy early on in The Simple Life and in other celebrity pictures around that time – I wouldn’t necessarily have called her chubby. Instead I would say, she looked bloated. Unhealthy from all of the poisons she was ingesting, Richie has said in the past (such as on the Oprah show) that she had been on an escalating path of alcohol and drug abuse since the age of 13.
When coming clean – it is very possible that Richie began an extremely disciplined exercise and diet regime to reclaim her health and control her life. And then went – overboard.
Many times people who suffer from an addiction of some kind – alcohol, drugs, overeating, gambling etc., will substitute that vice for another intense activity, addiction, or obsession. That is why it is not recommended for people who are in a 12-step program to begin dating each other. Instead of dealing with themselves, they just substitute the energy spent on getting drunk or high on the new relationship. And the relationship becomes too intense, too fast, and fizzles out quickly because there was no real foundation.
Nicole Richie may have simply substituted years of addiction with the compulsion to control her life and feelings in other ways, and controlling her intake of food is one way she may have chosen to control her life. Of course this behavior can easily manifest itself into a full-blown eating disorder, because it is based on the principle of “control” where these disorders usually begin.
The Bottom Line?
Well, the bottom line is that although she may have her reasons – Nicole Richie is way too thin – too skinny – much too petite. Hopefully, in spite of all the media attention to her weight – she will get the “real” kind of help and attention she needs from her friends and family, as well as direction from a mental health professional who can help her redirect her energy into more positive avenues.
Good luck Nicole!

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