my ex is getting my 15 yr old drunk..what do i do??
my 15 yr old daughter is on vacation w/ her dad in california. its been 6 weeks. so far i know of 3 different occasions where she has gotten VERY drunk and her dad supplied the alcohol. last night i saw a pic of her on her myspace with her dad and some other guys drinking in Mexico. WTF?? ive called him and yelled. at them both actually. they both promise it wont happen again. the first day she was there, she chipped her front tooth on a beer bottle. she’ll be home in 4 days, but im worried cause this will be her last wekend there, and i dont know what kind of parting theyll be doing to help see her off. anyone out there in california feel like hunting him down and kicking his a ss for me?? but really, what would YOU do? Im already never sending her out there again. this was the first time. here at home, she’s a good girl.
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7 minutes ago
you all have great advice. thank you so much! this has really been bothering me. even my other children are upset by it knowing what their sister is doing. Youre so right about taking her to Mexico. We do have a court order saying he cannot take her out of the US, and I know what he has done is illegal. I told him that. I told him I will have the cops there, and have them put my daughter on a plane. And I will take her to the Dr’s. I know she has “gotten lost” with an 18 yr old while drunk, kissed a differnt boy while drunk, and who knows what else. This is heartwrenching:( She was still a virgin, I hope she still is. I wanna hurt that man. And WTF means what the *uck!! Thank you again, and please keep your answers coming. I’ll put them all together and nail that irresponcible loser.
I’D JUST LIKE TO ADD THAT YES MY STORY IS REAL. IM ALREADY PISSED, WHY DO PEOPLE HAVE TO BE RUDE A**HOLES ON HERE. IM ON HEAR FOR ADVICE NOT TO BE CRITISIZED. I AM A VERY GOOD MOTHER AND IM OBVIOUSLY VERY WORRIED AND BOTHERED. OR I WOULDNT BE ON HERE ASKING STRANGERS FOR ADVICE. I THOUGHT THAT IS WHAT THIS THING WAS FOR. AND I AM OFF MY *SS TRYING TO DO SOMETHING. I HAD 3 HRS SLEEP LAST NIGHT (LAST NIGHT IS WHEN I SAW THE PIC AND CALLED MY EX), IT BOTHERS ME VERY VERY MUCH, SO IF U HAVE SOMETHING CRAPPY TO SAY ABOUT THIS OR “MY” PARENTING SKILLS, KEEP IT TO URSELF, OR IT’LL BE UR *SS I’LL WANT TO HUNT DOWN NEXT.
