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I need to know what is considered child abuse?

  • Posted on April 19, 2011 at 5:21 am

‘My boyfriend introduced you to a guy who was married but had another female companion living with them in which they share the same bed with and an 8 month old daughter who sees this sexual acts taken place along with the child’s father who smoke marijuana and heroin, he also has a photo studio set up in which he invites different women for sex and pornography..is that considered child endangerment and abuse? We suspect the other woman may be a sex offender, she was spotted touching the child a few times, when I tried talking to the mother about ti she told me to mind my business. I live in Rochester NY where cops don’t care and CPS is ran by humans services which isn’t considered competent Child services it is run by the same Office that does welfare assistance and you don;t need a degree in child care to do this type of work. What can I do?
Okay I live in Rochester,NY where CPS in not doing it’s job correctly. I have called for a woman who did not clean up her house there were moldy food containers on the floor her children smelled terribly she lived in a roached infested environment. Guess what? CPS did not do anything for those poor kids. They looked the other way. So I highly doubt they will do anything about this.I’m so scared I did send an email. I even sent pictures. The child looks healthy but the father was kicked out of college for fondling another student he tried groping my breast once. My boyfriend moved his hand away. People in this town are strange and cold and distant. It is always cloudy the crime rate is ridiculous here. I want to post a picture on here that to me looks disgusting it doesn’t look like fatherly love. http://i66.photobucket.com/albums/h255/frankibus/unaturallookpeter.jpg

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I just saw Brianna’s story, child abuse should be punishable by death!?

  • Posted on January 3, 2011 at 7:23 pm

I just saw this video on youtube and it made me so sad and angry that people like this exist, that children suffer like this…
I have a little girl that just 1 last week, i can’t imagine anyone hurting her, i would kill for her.
I used to drink at parties before i got pregnant and when i gave birth i decided that alcohol wasn’t something i wanted to return to since i was a mom i never wanted to be intoxicated around my child or have to leave her so i go party.My husband also decided to not drink anymore, he says he will drink again when our daughter can have a drink too at 21 :)
Now more than ever especially after seeing this story i will never drink again…
These people are so stupid and should be put down and mistreated as they did to this poor child.

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Living with a 33yr old son’s drug abuse?

  • Posted on December 12, 2010 at 7:21 pm

Hi, My son who is living at home in an adjacent 35ft caravan as his partner has thrown him out leaving his little 4yr old girl that he loves dearly over 400miles away whilst my husband and myself were away for the first time traveling Europe, he should have been looking after the home but did some considerable damage and left us with some debts phone etc. However I returned spent weeks sorting out mess, He admitted to me the problem that he was smoking Heroin as he missed his daughter so much. So after trying myself to get the pills he needed to Detox him at home and failing. I went with him to my doctors, who was extremely helpful wrote out prescriptions etc so detox could go ahead. On the second day of being clear, a dog that he had previously been to see, for his daughter, phoned up and we went up with my son to collect him. Where he was near the area where he had previously got the Heroin he opened the door and ran out of the car we followed him. When we saw him go to the door of the supplier my husband who is 68yrs old tried to intervene, my son returned to the car furious as the supplier would not deal with him, because he could see a problem. He punched the back of my chair and literally laid into his father with all his strength causing a great deal of pain. I drove on but decided to give him an ultimatum as I was frightened for our safety and our two Bassets that were with us in the car. I told him to get out and get his Heroin them but he would lose his daughter, who was coming down for her school holidays if his ex partner decided he was cured. His employer who was aware of the situation he would loose as well and myself and his Father as I don’t want to see violence like that again. I frightened to leave home as I feel he will damage our home. I’m frightened to stay and see his addiction grow and whatever violance may come from that. Can anyone outthere advise me, I can’t shop him to the law. if he went to prison thats how most people get on drugs in the first place. Help please?

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Living with a 33yr old son’s drug abuse?

