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What are your top ten favorite songs of all time and who are they by?

  • Posted on February 28, 2011 at 7:21 pm

Mine are:
1 Even Flow- Pearl Jam
2 Bullet With Butterfly- Smashing Pumpkins
3 Jane Says- Jane’s Addiction
4 Possum Kingdom- Toadies
5 Pink- Aerosmith
6 Daughter- Pearl Jam
7 Black- Pearl Jam
8 Counting Blue Cars- Dishwalla
9 The Remedy- Seether
10 The Red- Chevelle

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My daughter is heading down the wrong direction and I wanted to know any advise on some ways to correct this?

  • Posted on February 28, 2011 at 5:22 pm

My 16 yr old daughter has recently become very defiant and seems to think that she does not have to listen to us. I am aware that she is also starting to experient with drinking and weed. The last couple weeks she has cuzzed at her parents and will not listen. My wife and I will usally take away something as her consiquence( no phone, lighter curfew, no driving, etc) as a way to show her that her actions is not acceptable, We have asked her many times why she is acting this way and her reasons thus far have been invalid. I don’t want her to end up going down the wrong path, and i am thinking that a behavior camp might be the ticket as this may give her a wake up call. As of now my daughter thinks she can just run the house and the tension has become a problem with my wife and our 10 yr old daughter, I just had to file a runaway report- good news is we have located her at her friends house, however her attitude is very dis-respectful. Any advise?????

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My 5 years olds family??? help?

  • Posted on February 28, 2011 at 5:21 pm

So i got pregnant when i was 18 by my BF at the time, long story short he was a junky and passed away of a heroin overdose when she was 1 1/2 old. she was always my priority in everything i do, and still is. i never brought guys that i dated around her till now, i met the man i’m engaged to about 3 years ago now, where getting married in Nov 2009, she was about 3 yrs old when she met him, and they both look more alike than her and i. i know crazy huh? anyways she has no idea that he is not her dad, he treats her as if she is his, supports her financially, mentally, physically, ect. we added another addition to the family another girl who she loves and adores, she’s a wonderful big sister. the problem i have is with her “real dads” family, he has 5 brothers, and obviously their mother, my daughters grandma. at first they supported my relationship, and then they where threatened by it, and telling my 3 yr old at the time, that he wasn’t her dad, ect. showing her pictures of her “real dad” whom she has no clue about. it’s been 2 1/2 years now, and i will not let her go anywhere with them by herself, the grandmother is very controlling and likes to put her 2 sense in where it’s not needed or asked. i’m almost to the point where i just want to cut all ties with them, they cause problems with my daughter and her security, and also my relationship, it’s very hard for my fiancee to continue to be her DAD, when she comes home and says hurtful things that they tell my daughter, and when her behavior changes so radically. am i doing the right thing by not letting them see her? or will she hate me later for keeping her from them?
Thank you so much for the positive feed back, yes i do plan on telling her about what happened if she ever ask, but i feel like that is my responsibility, and no one else’s, i also feel like there’s an appropriate age to do that, and 5 yrs old isn’t that age.
I HAVE ONE MORE ??? CAN THE GRANDPARENTS TAKE ME TO COURT FOR GRANDPARENTAL RIGHTS? I LIVE IN CA? ALSO I’VE MADE IT VERY CLEAR TO THEM THAT THEY CAN COME OVER OUR HOUSE WHEN THEY WANT TO, I JUST WILL NOT LET THEM HAVE HER ALONE, I DON’T TRUST WHAT THEY WILL SAY TO HER??

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this is really not so funny, but star if you like it?

  • Posted on February 28, 2011 at 1:21 pm

One day Bill complained to his friend, “My elbow really hurts, I guess I should see a doctor.”

His friend offered, “Don’t do that. There’s a computer at the drug store that can diagnose anything quicker an cheaper than a doctor. Simply put in a sample of your urine and the computer will diagnose your problem and tell you what you can do about it. It only costs $10.”

Bill figured he had nothing to lose, so he filled a jar with a urine sample and went to the drug store. Finding the computer, he poured in the sample and deposited the $10. The computer started making some noise and various lights started flashing. After a brief pause out popped a small slip of paper on which was printed: You have tennis elbow. Soak your arm in warm water. Avoid heavy lifting. It will be better in two weeks.

Late that evening while thinking how amazing this new technology was and how it would change medical science forever, he began to wonder if this machine could be fooled. He decided to give it a try. He mixed together some tap water, a stool sample from his dog and urine samples from his wife and daughter. To top it off, he masturbated into the concoction.

