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Daughter mad because i won’t help her plan wedding to alocholic boyfriend?

  • Posted on March 27, 2011 at 6:17 am

My daughter is mad at me because i will not help her plan her wedding to her alcoholic boyfriend of 6 month. She has been living with him for 5 months. She said he has stop drinking because she told him she would leave if he didn’t. This is what she has told us, however her last boyfriend was messed up with drugs and she told us he wasn’t. So we don’t know what to believe from her. She has always been this way if she does not hear what she want to hear than she cuts us out of her life. But this has been the hardest of all because i want to help her with her big day but don’t feel this is the best thing. I came from an alcoholic family i understand how they work. If he has stopped drinking then its only been a month or 6 weeks. I told her give him two years without drinking and i would help. The guy doesn’t have a license to drive anymore. He has been abusive to her when he has been drunk but she will not face up to that. She says he is a fun loving guy. I know she will marry him no matter what I do, but i just can’t ok this. I can’t help her marry someone like this. I don’t know what to do.

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