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So how do you tell your baby’s moma that she needs to change a bit?

  • Posted on March 13, 2011 at 1:22 pm

My husbands to chicken to tell his daughters mother that she may need to change her parenting skills a bit. I posted a question that my step-daughter is out of control. Truth is i think that she may have distractions, like her mother drinking and driving with her in the car. Her mother aguments with her ex/current boyfriend, her upfrunt dating with serveral men and the child being the cover-up (when they call,etc), and possible lack of attention to my s-daughter (her mom go’s out alot). I feel like my babies mama needs a talking to, but i dont think that i should be the one to do it, we get along, but we are not friend all like that. My husband speaks with the mom, but never brings up the issues we have that my stepdaughter has brought to our attention. Now that she has faid school. I can see a turn for the worst, now for me this is a deff eye opener that something is wrong in her home. My fear is that both may give up on her because it is easer. What should i do or say to her mom.

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Conceived in Arizona means jurisdiction there and not baby’s home state of Colorado?

  • Posted on February 4, 2011 at 8:17 pm

My daughter was conceived in Arizona and I left my ex and moved home when I was three months pregnant because he is an alcoholic. He did not talk to me the entire pregnancy. The baby was born in Colorado and has now lived here one year. I finally filed child support but my case worker is telling me I have to file in Arizona because it’s an interstate case and she was conceived in Arizona.

My ex has not filed any paperwork, he was only waiting to be served. What about the UCCJEA? Doesn’t that state that the child’s home state holds jurisdiction for custody and child support decisions?

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How should I handle this situation with my ex and baby’s father?

  • Posted on October 27, 2010 at 1:23 am

He and live two states apart. He does not see our child and his name is not on the birth certificate. He is 20 and I am 22. I graduated from college in August of last year. My job requires that I travel, not a lot and not too far. Well he and I speak off and on. He will call to ask how our daughter is and we talk, but it has been nothing more than that. Well, he called about 2 weeks ago and I told him that I had business near him, just small talk. He asked if I wanted to go to dinner or something. I thought about it and said yes, just because it would be nice to see him. Neither he nor I are seeing anyone. I have always kept the lines of communication open because he has always seemed to want to be a part of our daughter’s life, he has just seemed really afraid. We have not seen each other since before I told him I was pregnant, so going on 1 1/2 years.

I look so different now. I have lost all my baby weight plus some, and my friends and family just say I look more confident, now that I support myself and have had my daughter. I honestly inside want him to see me and think… wow. Am I wrong for thinking this. We were very serious at one time and when I got pregnant he broke up with me. He has apologized a lot since, but I still want him to see what he missed out on.

He has also been calling more, now that I am coming by him on business. He still asks about our daughter, but he will also slip more ?s in about me. He has also made sexual comments… not horrible just in reference to how he thought I was sexy and he cannot wait to see me again. Is he hoping for a “hook up” ? That will not happen and I do not have the nerve to ask… I have casually mentioned something like” So what do expect to happen” ect… but not so blunt. He will dance around dinner, a movie, talking… and the other night when he called he made reference to possibly staying the night. He has not mentioned it since, he was intoxicated, and I have not brought it up.

What is he thinking… I am not trying to sound like an idiot, but a million things are going through my head. Is he wanting a hook up, is he wanting to try again…? I am not just a “hook up” and honestly I am not sure I can try again, after the way he left. How should I handle this?

Thanks!

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Is baby’s father doing cocaine?

  • Posted on October 21, 2010 at 1:22 pm

I just recently ended a year-long relationship with the father of the child I’m expecting. Through the entire pregnancy his support has been very inconsistent and he has more issues than I want to deal with (especially being pregnant), so I ended the relationship. Just last night, I was told that he had a cocaine problem. He is constantly around drug users,which is part of the reason we broke up and I admit I had suspected; however, he would was almost insulted one time when I did ask him. The source I heard this from is questionable, but if he is using a lot of other things he’s been doing would make sense. I have not confronted him on this, because the relationship is over. However, before I heard this I was at least going to allow him to be involved in our baby’s life and have visitation–now I am seriously considering having his parental rights relinquished. I want to act in our daughter’s best interests. What would you do?
I do not intend to file for child support. He’s been unemployed since May 06′. I make enough to support my two children (my 9 yr old and the one on the way), so to me filing child support is asking for more trouble than I personally care to deal with.

