She is a dry drunk. She is manipulative, verbally abusive and just plain unpleasant. I am six years sober and my life is really based on truth, kindness and honesty.
Would you, in my shoes, allow her near your child at all if she continues to preach falsely from the 12 step programs, continues to judge everyone who is not in a 12 step program, verbally abuse, manipulate and lie? I, quite frankly, do not want her near my child. My sister physically, verbally and emotionally abused me my entire life. I had told her to keep away from me a while ago, but in the spirit of Christmas, engaged in dialogue with her. Big mistake.
Just yesterday, she e-mailed me that the only reason she spoke to me was so that she could have a relationship with my daughter and my husband. (She’s gay, she’s NOT after my husband, folks.) It seems that she just needs to covet other people’s lives in order to feel like she has one of her own. She actually had a picture of my cat in her home. Weird.
Okay, so I am sober, physically and emotionally. I know that I have a duty to myself and my family. Do I have any obligation to this person who happens be my sister? What so scary about her is that she moved back east to be close to her neices and nephews, but Im pretty sure that she isn’t allowed to see any of them.
More scary? She is a college professor. She actually is teaching your children!!
I mean thath I would like to be certain that if my daughter is visiting my parents, that she is not in town and sneaks in a visit. That’s how much damage I think she is capable of.
