she wants to start school…..she can count and say the alphabet and knows her colors and can do basic addiction and subtraction.
should I put her in a 4 year old program or let her wait a year for kindergarten?
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Did you feel like this before you found out you were pregnant?
I have 2 kids, a 4 year old daughter & 10 month old son. We are not trying to conceive at this time, but this is very weird to me. 2 nights ago I felt very weird, and not feeling very well, and got very nauseous out of nowhere. I thought maybe it was because I had a couple drinks, and then had dinner. But that never happens to me. I went to bed and woke up feeling fine. Yesterday I was very tired feeling, but felt okay. And today I woke up feeling okay, and went grocery shopping. At the grocery store it looks like I may have started a light period, but it isn’t due until the 9th. My period is 28 day cycle and very regular. So I am 5 days early. Then as i was putting away groceries, I suddenly felt VERY nautious, went to the bathroom, and had some dry heaves, no puke though. But still feel queesy. Anyway, with both of my children, I never had any symptoms. And have NEVER felt this way before a period or during. Does this sound like a possible pregnancy? Or am I over reacting to just a weird period month? I also feel very achey in my lower back & legs…sudden increase in appetite the last week & a slight yeast infection (which happened very early on with both of my previous pregnancies)….
How to save myself from myself?
Okay i had a normal childhood the only thing that is different is that when i was like a few months old my biological father ditched me and my mom. she meet the man i called my dad when i was like a year old. He adopted, but he was going through issues with his ex wife and won custody of his daughter and she came to live with us. this all happened when i was about 8. everything changed there attention was all on her i was just someone in the house. i didn’tt mind it but it hurt i was pretty much forgotten about. i became overweight and form like 2nd grade on i was made fun of i had maybe one freind from about 2nd -8th grade. when i was 12 my biological dad wanted to be apart of my life. we became good friends i met that whole side of my family it felt good to get to know them. about after a year contact they all stoped talking to me i tried calling them but they ignored me. it hurt me so bad, i eventually ignored it and hid it away and tried to avoid thinking about it cause it hurt. from that point on i lost everyone i had no freinds i talked to i spent all my time at home watching tv, or staring into nothingness. i felt like my life was worthless and i was good for nothing. im now 17 and i started my senior year in highschool i still have no freinds. well on the first day of school i met this girl i got her number and we’d sit and talk on the phone for hours about a week went by and we kissed. everything felt so good my life finally felt good for once. she went and stayed with one of her freinds for a weekend and then everything went to shit and she stoped talking to me. i thought i ruingeed my life even more. i felt so bad i tried to find out what happened and she said that being with me made her relize how much she was in “love” with her x. we fought and didnt talk for like a week and eventually we made up and were just freinds well sort of. every time i see her i feel good inside and horrible at the same time. having someone that cared for me the way she did felt so good and now its the only think i want to feel. but i have no one i barely see her anymore i cant talk to anyone, when i try to i start like crying and cant talk im going to see a doctor about antidpressants cause im afraid if i keep going like this im gonna end it. the feeling i had when i was with her was so intoxicating its the only thing i want to feel. i dont know how to go on with my life. i try to find an empty classroom and just sit there at lunch when im at school. people know my name but i dont know anyone i have no idea how to go about and make friends i cant stand feeling this way anymore its killing me inside and im not sure what its gonna do to me in the long run. I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE
im tired of feeling this way i want friends i want to fit in for once in my life. i dont know what to do or how to do it. im so lost and im afraid if it werent for the fact im too afraid of dying i would of tried to kill myself.
Who do you go to if the law covers for themselves?
the alderman copling of cuba missouri got his wife (and him interferr out of a drunk driving ticket the chief protects The cuba missouricity police refused to do anything or take a report when alderman copling punched his youngest son in the face about a week and a half ago. also he has been making deals with sid pearson to keep his daughter out of trouble. She forged a money order for over $800 and cashed it at country mart in rolla but sid got her out of trouble and they went after her cousin who manages there instead. now if you go on case net it is all there. she is on probation for 2 years starting on 4/5 2007 case number 06f7-cr00533 out of stoddard and was to violate no laws. she has an warrant issued for her arrest document id number 07-fawr-837 issued on 6/12 2007 out of phelps county o7ph-cr00550 for passing bad checks again so you can see she already is breaking probation plus she has a court date on 7/27 2007 for 3 charges case number 041290572,041290573, and07a9-cr00473
Question on smoking during pregnancy? Plz help…?
I don’t smoke , I have tried it when younger and never liked it. My sister is 27 yrs. Old and pregnant with her 2 daughter. She never smoked during her first pregnancy but she has used heroin about 2 years ago on and off for about a year. She has been clean since march when she found out she was pregnant, we are extremely proud of her abstinence, but most of all her choice to take this step in the right directio,and also the bravery to tell us, and have the proof that she has been cleaned since she was the one that took the steps to be clean and is drug tested every week, and is actually back to the person we knew with her job and school and things like that. The problem is that she can’t stop smoking! And the doctor advised her not to use any over the counter stuff just to quit!!! She says that she feels like smoking after taking subutex which is what she is on and will be on until about 2 months after baby is born… has anyone smoked during their pregnancy? Was the child affected? Was the baby ok? I don’t mean to sound ignorant but I just don’t know anyone who smoked during pregnancy… also I am asking because at the 29th week checkup the baby was a little underweight and now the doctor wants another ultrasound just to watch out for growth? Has this happened 2 anyone? Pls answere and thank you in advance.. also want to say that she has only 2 months 2 go is there anything she could do to make the baby stronger? Anything she should eat? Etc…
POLL: What’s the most immature thing you and your friends have recently done?