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Is baby’s father doing cocaine?

  • Posted on October 20, 2010 at 1:21 pm

I just recently ended a year-long relationship with the father of the child I’m expecting. Through the entire pregnancy his support has been very inconsistent and he has more issues than I want to deal with (especially being pregnant), so I ended the relationship. Just last night, I was told that he had a cocaine problem. He is constantly around drug users,which is part of the reason we broke up and I admit I had suspected; however, he would was almost insulted one time when I did ask him. The source I heard this from is questionable, but if he is using a lot of other things he’s been doing would make sense. I have not confronted him on this, because the relationship is over. However, before I heard this I was at least going to allow him to be involved in our baby’s life and have visitation–now I am seriously considering having his parental rights relinquished. I want to act in our daughter’s best interests. What would you do?
I do not intend to file for child support. He’s been unemployed since May 06′. I make enough to support my two children (my 9 yr old and the one on the way), so to me filing child support is asking for more trouble than I personally care to deal with.

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Is baby’s father doing cocaine?

  • Posted on October 19, 2010 at 1:21 pm

I just recently ended a year-long relationship with the father of the child I’m expecting. Through the entire pregnancy his support has been very inconsistent and he has more issues than I want to deal with (especially being pregnant), so I ended the relationship. Just last night, I was told that he had a cocaine problem. He is constantly around drug users,which is part of the reason we broke up and I admit I had suspected; however, he would was almost insulted one time when I did ask him. The source I heard this from is questionable, but if he is using a lot of other things he’s been doing would make sense. I have not confronted him on this, because the relationship is over. However, before I heard this I was at least going to allow him to be involved in our baby’s life and have visitation–now I am seriously considering having his parental rights relinquished. I want to act in our daughter’s best interests. What would you do?
I do not intend to file for child support. He’s been unemployed since May 06′. I make enough to support my two children (my 9 yr old and the one on the way), so to me filing child support is asking for more trouble than I personally care to deal with.

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How should I handle this situation with my ex and baby’s father?

  • Posted on October 1, 2010 at 9:25 am

He and live two states apart. He does not see our child and his name is not on the birth certificate. He is 20 and I am 22. I graduated from college in August of last year. My job requires that I travel, not a lot and not too far. Well he and I speak off and on. He will call to ask how our daughter is and we talk, but it has been nothing more than that. Well, he called about 2 weeks ago and I told him that I had business near him, just small talk. He asked if I wanted to go to dinner or something. I thought about it and said yes, just because it would be nice to see him. Neither he nor I are seeing anyone. I have always kept the lines of communication open because he has always seemed to want to be a part of our daughter’s life, he has just seemed really afraid. We have not seen each other since before I told him I was pregnant, so going on 1 1/2 years.

I look so different now. I have lost all my baby weight plus some, and my friends and family just say I look more confident, now that I support myself and have had my daughter. I honestly inside want him to see me and think… wow. Am I wrong for thinking this. We were very serious at one time and when I got pregnant he broke up with me. He has apologized a lot since, but I still want him to see what he missed out on.

He has also been calling more, now that I am coming by him on business. He still asks about our daughter, but he will also slip more ?s in about me. He has also made sexual comments… not horrible just in reference to how he thought I was sexy and he cannot wait to see me again. Is he hoping for a “hook up” ? That will not happen and I do not have the nerve to ask… I have casually mentioned something like” So what do expect to happen” ect… but not so blunt. He will dance around dinner, a movie, talking… and the other night when he called he made reference to possibly staying the night. He has not mentioned it since, he was intoxicated, and I have not brought it up.

What is he thinking… I am not trying to sound like an idiot, but a million things are going through my head. Is he wanting a hook up, is he wanting to try again…? I am not just a “hook up” and honestly I am not sure I can try again, after the way he left. How should I handle this?

Thanks!

