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ok is this how I will get away with the report card?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 1:25 am

Dear Mom,

It is with great regret and sorrow that I’m telling you that I have eloped with my new boyfriend who just turned 35 years old. I found real passion and he is so nice, with all his piercings and tattoos and his big motorcycle. But it’s not only that, Mom, I’m pregnant and Ahmed said that we will be very happy in his trailer in the woods. He wants to have many more children with me and that’s one of my dreams. xI’ve learned that marihuana doesn’t hurt anyone and we’ll be growing it for us and his friends, who are providing us with all the cocaine and ecstasy we may want. In the meantime, we’ll pray for science to find the AIDS cure so Ahmed can get better; he deserves it. Since he currently doesn’t have a job, he spends all of his time with me. Don’t worry, Mom, I’m 15 years old now and I know how to take care of myself. Some day I’ll visit so you can get to know your grandchildren.

Your daughter

P.S. Mom, it’s not true. I’m at the neighbor’s house. I just wanted to show you that there are worse things in life than the report card that’s in my desk drawer.

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25 year old father needs to know if I can just go and grab my daughter? away from her drug addict mom?

  • Posted on October 20, 2010 at 4:23 am

She left me when our daughter was 6 moths old to be with a guy who she met on te internet. I was taking my daughter,now 2/12, four days a week and she just up and left her with her disabled sister and mother. I did sign the paternity papers and the birth certificate. I also give her $75 a week for her. well anyway my ex’s sister who now has my daughter and also lives with her mom in a town 2 hours a way, will not allow me to see her at all but my mother takes her on the weekends, do I have the right to go and just take her.There has never been a court hearing or anything such as that? The mother had another babyiin the mean time and just gave it away to her sister also. I want to give my daughter a stable home with my wife and our new baby. She does not need to be tossed around and I do not feel i should have to fight in court…she is mine and rightfully so, please help me understand my rights as a father. like I said no one ever had any kind of court custody or gaurdianship

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Pregnant girlfriend trying to take daughter away from me?

  • Posted on October 19, 2010 at 5:24 pm

My ex-girlfriend is about 6 months pregnant.. we were fine and everything until this last spring break. She gets a new best friend (female) and she asks my ex if she will go to PC with her and 4 other guys.. I had plans for us to be together on spring break and she says shes going to PC.. and completely leaves me. I find out she goes to one of the guys house with her friend one day and completely lies to me and Im enraged I call yelling and stuff and she breaks up with me calling me psycho? She now says shes goin to try to keep me out of my daughters life and I might as well give up. She has been in drunk driving accidents, been caught in the same car with weed, pretty much got kicked out of one high school because she took pills and had sex with 3 guys the same much and started a bunch of drama… I got with her because I thought she had changed for the good and everything was good until this spring break and its been downhill our families hate each other we hate each other.. my question ism since I have never been arrested or anything like that (except for a speeding ticket) will she actually be able to keep my daughter out of my life? I know she wont be a good mother and I just want to save my daughter but I know theres no way I can just take her away from her mother and I have college starting soon.
and she keeps calling me psycho which is really bothering me.. even though I did tell the new guy she was dating I was goin to fight him I only did it out of frustration.. I see that as hardly psycho

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How Do I keep My Teenaged Daughter Away From the Drug Scene?

  • Posted on September 21, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My 15 year old daughter got into drugs at school, and had a near fatal overdose 7 months ago. She will be leaving her rehab center in a matter of weeks and I am scared to death she will fall back in with the same crowd. I can’t afford to move away, and private school is also not an option, because of the costs. Do I lock her in her room? Do I follow her around everywhere? She is clean and sober and cries to me to help her stay that way, but I was totally blindsided by her drug use once and I dont want to go through that again. Any advise would be appreciated. Thanks! Also, if it makes any difference, her drug of choice was cocaine.

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What can I do to keep my daughter away from her dad? CPS went in on June 6, 2005 and removed my daughter from?

  • Posted on September 14, 2010 at 8:20 am

her fathers house due to neglect and drugs. He and his wife tested possitive for meth and admitted to cooking it in the house with my daughter home!! His wife was 5mths pregnant at the time!!! I went to court and got new custody papers, the papers state that untill CPS gives me, (it specifically states my name) written notice her father may only have supervised visation. Well on October 11, 2005 CPS sent me a letter stating that due to their non-corroperation CPS was closing the case and that her father should not ever recieve unsupervised visitation. Last year he picked her up from school, (they have copies of all the paper work!!) the police went and got her. All summer long he has tried to go places where she was and take her. The police were called everytime and he was unsuccesful. Well yesterday he picked her up from school again, the police in his town have let him keep her this time because they say the CPS case is closed. I feel hopeless, what do I do? I can’t pay for a lawyer

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My father passed away a year ago today. What should I do to celebrate his life?

