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My 17 year old daughter was busted for “selling alcohol to minors”?

  • Posted on May 9, 2011 at 8:17 am

She worked as a part-time cashier for Foodlion as an after-school job. She was preoccupied checking out customers one afternoon (it was very busy and she had a long line) and some kid brought up a can of what seemed to be one of those energy drinks and she rang it through without thinking about it. It turned out that the “customer” behind the young man was an undercover agent and what the young man had purchased was an alcoholic drink. (I’m Mormon, I don’t drink alcohol, and I don’t even know what it was or how to identify it. My daughter didn’t know what it was, either.) She got fired from her job, of course, and came home in tears. I was so sad for her, because she loved her job and loved to work.

My daughter is pretty much a responsible girl, although a little naive. She has never been in trouble before. She gets pretty decent grades in school and was planning on going into the army–in fact, she had an appointment with the recruiter this Thursday.

Well, anyway, we had to go to court. This was an utter goat-rope of gigantic proportions. I was trained as a paralegal and yet I never imagined that court would be like this! There was about 300 people of all ages crammed into the courtroom and they had to form a line around the room to make their way up front and plead their case. When it was her turn, we got to this guy who pulled her file and said that she could plead guilty and pay a fine, or go to a juvenile rehab program for which I was to pay $300. Those were our only options. I asked about the option of pleading not-guilty and he just kind of fumbled around and stuttered for a while, and said we could come back to court on another day. He didn’t say when.

Well, sorry, I was a single parent, I spent 2 1/2 months out of work this summer because I was laid-off from my job and had hell trying to find another, and I didn’t have $300 to give to juvenile rehab programs, especially when my daughter doesn’t need rehab. She needs to concentrate on finishing her last year of highschool and go on to her career.

I spent the last couple of months trying to find work and now that I have a job, I can’t afford to take days off to fool around. My time being unemployed caused me to be late on my bills–now I have bill collectors ringing me up all day. I came awful close to being homeless this summer–my church paid my rent for me.

Well, this was back in August. It’s December now and I just got home from work and met my crying daughter at the door. It seems that the sherriff came by to let her know that she would be going to jail tomorrow. What the freak?!! She’s just a little 17-year-old kid and all. Where’s the justice in this?! I now have to take a precious day off work to figure out what I am going to do.

The undercover cop is sitting back all smug and snotty saying he was just doing his job. I can’t stand this.

What can I do?
It was a sting operation, the “customer” and the undercover cop were acting together

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My daughters boyfriend killed her in a wreck because of alcohol.?

  • Posted on February 26, 2011 at 9:23 pm

My daughter (18 yrs) and her boyfriend (22 yrs) went to a party two weeks ago. He was drunk and driving, and killed my daughter in the wreck. He has had 3 major wrecks due to alcohol…two of which involved my daughter, and he has walked with no punishment all three times. Now, we are waiting for blood test to come back to determine if this is a manslaughter case. I don’t understand why he is still walking around able to flee at any time. Now I found out that he is drinking and going to party’s again and already sleeping with another girl. I feel as if I am gonna lose my mind if something is not done soon. I want Justice to be served. What can I do to put him behind bars….he is going to do it again to someone else.

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Poll: What is the proper age to start letting your kid drink alcohol?

  • Posted on February 16, 2011 at 6:17 pm

I’m a recovering alcoholic. I know every teenage does it…that’s just the way it is. But my daughter is 13, is that too young?

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Pressing Charges to Someone that Serves Alcohol to Minors in their Home….State of Indiana!?

  • Posted on January 23, 2011 at 1:25 am

I reside in Chicago, IL but lived in Indiana forever. My daughter who 17 has a childhood best friend who is 16 that is still in Indiana. I know the mom well and she is a party girl and skank. Yet, she is professional and I thought she was different at home. She has 6 children and is not involved in their lives like I am in my children’s life. So, I never questioned when my daughter spent the night there.

I just found out from my oldest daughter that my 17 year old called her drunk….drunk dialing. I confronted my 17 year old daughter and she began to cry hard. I found out this drinking started at their house when she was about 14!!!! It has been a long night for me. I told she is not to associate with them any longer, she is to remove them from Facebook, MySpace, and not to call them because I would be checking the phone bill. I hate to ruin a relationship that has been this long when the other mother is buying them alcohol. My daughter told me the other mother asked what they wanted and she would go to the liquor store and get what they wanted. After more interrogation the mom and her fiance’ had a fight New Years Eve and everyone was drunk. She packed my daughter and her 6 children in her van and drove them to a hotel! The mom was drunk and driving with my daughter. I did ream my daughter for not calling me to come get her!