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What is your opinion deported but back again & now illegal alien accused of hiding heroin in baby’s car seat?

  • Posted on August 26, 2010 at 3:22 pm

WEST LINN — Police arrested an illegal immigrant Thursday, accusing him of hiding 4 1/2 grams of heroin in his 22-month-old daughter’s car seat.

Edgar Antonio Mendoza OrtegaEdgar Antonio Mendoza Ortega, 31, previously deported and recently living in Northeast Portland, is being held without bail in the Clackamas County Jail. He is set to be arraigned today in Clackamas County Circuit Court on drug-possession, drug-dealing and child-neglect charges.

Mendoza Ortega’s case also will be reviewed by federal Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents, who will investigate how he re-entered the United States. Depending on their findings, Mendoza Ortega could face additional federal charges.

On Thursday afternoon, West Linn police received an alert from a concerned citizen who reported a suspicious vehicle in a residential area. After launching an investigation, police called the Clackamas County Interagency Task Force for assistance. Officers intercepted the car at the Albertson’s parking lot off Blankenship Road, where they conducted a search and found the drugs.

Sgt. Neil Hennelly, West Linn police spokesman, said Mendoza Ortega intended to deliver the heroin he had hidden in his daughter’s car seat.

The girl was taken into protective custody and later was released to two responsible family members

http://www.oregonlive.com/west-linn/index.ssf/2010/03/police_arrest_illegal_immigrant_accused_of_hiding_heroin_in_babys_car_seat.html

Will La Raza and the SPLC file a lawsuit claiming racial profiling on part of the Citizen & police and demand he be released unto the care of La Raza or SPLC ?

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What is your opinion deported but back again & now illegal alien accused of hiding heroin in baby’s car seat?

  • Posted on August 25, 2010 at 5:21 pm

WEST LINN — Police arrested an illegal immigrant Thursday, accusing him of hiding 4 1/2 grams of heroin in his 22-month-old daughter’s car seat.

Edgar Antonio Mendoza OrtegaEdgar Antonio Mendoza Ortega, 31, previously deported and recently living in Northeast Portland, is being held without bail in the Clackamas County Jail. He is set to be arraigned today in Clackamas County Circuit Court on drug-possession, drug-dealing and child-neglect charges.

Mendoza Ortega’s case also will be reviewed by federal Immigration and Customs Enforcement agents, who will investigate how he re-entered the United States. Depending on their findings, Mendoza Ortega could face additional federal charges.

On Thursday afternoon, West Linn police received an alert from a concerned citizen who reported a suspicious vehicle in a residential area. After launching an investigation, police called the Clackamas County Interagency Task Force for assistance. Officers intercepted the car at the Albertson’s parking lot off Blankenship Road, where they conducted a search and found the drugs.

Sgt. Neil Hennelly, West Linn police spokesman, said Mendoza Ortega intended to deliver the heroin he had hidden in his daughter’s car seat.

The girl was taken into protective custody and later was released to two responsible family members

http://www.oregonlive.com/west-linn/index.ssf/2010/03/police_arrest_illegal_immigrant_accused_of_hiding_heroin_in_babys_car_seat.html

Will La Raza and the SPLC file a lawsuit claiming racial profiling on part of the Citizen & police and demand he be released unto the care of La Raza or SPLC ?

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I think my baby’s mother took my daughter around a METH LAB, please help?

  • Posted on August 2, 2010 at 5:21 am

I’m a guy raising my daughter. She’s 9 yo. Anyway the mother has been hooked on meth for about 8-9 years(that’s why I raise my daughter) I’ve tried to keep things cool and not use the court system.
But this week she was with her mother. I picked her up yesterday and she started telling me about she went to the mountains with her mom, and they went to a boarded up cabin and there were booby-traps and a gun under a matteress, and she was talking about she seen some tubes and tunnels.
I’m PISSED!! this sounds like a drug lab to me!! Please help, what should I do?, and where should a start? I don’t want my daughter to have anything to do with her mother anymore. has this happened to you? what do I do? I’m so mad I can’t think straight.
I asked my daughter to draw what she saw and it looks similar to a drug lab.

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