first of all let me just say that im am NOT like her at all we’ve just been friends for a long time and she went down the wrong path:
she had a baby a few months ago
shes only 19 almost 20
her babys is “mixed”
so her parents disowned her
shes living in the hood lol
its a really bad bad place to live for her and the baby
she gets everything for free now
her “baby daddy” went to jail
she’s actin like a H O E
she smokes weed in her house around her daughter
drinks… brings a bunch of low lifes around her too
she drives probably drunk with her in the back
she doesnt “need” a baby sitter because she just brings her along in the car every where she goes no matter whos with or what theyre doing
they drive around smoking weed in the car with her there too
i was so happy that she was going to college
because it was free so she had no reason NOT to go
but i dont think she
ever goes or even trys anymore
i went to visit her the other day because her baby is just so precious!
shes always so happy and smiling
but she doesnt even change her diaper unless she pooped!!!!!!
so i changed her diaper and it was soaking wet
then she doesnt feed her because she thinks she only
needs to feed her when she CRIES?!
WHAT the heck is wrong with her???????
she is just such a bad mother
some people just do not need to pro create
i dont know what to do!
i need help!
i cant watch this helpless little baby grow up like this
i know people do it all the time
but not if i can help it..
who do i call?
does anyone know?
the only problem is since her parents disowned her and the fathers in
jail, the baby would have no where to go!
i dont want her to go into foster care and i want to still be able to see her, maybe thats selfish of me but i really dont want anyone to take her away..
i just wish i could adopt her…
im always offering to babysit just to try to help prevent her being put
in these situations but it will still be the same when she has her..
i just dont know what to do
can someone please give me some ideas?!