So, what can I do? Do I go to the police and file a report and risk getting my daughter in trouble? She did drink it and could have said no. Could my daughter get in trouble?
Do I report the mom to Child Protective Services? So, then I wonder if the mom has to be caught in the act before the police or CPS do anything? Should I let sleeping dogs lie and not allow my daughter back to their home?

Frantic Mom!!!

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Is he crazy? or is it alcohol? or is he a sex addict?

  • Posted on December 30, 2010 at 4:32 pm

Been off and on with this guy for three years and its been a rollercoaster. I know I’ve added my own baggage into the situation but I don’t know if i really am losing my mind and I’ve been blaming myself for the demise of our relationship. He drinks heavily when I see him. I asked about his alcoholism but he denies it. He persued me in the beginning with full force but broke up with me after 3 months, so for the last 2 years, i’ve been trying to make something work between us because i feel like i did something wrong. But sometimes, he seems so detached or distracted. He has a lousy relationship with his daughters. He blames his ex’s for cheating and taking money from him. Sometimes I think he looks so far gone or something… i don’t even know anymore! and lately i’ve been realizing i’ve been foolish to want to try and have a relationship with someone like him. last week i found out he’s been having sex with several hookers. He pays them 200-400 bucks per hour. He even took one hooker to tahoe for the weekend. He’s never done that for me. I felt so hurt! I remember asking him a long time ago that i would move on if he would tell me he’s been having sex with other people. he denied it. I asked him again last week, i pretended i didn’t know about the hookers. he told me that i should move on for my own benefit but he denied sleeping with prostitutes. And he looked at me as if he was so disgusted by me. he’s thirteen years older than me, and i thought he had my best interest at heart, but how could he do that? he’s also into bdsm. i know i have issues why i’ve stayed with him. but i cant stop thinking that it was my fault, that if i’ve been more understanding, less clingy, or something it wouldnt have happened. then part of me also wants to save him when i’m still in school.
if it wasnt my fault thing turned out like this then i want to know if he have some personality disorder or something. i just want to know that there’s nothing i can do to change him or save him. i really don’t know anymore.

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Would u provide alcohol for your teen-aged son/daughter’s party??

  • Posted on December 30, 2010 at 4:17 am

Let’s say your son/daughter wants to have a party. Would u provide alcoholic beverages for all their underaged friends that will be in attendance at the party?

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Would u provide alcohol for your teen-aged son/daughter’s party??

  • Posted on December 29, 2010 at 6:17 am

Let’s say your son/daughter wants to have a party. Would u provide alcoholic beverages for all their underaged friends that will be in attendance at the party?

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How does one convince someone to get help with an alcohol problem?

  • Posted on December 3, 2010 at 2:17 pm

My daughter, 17, was dating a guy for about a year. He was a nice kid with an alcoholic for a mom, an unemotionally detached, but financially stable step-dad, a neglectful biological dad, absent grandparents, druggie friends. I let him stay with us the second semester of their Junior year. The agreement was that he had to go to school, get a job and help out around the house. It did not happen. So he is back with mom and step-dad. He is back to drinking. And he has anger management issues. He still loves my daughter and won’t get over her. Anyway, he shows up drunk and professing his love for my daughter. So, I took him home and on the way tried to talk some sense into him. A couple of hours later, his mom calls drunk, thanking me for bringing him home. This is so frustrating and emotionally draining. What do we do?

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every year i make wine at home and this year i need to take the alcohol out of it for my daughter?

  • Posted on November 18, 2010 at 12:17 am

she will be mad at me for a long Time if i don’t get non-alcoholic wine
and its a family tradition to make it not buy it what do i do

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Why isn’t alcohol illegal and why the hell do people think it’s ok to do METH AND OTHER DRUGS?!?”?