My best friend and I play with Barbie dolls sometimes, haha. We make the Ken Dolls buy bras, the teenage daughter works at HOOTERS, they had a giant oven to cook people in because they are cannibals and they had a Meth Lab in the backyard and a bunch of other crazy crap. lol
Sometimes we go to the Kiddie Playground too, lol.
What about you guys?
Easy Non-Alcoholic French Drink Recipes?
My 13 year old daughter needs to make a french drink recipe for her French class. It does have to be non-alcoholic, and everything I find on the internet is alcoholic. Does anyone have a easy recipe (and cheap) that they can provide me or direct me too? It needs to be able to feed at least 20 kids.
Is my 18 year old daughter back on drugs?
Well she got with a guy and they ended up living together and a year into it we were all suspicious that he was an heroin addict with a major crack habit i told her to get out but she “loved him”.. cut a long story short he got her on heroin and crack cocaine also injected her and puttin her in hospital with heroin overdose. They are now splt..
She got herself clean eventually after being on heroin and crack for year, she did a subutex detox which didnt work but the methadone detox did (or so i thought)
Lately she’s lost alot of weight not eating, She has alot of spots and sores on her face and arms, legs etc.She is on benefits and most of the time she tells us she hasn’t been paid or it goes extremley quick and telling me she has no money by sunday she gets paid on a friday, She talks about drugs alot, and alot of people call her a smackhead, crackhead in the street her hygeine isnt great i always tell her to get a shower and wash her clothes.she has blister and burn marks on her right thumb she just says its where she bites her skin.
I kicked her out she is living with her father and i moved a short journey away to a differant town only see her on weekends. Her father hasn’t said anything to me but he is never there he’s always working or out drinking. he is working away at the moment so she is all by herself with no food etc her nan gave her £20 but im not sure if it was spent on food or something else.
She is also drinking alot and sleeps around and still goes to the local drug clinic but if she is clean why go. Do you think she may still be using heroin or crack?? outsiders opinion would be great.
We tried rehab but she left 2 days into it
How can I handle an OVER-zealous National Guard recruiter?
This guy seems to be stalking my soon-to-be 18 y.o. daughter. He is encouraging her to forgo mental health & addiction issues in her search for self.
Yazid ibn Mu’awiyah… was he a good man?
from sunni books/scholars
Ibn Taymiyyah, a Sunni scholar stated the following concerning the nature of Yazid’s position:
““Yazid had the sword and hence he had the power to deal with anyone that opposed him. He had the power to reward his subjects with the contents of the treasury, and could also withhold their rights. He had the power to punish criminals; it is in this context that we can understand that he was the khalifah and king. Issues such as Yazid’s piety or lack of it, or his honesty or lack of it, is another matter. In all of his actions Yazid was not just, there is no dispute amongst the people of Islam on this matter.””
- (ref book: Minhaj as-Sunnah an-Nabawiyyah )
Shaykh al-hadith Muhammad Zakaria, an Indian Sunni scholar, has stated the following regarding the manner in which Yazid came to power:
““The army that Yazid had sent to Madinah comprised of 60,000 horsemen and 15,000 foot soldiers. For three days they shed blood freely, 1000 women were raped and 700 named Quraysh and Ansar were killed. Ten thousand women and children were made slaves. Muslim bin Uqba forced people to give allegiance to Yazid in such a manner that people were enslaved and Yazid could sell them as he pleased, no Sahaba who were [with the Prophet] at Hudaibiya were spared.””
- (ref book: ‘Au Khanar al Masalik vol.3 pg.450).
Ibn Kathir a famously renowned Sunni Islamic scholar, himself reports on the character of Yazid:
““Traditions inform us that Yazid loved worldly vices; would drink; listen to music; kept the company of boys with no facial hair; played drums; kept dogs; made frogs, bears and monkeys fight. Every morning he used be intoxicated, and he used to bind monkeys with the saddle of a horse and make the horse run.””
- (ref book: al-Bidaayah wan-Nihaayah vol.8 pg.1169)
Ibn Sa’d, another Sunni scholar, writes in his book, “Tabaqat Al-Kubra” regarding the nature of Yazid:
““Abdullah bin Hanzala the Sahaba stated, ‘By Allah we opposed Yazid at the point when we feared that stones would reign down on us from the skies. He was a Fasiq who copulated with his mother, sister and daughters, who drank alcohol and did not offer Salaat.””
- (ref book: Tabaqat Al-Kubra vol.5 pg.66)
After Yazid’s death, when Muawiyah II (Yazid’s son) was made to be the caliph, he stated the following in his inaugural address with regards to his father and his grandfather (Muawiyah I), as recorded by Ibn Hajr al-Haythami another scholar of the Ahl us-Sunnah:
““When Yazid’s son came to power he gave the speech:
‘Khilafat is from Allah. My grand father fought for khilafat against an individual who was more entitled to it, that being Ali. He (Mu’awiya I) performed actions that you are all aware of, and he is suffering in his grave for that. Then my father Yazid became the khalifah even though he was not deserving of khilafat. He fought the grandson of Rasulullah ( Husayn ) and is suffering in the grave on account of his sins.’
Mu’awiya bin Yazid (Muawiyah II) then proceeded to cry, ‘It is a terrible thing that we are fully aware of Yazid’s bad deeds: he slaughtered the family of the Prophet, he deemed alcohol Halal, and set fire to the Ka’ba.”
@ Zubayr:
Please do explain how is it a political event?
And you say you do not praise him? then why to you put (RA) after his name?