He went back to the drug store, located the machine, poured in the sample and deposited the $10. The computer again made the usual noise and printed out the following message:

Your tap water is too hard. Get a water softener. Your dog has worms. Get him vitamins. Your daughter is using cocaine. Put her in a rehabilitation clinic. Your wife is pregnant with twin girls. They aren’t yours. Get a lawyer. And if you don’t stop jerking off, your tennis elbow will never get better.

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My 16 year old daughter is dating a 19 year old neo-nazi white supremacist! how do we get her to leave him?

  • Posted on February 28, 2011 at 2:20 am

How do we get her to leave this guy? He has a swastika tattooed on the back of his head and he and his brother still live with their mom and sell meth outta his basement! she’s considering dropping out of high school for him. They are already having sex (nothing we can do about that) and I’m scared that they might get her pregnant since we forbid her from using condoms in order to sway her form having sex. it seems useless now. what do we do? she won’t listen to us!

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What would convince you to allow your 16 year old daughter spend the night with boys and girls?

  • Posted on February 27, 2011 at 7:22 pm

Ok, so I will be a junior in high school next year, and my friends throw parties with alcohol. To avoid drinking and driving, people just bring sleeping bags and spend the night wherever the party was hosted.
So, my parents are fine with me drinking alcohol, but they arn’t okay with me spending the night with guys. They are afraid something bad will happen.
But nothing bad does happen. First of all, I would never do anything like that. And second, the guys, besides drinking and occasionally street-racing, are good guys, and none of them would try something.
I try to point this out to my parents, but they are just like well you may thing they won’t, but we don’t know that.
I don’t like lying to my parents, so what could I do to change their minds?

Also, please, if you arn’t going to answer the question I asked, don’t bother answering. I will just ignore “you should wait until you’re older to drink” type responses.
And don’t assume things about me and my parents. My parents are amazing, even if they are stricter than I wish sometimes. And I am a good person even if I do drink occasionally. I have all As or A-s in school, and my teachers like me. I’m not the stereotypical “bad kid” image that people sometimes think of with underage drinking.

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Am I in the wrong?

  • Posted on February 27, 2011 at 7:21 pm

Should I feel bad for not letting my 3 year old daughter stay the night with her mom every week? She is 7 months clean from using Heroin and precriptions drugs for over a year and while she was pregnant (not mine) and taking care of my 3 year old. I have full legal and physical custody and neither of my court orders (yes I have two and its a long story lol) say she should can have overnights and the CPS worker on the case in the beginning has said many times she shouldn’t get overnights but I would give them to her every once in a while to be nice. So now she is claiming I am hurting my daughter by not letting her stay overnight with her every week but its like the courts didn’t seem to think that when they gave me the orders. What do you guys think?

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friends daughter pregnant please advice?

  • Posted on February 27, 2011 at 6:17 pm

hi guys can do with a bit of advice here please. my daughters friend who’s almost 14 has just found out shes pregnant. long story short.my own daughter made her take a test and come straight to me for advice.
i know her parents need to be told but i really don’t know how to go about it as her parents are alcoholic’s and drug users and couldn’t give there daughter a 2nd thought.
i know she will have a good beating when they do find out as shes had many over the years.
she knows what a stupid thing she had done and believe me she is in bits. more so over the facts of how her parents will react.
should social services be involved before her parents are told as i am really concerned for her well being and can see her father trying to kick the baby out of her. she has missed 2 periods so im guessing shes at least 8 or 9 weeks pregnant.
please any advice will be much appreciated on how to handle this situation
thanks in advance
because i got the tile wrong way round. was meant to be daughters friend sorry for the confusion

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Ephedrine addiction symptoms?

  • Posted on February 27, 2011 at 4:21 pm

I need to know the symptoms and signs of Ephedrine addiction. Please. My daughter is trying to loose weight. She has been taking ephedrine for about 6 months, maybe more. I don’t even know who she is anymore…
Please help me with this…

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consequence when a teen see’s Mom snorting drugs?

  • Posted on February 27, 2011 at 1:21 pm

What are the effects on a teenager when she see’s her Mom snorting a crushed pill? I was in my bathroom and saw me snort up a crushed anti-anxiety pill.I didn’t know she was there and she didn’t say anything until I got home. I asked what was wrong She started to sob and said I saw you do crack or cocaine. My daughter is 17, an excellent student and preparing for University next year. I have said please don’t do drugs all her life and she hasn’t. She has only seen me drink a few time. Which is totally by choice. She has always thought of me as a straight great Mom. In a flash her trust has changed forever. What should I do?

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