Should my wife let her daughter her drug addict father and prostitude aunt?
Well, My wife overlooks many things. I’m do not sonsider her responsible when she does this and i always bring up tell her how it is. Well, I have a step-daughter that goes to visit her father’s family a few times. I would not mind all this, but you see, her father is a drug addict and doesn’t care about her daughter. He has never giving my wife a penny when her daughter was growing up. I wife went through many things to provide for her daughter, and her only comes to look for her daughter when he feels like it and takes her without telling ym wife, just to make her feel like crap.
Well, my wife’s action also did not help. She never took him to court for child support in her country, and always sent her to their house when they asked. They always put things on her head and how to behaive at our home. Just recently they were telling her to never call me dad, or listen to me…… Now after hearing that i got pissed, and told my wife not to send her there anymore unless she made it clear to them that wasn’t acceptable to speak to an 8 year old that way. That she should call me whatever she wants, and it’s not up to them to decide that for her.
Well, my wife and my stepdaughter are currently in south america. I am filing for my wife’s visa this week, and soon I’ll do the same for my stepdaughter. Now i’m planning to adopt her daughter, so we’re going to try to take her father’s paretal rights from him. But what got me mad was that yesterday while i was speaking on the phone with my she said that her grandmother came to ask for her daughter to visit and she just let her go, without even speaking with the grandmother about what her aunts and her we’re telling my stepdaughter.
Anyway, i don’t undersatnd how my wife speaks badly about them, and tells me she doesnt want her daughter to be mixed up with them, but at the same time send her there to get her head washed. She’s actually trying to remove the fatehr’s last name from her daughter, but she has been sleeping with that guy, as bad as he was, on and off before she met me. And she let her go over there, where they have one of the sisters there working as a prostiude and drugs involved. So, my wife never learns form her mistakes. I told her she should stop communications from them, if she’s trying to take them to court so i can adopt her and bring her here. She’s not helping our case by doing this….
What do yall think???