  • Posted on December 11, 2010 at 9:21 pm

Hi, My son who is living at home in an adjacent 35ft caravan as his partner has thrown him out leaving his little 4yr old girl that he loves dearly over 400miles away whilst my husband and myself were away for the first time traveling Europe, he should have been looking after the home but did some considerable damage and left us with some debts phone etc. However I returned spent weeks sorting out mess, He admitted to me the problem that he was smoking Heroin as he missed his daughter so much. So after trying myself to get the pills he needed to Detox him at home and failing. I went with him to my doctors, who was extremely helpful wrote out prescriptions etc so detox could go ahead. On the second day of being clear, a dog that he had previously been to see, for his daughter, phoned up and we went up with my son to collect him. Where he was near the area where he had previously got the Heroin he opened the door and ran out of the car we followed him. When we saw him go to the door of the supplier my husband who is 68yrs old tried to intervene, my son returned to the car furious as the supplier would not deal with him, because he could see a problem. He punched the back of my chair and literally laid into his father with all his strength causing a great deal of pain. I drove on but decided to give him an ultimatum as I was frightened for our safety and our two Bassets that were with us in the car. I told him to get out and get his Heroin them but he would lose his daughter, who was coming down for her school holidays if his ex partner decided he was cured. His employer who was aware of the situation he would loose as well and myself and his Father as I don’t want to see violence like that again. I frightened to leave home as I feel he will damage our home. I’m frightened to stay and see his addiction grow and whatever violance may come from that. Can anyone outthere advise me, I can’t shop him to the law. if he went to prison thats how most people get on drugs in the first place. Help please?

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Living with a 33yr old son’s drug abuse?

  • Posted on December 10, 2010 at 11:20 pm

Hi, My son who is living at home in an adjacent 35ft caravan as his partner has thrown him out leaving his little 4yr old girl that he loves dearly over 400miles away whilst my husband and myself were away for the first time traveling Europe, he should have been looking after the home but did some considerable damage and left us with some debts phone etc. However I returned spent weeks sorting out mess, He admitted to me the problem that he was smoking Heroin as he missed his daughter so much. So after trying myself to get the pills he needed to Detox him at home and failing. I went with him to my doctors, who was extremely helpful wrote out prescriptions etc so detox could go ahead. On the second day of being clear, a dog that he had previously been to see, for his daughter, phoned up and we went up with my son to collect him. Where he was near the area where he had previously got the Heroin he opened the door and ran out of the car we followed him. When we saw him go to the door of the supplier my husband who is 68yrs old tried to intervene, my son returned to the car furious as the supplier would not deal with him, because he could see a problem. He punched the back of my chair and literally laid into his father with all his strength causing a great deal of pain. I drove on but decided to give him an ultimatum as I was frightened for our safety and our two Bassets that were with us in the car. I told him to get out and get his Heroin them but he would lose his daughter, who was coming down for her school holidays if his ex partner decided he was cured. His employer who was aware of the situation he would loose as well and myself and his Father as I don’t want to see violence like that again. I frightened to leave home as I feel he will damage our home. I’m frightened to stay and see his addiction grow and whatever violance may come from that. Can anyone outthere advise me, I can’t shop him to the law. if he went to prison thats how most people get on drugs in the first place. Help please?

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Living with a 33yr old son’s drug abuse?

  • Posted on December 10, 2010 at 1:21 am

Hi, My son who is living at home in an adjacent 35ft caravan as his partner has thrown him out leaving his little 4yr old girl that he loves dearly over 400miles away whilst my husband and myself were away for the first time traveling Europe, he should have been looking after the home but did some considerable damage and left us with some debts phone etc. However I returned spent weeks sorting out mess, He admitted to me the problem that he was smoking Heroin as he missed his daughter so much. So after trying myself to get the pills he needed to Detox him at home and failing. I went with him to my doctors, who was extremely helpful wrote out prescriptions etc so detox could go ahead. On the second day of being clear, a dog that he had previously been to see, for his daughter, phoned up and we went up with my son to collect him. Where he was near the area where he had previously got the Heroin he opened the door and ran out of the car we followed him. When we saw him go to the door of the supplier my husband who is 68yrs old tried to intervene, my son returned to the car furious as the supplier would not deal with him, because he could see a problem. He punched the back of my chair and literally laid into his father with all his strength causing a great deal of pain. I drove on but decided to give him an ultimatum as I was frightened for our safety and our two Bassets that were with us in the car. I told him to get out and get his Heroin them but he would lose his daughter, who was coming down for her school holidays if his ex partner decided he was cured. His employer who was aware of the situation he would loose as well and myself and his Father as I don’t want to see violence like that again. I frightened to leave home as I feel he will damage our home. I’m frightened to stay and see his addiction grow and whatever violance may come from that. Can anyone outthere advise me, I can’t shop him to the law. if he went to prison thats how most people get on drugs in the first place. Help please?