  • Posted on August 10, 2010 at 8:18 am

Additional notes:
* My Da was a binge alcoholic… the majority of my family see me (I’m guessing) as a really crappy daughter. I’m not easily led.
* He was a pilot… a very intelligent man… he could fix or better anything mechanical.
* He was musical… loved voice and guitar.
* He lived for women… he loved his good looks and influence.
* He was kind… regardless of how little he had… he’d give.
* He was shy, unless the drink was into him.
* I loved him.

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My husband is in chronic pain and on oxycontin. It seems he is slipping away. My husband talks about my…….

  • Posted on August 2, 2010 at 7:21 pm

daughter all the time and my mother-in-law hates me too.I am stuck living in her house and I’m so despondent. I feel like I’m losing it. I can actually feel a hindering spirit in this house. Help. It’s way worse than what I am telling.
He is on oxycontoin because he got hurt and had neck surgery. My daughter is 22 and in college.
My daughter is married and living in her own home.

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My bf mistreated me and I moved away w/our baby and my older daughter, I feel very angry w/him. Is this normal?

  • Posted on July 30, 2010 at 12:18 pm

He was often short, ugly and insecure. He would stonewall, and gaslight. He did three tours and Iraq. I have known him for seventeen years. I had no prior romantic interest in him and he put a tremendous amount of pressure on me after he was in divorce proceedings with his wife who asked for a divorce.
He only got married the first time because he got her pregnant after seeing her a month, and this baby I have by him was conceived in spite of birth control and condoms.

He didn’t speak to his mother for over a year after she kicked out his grandchildren over issues that involved control of grandchildren a few months after he got out of the Army. When this happened she focused her anger on me. She looked up my court history that was more than ten years old and mailed it to his ex. She spoke hatefully about me in a verbose manner in an e-mail she sent him and she made sure the pre-school his children attended got a copy of this. His (now) ex-wife had cheated on him and physcially abused him. She also assumed we were romantically involved when we weren’t when he was married and she sent me vulgar, hateful text messages and a year later starting harassing me via crank calls over a two day period. His mother had physically abused him as a child. I helped him care for his children and eventually he had to rent an in-law from my parents. His wife concealed an entire pregnancy from him and binge drank vodka when she was pregnant, and sought no medical attention. This was in part because of the fact she cheated -she didn’t know who the father is-we still don’t know and that child is almost 4. His children are troubled and he can’t see it. She is a very under-involveld/neglectful mother and yet he is supportive of this and intolerant of me. I feel that I am the only “safe” person to take his resentment out on. I no longer speak to him, but I find myself very angry at him for mistreating me. I am currently seeking counseling. I don’t worry about harming either one of my children. I just find myself withdrawn. I have read about emotional abuse and trauma. I have read that emotional abuse is sometimes more psychologically damaging than physical abuse because of its frequency. He was often so ugly and he would needle and needle and needle and I would finally say something hateful and ugly back to him. I don’t want to be that kind of person. My older child is fairly well adjusted. She is academically gifted, adults just love talking to her and she is personable and happens to be a successful child model. I gave a lot of attention to her when she was small-I nursed extensively and spent a lot of time bonding with her. I brought her to counseling when her father was no longer in our lives-the therapist was amazed at her vocabulary by three and after some time felt my daughter was ok to move on. I was always a single mother. She is now ten. I want to be able to give attention to my baby somewhat to the degree that I did my first child(which is impossible because now I have two). I feel as if I stayed there I would be further diminished with nothing left to give my children or myself emotionally. I don’t think it was wrong of me to leave the father of my child in another state. He wanted to get married-I said No. I just find myself so angry at him for mistreating me after knowing me so many years. Is it normal to feel this way?

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How to take away my daughter’s pacifier? She is 2 1/2 years old and has a paci addiction. ?

  • Posted on July 25, 2010 at 1:46 pm

I want to go cold turkey. I feel like it’s affecting her speech, maturity, and teeth for sure. She is upstairs screaming right now. Oh wait she is asleep. So I was just wondering how any of you did it, of course she is going to ask for it in the morning.

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how can i get my daughter off meth and away from her loser boyfriend?

  • Posted on July 25, 2010 at 1:24 pm

i have had her home detoxing but i think it might be in vain, she has 3 kids and have had no real life because of drugs and wrong men, i have them all here, what is a mom to do ?????????

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