i found my daughter’s diary and read. what i found was horrifying. explicit sex fantansies about various tv stars such as ryan gosling, jake gyllenhaal, billy joe armstrong, and tom cruise are vividly described using words and actions i did not know she knew. she has played many sexual games at various unsupervised parties. she vivdly described the experiences that she has had with each of almost 20 young men. two girls were also in the list. several drugs, such as meth and heroin were mentioned. many pages had notes about alcohol. i really don’t know what to do. i didn’t realize that she was participating in such dettimental behaviors. i am afraid to confront because of the privacy issue. but if this goes on, the effects could be life threatening. another thing: her brother has known what has been going on all of this time. by the way she writes in her diary, it sounds as if my daughter enjoys the secret life she leads. what should i do?
she is 15 years old.
my daughter’s diary?
Are we have headed for a divorce? Please help?
Nothing seams to make my husband happy. We have headed for a divorce. Please help?
I know this is a long story.
I am a stay at home mom.
True enough I don’t cook for my husband but that’s only because he do not like the way I cook. I don’t like to cooking. He told me I was a sorry wife and it was a shame that other women(his co workers and friends) have to bring food for him. I through yeah it is a shame. So the next day I asked him what did he want me to cook. He told me so I went to the store to get what he wanted. I can home I cooked it so that he could take some with him to work that afternoon. He wanted me to cook enough so that he will have food at work for him. But he got ready to leave for work he told me that his friend was bringing him some food and he was not taking the food I cooked with him.
He told me I don’t clean right. But he is the person who puts leaves his stuff everywhere. And he told me not to touch his stuff because when I touch it, it seams to get lost.
But my thought is he just don’t want me anymore.
He stays out all night almost every night. The has been going on for about 3 months now. I have asked him to stop. But he still do it. I have tried just not caring but that just makes me cry more. He tells me he spends the night at his friends house. Why would a married man spend the night at his friends house almost every night?
He got another woman’s name tattooed on his leg about a month ago. He told me he got drunk and a friend bet another friend $100 to do it. How drunk you would have to be to not feel a tattoo being done?
He wont help with anything.
I am trying to get a job. I have applied for a bunch of jobs online and I was getting call back interviews. We have an 11 month old daughter. But he wont stay home with our child so I could go on interviews. He wont go with me to pick out a daycare. Is the something both parent should do together?
We don’t have a car or a washer or drier. So we do our laundry at our local laundry mate which is 2 blocks away. He will not help me to OUR laundry to the laundromat. The last time I went I called him and asked him will he help me bring the stuff back he said no and hung up in my face. I told him I was not doing is laundry anymore.
Why would you let your wife or girlfriend or baby mama drag laundry 2 blocks alone?
And he lie about little dumb stuff.
We don’t do anything together. We don’t eat together. We don’t sleep together. We don’t spent time with each other. We don’t have sex as much. Its plain to see he just don’t want to be with me.
I asked him to leave and go be with the lady who’s name is on this leg, he told me he is not going anywhere. He wont leave.
I find myself crying everywhere day. But then I think the man is not worth my tears.
Can I please have any advise from married and divorced people?
We live in apartment with no washer and dryer hook up.
My ex husband is fighting for more custody of our daughter. He is bi polar what can I do to prevent this?
I was engaged to a man that had a felony, at 17 he was in a drinking and driving accident and the passenger was killed. He did 4 years in jail. Then at 23 he went back for a 1 1/2 because he picked his ex up from the bar and his other ex was there and went to the cops and said he hit her. So my parents think that because of these things I should not be involved with him because it makes me look like I have poor judgement and not being a good mother. This was in his past, and he has changed, are my parents right? I’m I wrong? How am I supposed to ditch on the man I love because of his past, yet is that what I have to do to do right by my daughter. I need advice, help!!
If you are a person who likes to read books.?
Tell me if you would be interested in this book.if their is anything you would changes any ideas corrections any help is appreciated thanks.
The story starts off as a happy couple with a daughter just living together peacefully. Man is having trouble at work and blames wife. they fight and he goes for a walk. he gets attacked by a bum and accidentally injected wit heroin. He freaks out goes home and passes out feeling wonderful. He wakes up groggy and never wants to do it again. His wife hates sex and finds it not needed unless for children. The man has an affair and rushes out leaving his wallet. The other woman finds him and confronts his wife sayin he raped her. the wife goes to her mother taking the daughter and the man goes out looking for more heroin. He soon works things out with his wife but becomes addicted to heroin. Eventually the wife finds out and leaves him for good. He’s so depressed he ends up overdosing in a alleyway, starts into convulsions and eventually dies. Right after he dies his phone rings and a picture pops up indicating its his wife. She leaves a voice mail saying that she will get him help and stand by him because her love is that strong for him.
Should I tell my husband his daughter is probably a lesbian?
My husband’s daughter from his first marriage is 26 years old. She lives in another state. I have always suspected she is attracted to other women. I believe because she hasn’t been able to be open about this it has caused a lot of emotional problems for her–including alcohol addiction. It has also caused her to distance herself from her dad, who she was once very close to. He feels rejected, but doesn’t know why. He is old school, and somewhat homophobic I’m afraid to say. However, I feel that I could explain thing to him in such a way that he would be able to accept his daughter’s lifestyle eventually. At the moment, her whole family is wondering why she has taken up with a 40 yr old woman. I believe they are lovers. So far, I have kept my feelings to myself, while listening to all her siblings tell her dad what bad choices she is making and asking themselves why. Should I talk to my husband about my feelings or stay silent?
Melissa T., I do exactly that. I have even spken up for transexuals. I had my DH watch a show with me once about transgendered people. Then I asked him, “How would you feel if you went to sleep tonight and woke up tomorrow with the body of a woman?” I asked him if it would make him feel like a woman on the inside, just because he looked like onen the outside? He agreed that I was right and that these people hadn’t made a lifestyle “choice” and that they were born feeling this way. That is why I think I could help him adjust to his daughter’s situation. I can’t talk to his daughter. She is still mad that her parent’s divorced and that her dad married me. I am open to a relationship wth her, but I am letting it be on her terms.
my daughter’s diary?
i found my daughter’s diary and read. what i found was horrifying. explicit sex fantansies about various tv stars such as ryan gosling, jake gyllenhaal, billy joe armstrong, and tom cruise are vividly described using words and actions i did not know she knew. she has played many sexual games at various unsupervised parties. she vivdly described the experiences that she has had with each of almost 20 young men. two girls were also in the list. several drugs, such as meth and heroin were mentioned. many pages had notes about alcohol. i really don’t know what to do. i didn’t realize that she was participating in such dettimental behaviors. i am afraid to confront because of the privacy issue. but if this goes on, the effects could be life threatening. another thing: her brother has known what has been going on all of this time. by the way she writes in her diary, it sounds as if my daughter enjoys the secret life she leads. what should i do?
she is 15 years old.
My wife is an alcoholic, liar and totally irresponsible?
I am not totally unfamiliar with Alcoholism, but I am finding it difficult to understand why my wife would refuse to get help, refuse to live up to basic commitments such as providing for her two daughters (from a prior marriage) and refuse to stop telling me lies while all the time knowing that she is destroying our marriage. I have gone from having a deep love for her to not feeling much at all. In fact, every instinct I have is telling me to run away from this insanity, but what little love is left and her two daughters whom I love just as if they were my own is telling me to stick it out. BTW…her two daughters live with her ex. I guess my question is…how much madness must I go through before cutting my losses and running. I can provide more details if needed.