  • Posted on November 12, 2010 at 6:21 pm

“29-year-old Robert E. Hensley of Unicoi, Tenn. is accused of slapping his girlfriend’s 8-year-old son. He’s also accused of duct taping his girlfriend’s pug to the dog’s body and rubbing the dog’s butt in the kids’ faces. Prescription drugs and alcohol may have been involved”

” 43-year-old Manuel De Jesus Rosales of Lehigh Acres, Florida is a brutal killer.
He’s accused of slitting the throat of his own daughter while in a drunken rage. Not content of just slitting the throat of his own daughter while she looked on he also slit the throat of his 3-moth-old grandson, the daughter’s son. Unfortunately the baby did not survive the attack. After slitting the baby’s throat he allegedly presented him to his daughter saying “here’s your bastard. ”

“25-year-old Randy Thomsen of Las Vegas, Nevada has been charged with beating and kicking his 4-month-old son and putting him in a freezer and closing the door on him. The infant suffered a fracture skull and broken ribs which Thomesn allegedly tried blaming on a fall. ”

“Police in Grapevine, Texas arrested Julio Cesar Garcia, 20, and Branda Duran, 19, after witnesses at a party allegedly saw them passing a bong to their 13-month-old son. Witnesses say that the boy put his mouth around the top of the bong and was playing with a bowl of weed.”

“20-year-old Anthony Parra of Queens, New York is accused of putting his girlfriend’s daughter into ICU by scalding the 11-month-old girl. These stories are almost becoming old hat. It has all the usual elements. Boyfriend was babysitting while mom was at work, baby starts to cry boyfriend flips out and harms the child. ”

“McALLEN, Texas – A man accused of fatally beating his 2-year-old stepdaughter when she wouldn’t stop crying as he watched a World Cup game has been charged with capital murder.”

“29-year-old Peter James Wilson of is accused of slashing the throat of his 5-year-old step-daughter while on vacation in Hoodsport, Washington.

Allegedly Wilson argued with his wife over how the children should be disciplined and then told his wife “not to worry that he would take care of it.”

“19-year-old Marlon M. Hines of St. Charles County, Missouri, has been charged in the May 31st death of his 12-week-old daughter.

Hines is accused of ‘applying pressure’ to his daughters chest while he was trying to change her. He was allegedly ‘frustrated’ because his daughter soiled herself several times. Hines allegedly applied so much pressure that he fractured his daughter’s ribs and lacerated her liver. The cause of death was internal bleeding from the liver.”

“Police in Salinas, California have arrested 20-year-old Samantha Tomasini and 38-year-old Patrick Fousek after they allegedly tried to sell their baby to a pair of women in the parking lot of a Wal-Mart for $25.

Police say the pair appeared to be tweaking on meth. Tomasini allegedly admitted to even breastfeeding the baby while high on meth. ”

“New York State Police were called to the Vienna, New York home of Adam Theall’s parents. The 21-year-old Theall was threatening to kill his 3-month-old son if police responded. He made good on his promise. When a New York State Trooper arrived at the scene Theall shot his infant son with a shotgun without hesitation.”

“Police in Wells Township, Ohio have arrested an unnamed 49-year-old woman for prostituting her 14-year-old daughter so the woman could get crack. It’s alleged that she started pimping out her daughter at the age of 10.’

“Police in Louisville, Kentucky have arrested 29-year-old Bobbie Nelson, 38-year-old Denise Haynes, and 48-year-old Tommy Harris for allegedly not only running a meth lab with kids in the house but having the lab in the kids’ room.”

“19-year-old Staci Lynn Barbosa and 23-year-old Jonathan Edward Vandergriff of Bullhead City, Arizona have been arrested in the brutal death of their one-month-old

The boy was brought to the hospital with extensive injuries and the baby died from his injuries. The baby had broken ribs, a broken femur, malnourished, dehydrated and showed signs of shaken baby syndrome. Police also say that the baby was raped by his own parents. ”

“23-year-old Kayla Neighbors of Greenwood, Indiana was arrested last week for slamming her infant to the ground while tweaked out on meth.

Her neighbors were concerned because she was screaming about dropping her baby. When her neighbors found her baby and handed it to her she looked at the baby then threw it on the parking lot pavement.”

“34-year-old Stephanie Rochester of Boulder, Colorado has been charged in the smothering murder of her 6-month-old son Rylan. She allegedly killed her own son over fears that he may have Autism. ”

“11 month-old Kayla Marie Taschler from Palmerton, Pennsylvania died back in January after being left unattended in her

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