My daughter is 21. She and her best friend came to visit all of the family here. We are a very close family. “Jill” & I did not feel like going out so her husband, “Will” [aged 30] offered to show them the town, and took them out to dinner,and to a club to go dancing,etc. Jill & I hung out, while they went out. I admit that I was getting uncomfortable when they had not returned by 2:30, but I just never dreamed Will would ever be inappropriate with my daughter, ever. She only has known him as Uncle “Will” for 15 years! When I learned that she abruptly went home this early AM I knew something was terribly wrong. When she finally answered her cell phone, she started sobbing, saying he bought them several shots, he took them back to their hotel, & as they were very intoxicated, he come onto both of them, majorly. My daughter insists it only went as far as kissing or trying to; and some groping. Her friend was very offended & scared. WHAT do I do? I’m SO upset. For my daughter & my cousin!
He acted VERY nervous all morning. Jill has no idea. My daughter has begged me to keep quiet. She is terrified this will be the cause of them getting a divorce and they have 4 kids. She is heartbroken. I am furious because SHE is NOT the one causing anything, HE IS! However, I also know NOW it was not the smartest thing to allow them to all go out. But I really NEVER thought he would ever cross the line with her. My poor cousin & I even said all night, Thank God, she is having so much fun & HE would keep the girls safe!!!! What do we do? I feel in my heart my poor cousin deserves to know her husband is a perverted louse! Do I or my daughter tell her?! or do I confront him?!?! My husband is also VERY angry & that will be VERY hard to conceal in the long run. This is awful! Why does the world have to be so “wrong”?????
My cousin [who is like my sister] has a husband who definitely crossed the line with my daughter…?
questions about juvenile drunk driving?
So last night, I partied, drove drunk and my car spun out causing zero damage to me, the property or my car. Heck the tow truck did more damage pulling me off the side of the road then I did getting there.
I’m 17, clean record both driving and criminal, very cooperative with the officer, shoot I’m friends with his daughter.
So I was arrested and charged with failure to control a vehicle and operating a vehicle under the influence.
The officer told me this was the highest misdemeanor possible.
I wanna know what kind of trouble I’m looking at
I appreciate all serious answers, I made a bad choice, but there isn’t anything I can do about it.
EASY question, easy answer, easy points. I need help.?
My ex boyfriend recently (July) was put on probation for a year and a half for battery. WHY? Because he went after me in front of my 6 month old daughter. So…… He doesn’t have his license, he has like 8 driving while suspended fines, and just got his 9th. And his 3rd OWI.
What will happen, since he’s on probation, as well?? In wisconsin can he legally drink when he’s on probation for domestic assault?
Just curious. He already has a domestic abuse, when he was with another girl from 6 yrs ago on his record.
CAN ANY OF YOU READ?
HELLLLLLLLOOOOOOOO
I said MY EX BOYFRIEND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HAVEN’T been with him for 7 months and don’t have any intentions of being with him. I truly hate him
If you get busted for Misd. Drug charges while on probation for a felony charge will you go to jail?
I just found out my ex got busted for Possession of Amphetamine/LSD/Psilocin and Possession of Drug Paraphernalia. He is already on probation for felony Forgery-Uttering from last year and had felony burglary charges read in. He served 4 months Jail time with work release and has 3 years probation. Obviously the drug charge is a violation of his probation but it is only a misdemenor. If found guilty will he go back to jail?
On a side ote i find this very funny since he and his family have been trying to make the case that he should be allowed to see our daughter because he is clean. Obviously not..this is a huge bonus for my husband and I who are trying to get the courts to allow him to legally adopt her
My daughter doesn’t want to see her mother. What do I do? My wife is not in the right mind anymore.?
I really need to know what to do here because I can’t seem to get the proper help from the state or from other places I’ve called. Main problem is money as well as the mothers ability to lie and deny.
The problem is me and my wife were married for 3 years, together for 5. We were on oxycontin for a year and I got off of it because I didn’t want to stay on them and continue being sick. I just got medicine and quit, and she was going to do the same. She did not, but she also had legitimate back pain and had a prescription. She did say she was weening her self down.
A year later she is still doing them and even more than before. she had resorted to shooting them up for a while. She then supposedly went into the ER twice, once in each county near here, for drugs because she ran out and then spent 3 days in a rehab type place because she was going through bad withdrawals before her prescription was filled. She was then removed from the pain meds in march she told me and had to go cold turkey and one month after that she is now back to shooting them up, but says she’s not addicted and is doing them recreationally. She has physically shown me the track marks on her wrist, not her bicep. They are on her wrist and totally visible if you look at them. Her own mother even seen and felt them.
Now I’ve called DCF twice on her about this because she will leave the child at home with her grandma and not say anything, or leave notes before the child wakes up. She spanks her with a 5 gallon paint mixing stick because she said last time she used her hand that she broke a blood vessel in her pinky. She lives in a bad neighborhood now and has told me that she knows the 2 people across the street deal drugs (surprise! she knows and I wonder why) and that she has heard 2 times of the back door handle being jiggled like someone trying to break in. She loans her car out to drug dealers because it’s about to be repossessed and she figures that if they get arrested in it and it’s taken who cares, she scored pills or money. I could go on for a while but this is the more severe stuff. Her grandmother is upset that she leaves the child with her and that she will loan her car out.
Now the problem is that she is a great liar and good at deception. I’m really starting to think she’s a sociopath for her behavior over the last year. I dunno if she was always this way but she has gotten worse over the year. She had me and her mother arrested for battery. With me she thought I was cheating on her because of her own cheaters paranoia and attacked me. The arrest is gone, never went to court because my lawyer dealt with the state attorney. She lies about stuff she has shown and told me because she’s so paranoid I’m recording everything in person or on the phone. She swore I had our house bugged before we moved out of it and wouldn’t speak of anything unless we went out in the yard that she could get in trouble in court for like lying in court or her drug use.