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meth abuse?

  • Posted on October 26, 2010 at 12:20 pm

Can anyone EVER get off of meth? My granddaughter has been using meth for 8 years now. Her children – she has three children – were taken away and my daughter has custody. Is there any hope for my granddaughter?

When I was growing up there was no such thing as meth – but there was heroin.

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Desperate! Need help finding a Substance abuse clinic for my daughter.?

  • Posted on October 18, 2010 at 10:23 am

She is addicted to oxicotten. we have no money. Does anyone know of any goverment funded clinic in the dallas area?
Desperate! Need help finding a Substance abuse clinic for my daughter?

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Given how they abuse their positions, how can Cops expect the respect of THE PEOPLE or themselves?

  • Posted on October 14, 2010 at 4:33 pm

Yesterday, after being held in jail for seven hours for committing the “crime” of being rear-ended by a cop’s daughter, I noticed a poster handing in the police station with a glorified picture of a police officer and the word “respect” written accost it.

Given how often and how egregiously police officers abuse their positions, lie, and generally prey upon the American citizens they swore to protect, they can expect any respect either from the American public or even from themselves when they look in the mirror (that’s assuming that they still can look in the mirror).

Specifically, I was rear-ended by the seventeen year old female offspring of a Passaic (NJ) cop while waiting at a red light in Wayne, NJ.

Immediately after the accident occurred, the girl began telling anyone who’d listen that she was the daughter of a cop (something her father likely trained her to do to ensure she received favored treatment from other cops).

Once the police arrived, she reiterated that she was the offspring of a cop and the (Wayne, NJ) police proceeded to take her statement first.

When the officers went to take my statement, they waited until I’d gotten half way through my first sentence and claimed that they smelled alcohol on my breath. This is odd because, due to a family history of alcoholism, I elected not to drink and, other then Communion, never have.

Without allowing me to finish my statement, the officers placed me under arrest, handcuffing me in front of all the witnesses to the accident, and placing me in the squad car. Despite the fact that I told the officer that my back was hurting from the accident, they refused to loosen the cuffs or cuff me in the front where my arms wouldn’t be pulling on my shoulders and back.

Once we arrived at the station, they told me that all the officers who were qualified to operate the breathalyzer were “busy” and that I’d have to wait in a cell until one of them had the time to administer the breathalyzer.

It turned out that all of them were “busy” for the next eight hours during which I was forced to sit in a damp disgusting cell, handcuffed to the bench, with my back throbbing.

When the breathalyzer was finally administered, it registered a BAL of .0002% (an attorney and friend of mine informed me that this reading could result from the inherent inaccuracy of the machine or from alcohol naturally released when food ferments in the stomach-something that happens when someone hasn’t eaten in a 10 hours) well below the legal limit of .08%*.

I was then released but still had to pay for the towing of my vehicle to the impound lot (the state CLAIMS that it will reimburse me for this in 10-12 weeks) and pay for a cab to take me to the impound lot (an expense I won’t be refunded).

After this disgusting display of corruption and favoritism, I found the “respect” poster highly ironic.

After engaging in behavior like this, how can police officers respect themselves???

Furthermore, how can these same police officers expect the public to respect them???

*Furthermore, my friend told me that while the actions of the cops were immoral, they can be made to appear technically “legal” and thus it wouldn’t be worth pursuing LEGAL action against these officers…I can’t say what would happen if I met any of them or the b*tch who started this by hitting me in a dark ally…

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How do I go about convincing my daughter to go to substance abuse counseling?

  • Posted on September 15, 2010 at 4:23 am

I really think my daughter is addicted to drugs. I am going to visit her this week, over 600 mile drive. She is 23 and living apart from her husband and 3 yr old son. She has admitted to me she has used drugs, but I think she is addicted. She is enrolled in college. I thought I would try & start w/ the school counselor. What do you think?
ty so much for all answers, yes she will be resistant, & has admitted to pot, xanex and even cocaine. Yet she doesn’t admit to problem. This is all over the phone, I’m not popping in on her, she knows I’m coming. She has said she wants therapy, but for depression, not drugs. I just don’t want to push her away & am not sure of how much legality is involved & what options I’ll face. I know she won’t go to AA or NA to start with that’s why I thought about the college counselor to recommend strict outpatient rehab maybe?

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