My brother just text messaged me. He told me my 24 year old daughter wants to move out because of my alcoholism. He does not have any clue what he is talking about. My daughter was on percosets for 2 years and is finally clean. She spoke to him to get money to start on her own, it’s her inheritance. She wrecked 2 cars, ruined many tires, stole money, abused her mother and now after a brief conversation with him he blames me. I am a responsible person who does not need the interference of a brother who critiques me afrom afar. I am not crucifying my daughter, I resent him inferring that it’s my fault. Any advice on dealing with the doting brother ?
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Why did this man put a restraining order on my friend then move to where she moved to clear across the US ?
This man was married to the grand daughter of a mob boss. he took my friend to court and got a restraining order against her claiming he was afraid for his life. Judge Scoville made her leave the state. She relocated over 3000 miles away. this man we will call Sal follwed her and moved his wife, father and mother there and lived three blocks away. She mysteriously was raped at the Scottsdale Hilton Resort. Then someone broke into her home with her three day old baby, drugged her with PCP and Ecstasy. She lost her mind then died.
How can I make my daughter stop using a pacifier?
She will be 5 months old on May 13. She is addicted to pacifiers and I hate them. They always fall or I always seem to be losing them. She is generally a very easy baby but when she wants her pacifier its a different story. What can I do to help my daughter in this situation? Does your baby still take a pacifier?
How much time for cocaine and marijuana in texas?
my step daughter got caught in texas with about a pound of pot and an 8 ball cocaine…she had prior marijuana conviction in kansas for a little bit and close to a school and child endangerment but they were all misdmeanors and she was off probation when she got caught again. How much time do you think she will get?…the priors were in kansas if that matters
How can I tell my mom how her addiction has and still is affecting my daughter and I?
I don’t wanna seem like I am blaming her for me getting pregnant and being 16 with a daughter. Having sex was my choice. I just think I could have prevented all of this if she was more “involved” in my life. Don’t get me wrong. I LOVE my daughter more than anyone on this Earth and she is only person that can make me happy. My mom has an addiction to beer, cocaine and weed. Which is why I don’t allow her to watch my child. When I was little she bought boyfriends in and out our house and had sex with them in front of me. At the dinner table, if I looked up at her boyfriend she would smack me. This has been on my mind for the longest. I’m trying to make life so much better for my daughter and she is NO help. I love her but I don’t feel safe around her.. PLEASE HELP.
How can I get past this and just move on with my life, was I in the wrong?
so two years ago I married the man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. We get married, I get pregnant and come to find out he wasn’t the person I thought I was marrying. He is an alcoholic and over the past two years of our marriage has had alot of issues, jail, lieing, stealing, you name it. but being the supportive wife I was I supported him. Last year in July he left me and our girls and left the state to his moms because being away from his drugs and alcohol was getting to hard so he left, went on one of his binges, became incarcerated and I moved on. Come November we started talking again and he promised he was done and wanted to make it work with me and the girls. So he moves back and of course I carried a grudge on my shoulders for he had done and it was hard, I still didn’t trust him when he came back but I tried. I found him a job, supported his recovery, and not to mention he didn’t have a license so I made sure he was where he needed to be 24/7 even if it meant dragging our kids out at 12 midnight. I did so much and come to find out since he’s been back he has been cheating on me with little teenage girls?? He’s 25…..so I kicked him out last weekend and already he is with his little girlfriend. he hasen’t called, nor checked up on his daughter. I call my father in law and he totally switched it around saying that if I would of just trusted him and gave him a clean start when he came back and forgot what happened in the past and don’t be down his throat so much he wouldn’t of left and now this is my bed to lay in. I am just hurt, for almost three years I have taken care of him, supported him and yeah it has been hard because of the emtional rollercoaster he put me through, but I feel so low. How can I get over this, he is scum and I know my life was going no where, but the fact he lied and just moved on with his new girlfriend and showed no remorce or emotion what so ever??? What can I do, and I have no way of contacting him, his dad said he dont want me knowing where he is at or to contact him anymore and i have filed for divorce, but how can I get over the emotional state and just move on and stop thinking about what he did and is doin?? I keep putting it in my head that maybe I was in the wrong and I should of been more supportive, but I tried. Then all of our happy times we shared keep poppin in my head and I just think, how could he?? Over a week now has passed and he hasn’t seen nor called about our daughter, nothing….I just don’t know how to feel?!?!
what’s the best way to destroy a narcissist?
Don’t get me wrong. I don’t hate my soon to be ex. wife. i realized she was a narcissist. she was wounded as a child by her mother. however her mother still has control over her. she’s a child in an adult body. we married and blended familes. she had a daughter and i had two kids. i knew the pain for the kids and us about not working out. she obviously didn’t. she was engaged twice before me and her daughter went through multiple fathers. she told me you’re the only father she will ever know. then she left. she’s a narcissist. i stood up to her crap. she wasn’t strong enough to move away from her narcissistic mother. now her daughter is paying the price as well as my 2 kids. she’s been doing this for 10 years and everybody cleans up her messes so she just moves on. her mother is so narcissistic she wanted the marriage to fail. they say the best way to make a narcissist realize and grow is to expose them. outside she projected the perfect woman. she had DWI’s, abortions, and broken relationships that nobody questioned. It was oh you pick the wrong guys. Wrong! I finally exposed her to her parents. The ones she was afraid of. All the stuff they didn’t know only the poison she told everybody to get sympathy. Now she’s stalking me every morning. I’m the parent she never had and she’s mad as hel@. They say punish the little kid in them then love them for it because they never had that when they were a kid. I’ve had no contact with her for 3 weeks though after she left. What should I do considering she’s a narcissist? If you don’t know about narcissists, don’t answer. You wouldn’t understand what they need or what you need to do so they can experience true love. They never had it and it’s foreign to them. I don’t want to destroy her but just her false self so she can love. How to do that? I really need answers from the therapists trained in this.
our daughter’s boyfriend got her on Meth in her food now her body wants it now she knows she is on Meth?
and brought some of it to my house and I live in another state and she flew on a plane to get to my house with Meth in a napkin in her purse. Now her boyfriend and her are married she is in her 20′s and what can I do to help her. Her dad and I wasn’t allowed to be at their wedding and we’re not allowed to contact her at all or to even try to see our daughter he said if we did he would call the police on us for trying to see our daughter.We need some real help with this problem,please help.
How much water is used weekly in a Dry Cabin?
I want to know about how much water I need to transport a week, 50 gallons, 100 gallons, more?
Dishes drinking, and a once a week for my daughter (showers at my parents house the rest of the time), for luxury purposes…
If you know the answer, serious answer and not some gasping comment of amazement that people live without running water, please~
Also, I live in Fairbanks, Alaska if that helps…
That was supposed to be a once a week bath for a my daughter… sorry!