She told my best friends gf she was still doing the drugs and that if we broke up again she’d tell the state I molested my daughter. She did try it but it didn’t work. She lies and lies and lies some more and always seems to get away with it.
When she was on drugs and dealt with dcf, she had a prescription but did way more so she always had a reason for having it in her system. Now she’s clean and I know she’s shooting up and she still shows up clean but she also isn’t getting it as much but craves for it like when she first got hooked and said the other day to her mom she almost sold some GI pills that looked the same because she was desperate. However now that she isn’t addicted where she will get sick, she still has visible track marks on her but nothing seems to be done by the state about it and the state always seems to rush things and doesn’t let you tell them the whole story in detail as I can do here.
My 4 year old daughter never wants to go back to her mother when I bring her back. She immediately gets depressed looking and says I don’t want to see mommy, I don’t love mommy, mommies mean, mommy hits me, etc. She will not really talk about it with me much because she just gets really quiet when I ask or starts saying what she sees trying to change the subject. The most I ever got her to say was “Mommy is mean and she hurts me when she hits me and I don’t want to see Mommy” It’s a struggle to give her back to the mother and always results in me staying for hours to calm her down because she doesn’t want me to leave. My wife has admitted to hitting her at least every 3 days because she acts up.
She has even called her own mother and said that she doesn’t know what to do with the baby and I would only do things like go get groceries or take a trip to best buy.
Really the list goes on and on but this is a good summary of the situation. I’ve tried to
What can I do? nothing seems to work. DCF doesn’t ever do Sphit and the courts don’t seem to care without video proof. But I have about 50 pictures of her passed out all over from her drugs. She refuses to admit she has a problem still and says she’s a good mother. She has moved 3 times in under 3 months because of her drugs and being kicked out. No one can see this but me and her close family and I was told a march-man act won’t work because she can’t be proven a danger to herself or others. I’ve tried once with a baker act for her behavior since she admits to me she was bi polar. I really am clueless on how to stop her and get her help. I don’t want to take my daughter from her, she did it to me for a few months and it wasn’t a happy time. I just want to have at least 50% custody like now but have her a normal mother who isn’t running around for smack.
I am not with her, we got back for 2 months and that ended with the arrest because she was STILL on drugs and I confronted her about it.
The only reason the divorce isn’t active is because of how she lied to get more custody so I stopped that dead in it’s tracks and proceeded to get more evidence, which the judge didn’t care about. Pictures to a judge I was told don’t seem to work because it shows a small moment of what is going on. But the pictures of her passed out over months time span I guess don’t show she’s an addict passing out sitting up all the time and sprawled across the bed funny.
As I said the biggest part right this moment is the money. I’m so broke I can barely get by because of saturation in my market. I want to get a PI and find out. I would love to tell the cops about the drug dealings but I dunno if they’d stake her out for that. friend of hers called once and told them where she was once and they couldn’t pull her over cuz she drove perfect.
I am also not letting my daughter go back because I have to be tough and tell her to get help. I know at this point if I gave her back that she wouldn’t let me see her for a while.
It’s funny she can tell me no but I can’t say no.
She uses my daughter as a pawn claiming she’s all she has left. The truth is she has nothing because what I didn’t take in the split she sold and spent the money and then wants me to pay her more. Most of the stuff she sold was mine anyway while I wasn’t there.
10pts to ever can make me fall asleep or laugh?
I am so tired. I can’t fall asleep because my percocet have kicked in and are making me feel awake, but I want to just crash. My wife is asleep and so is my daughter, I have her for the weekend. I am stuck awake, on this computer answering questions, that I do not really know. Messing up my best answer percentage and watching Charmed. What the hell?? This is wicked crazy…
Is she a alcoholic, My daughter does not really go out and drink?
all the time at all are at home. but when she does go out socially with work are friends and ends up drinking she cant stop and gets really drunk and sick knowing that this will happen to her everytime she does this yet she still will drink if shes around friends that do. she always has a excuse of why this has happened and she has acted bad in behavior before also while drunk and being really sick after words because she is also on antidepressents. Her doctor and therapist told her she was a alcoholic and she needs aa she does not believe them. because she does not drink all the time she might do this only once every couple of months are so. What do you think. thanks
daughter addicted to masturbation. HELP!!?
It unbelievable. She will just be sitting on on the couch with us in the living room sticker her hand down her pants and act like nobody can see or hear her. we hear her moaning at least 10 times a day. i dont even wanna know what she does at school. shes 14 now. i need advice someone please help before she starts using men to fill her addiction
Should I stay or should I go?
So I have been with my fiance for over two years now and we have a daughter together. He has been in and out of drug abuse almost the whole time we have been together. I don’t want him to miss out on his daughter growing up and I love him with all my heart but I feel like he is never going to quit doing drugs and spending all of our bill money when he does do the drugs. He goes out on binges at least once a month. Do I leave him or stay with him?
Are there any believers who have struggled with alcoholism and found turning back to God helped them?
I’m a wife and mother who has found myself overwhelmed by my alcohol use. What started out as something to relax or calm my nerves over the stresses of marriage, work etc has multiplied into a problem. Now I am drinking every single day, earlier sometimes too. I also smoke cigarettes and run off to the bar because I don’t want to drink or smoke around my daughter.
I need some words of encouragement because it feels like i’m not strong enough to stop this cycle. I am wasting money, like $200 a month on my drinking/cigarette habits. I want to stop but when the stress starts, it seems it’s the only release I have.
HELP!
OK. Those quotes didn’t really help me with my problem but thanks, it is interesting. I’m not only talking about Christianity, but believers of God, in general.