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Would you move back home (Serious question)?

  • Posted on April 17, 2011 at 9:23 am

This is actually a serious question, so please no joking answers. I’m guessing some of y’all know me by now (or at least recognize me). 18 have a month old daughter. I currently have my own apartment, but I don’t think I can stay here. It’s the apartment my boyfriend had, & I moved in in at the beginning of August. He died in a drunk-driving “accident” 2 weeks latter (how it’s an accident I don’t know. That man chose to drive drunk, killing my BF He never got to see Jane. accident my a**).
If I moved back home it would make things a lot easier. I could start saving more money, & when I go back to work next month my parents could watch Jane. I also wouldn’t be so lonely. I hate being in this apartment, there’s to many damn memories & what ifs. My parents want me to move back home 2.
The only problem is- I don’t fit in at home. My parents are VERY VERY traditional Italians. I’m, well I’m not. They want me to be a whole different person than who I am. We fight a lot about it. They love me of course, & I love them. I’m just not free to be who I am. They would want me to raise Jane a different way, which I am NOT comfortable with.
Sigh, I don’t know what to do. I want to, but then again I don’t. It’s to hard living here. I keep excepting Adam to walk in. There’s to many memories, this was home but only with him. Now it’s just a 5 room place full of what ifs. But if I go home (which would only be for a year), I have to change who I am, & change my parenting style. I’m not a bad mother, they would just want her raised a different way.
What would you do?
K- I understand why you would think I’m lying, but I’m not. I promise you that.

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My sister went behind my back and?

  • Posted on March 25, 2011 at 11:21 am

picked up my 15 year old when I said no. My daughter just had a baby 3 weeks ago and was at her dad’s house visiting they got in a fight, she asked to go to my sister’s I said no way my sister is a heroin addict and possible hooker, and I wanted neither her or my grandson there her father agreed. I called my sister told her not to even think of picking her up and just found out she did anyway. unfortunately my husband is unaware and took our van to get fixed so I told them to bring her home now and that was 2 hours ago should I file charges on my sister I think I should I know I am on my daughter I just think my sister should know I meant what I said. I thought her dad would be able to stop her from taking the baby out at 1a.m. because I would have decked her. Any advice.
I already called the police I have to meet them with my custody papers and she lives pretty far from me.
Her dad’s family told me she was behaving badly and I know how she is when she don’t get her way.

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I’m suing my ex for back child support but he wants to sue me back for custody. Does he have a chance?

  • Posted on March 21, 2011 at 7:21 pm

I am in the process of taking my deadbeat ex to court for over 6 years of unpaid child support. During the time we’ve been divorced, he has never paid me a penny in support, nor has he contributed in any way to the ongoing medical bills for our daughter or our disabled son. He sees them every other weekend, but is otherwise not involved in their lives in any meaningful way. He doesn’t come to their school events, attend birthday parties, or take any interest in their well being, especially if it requires any effort on his part. He has also been unemployed for over 4 years, but this past spring, his mom died & left him a huge sum of money (about 200k), ALL of which he has managed to blow through in just under 6 months, without using any of it to pay any of his support arrears or put any aside for the kids future. This was the last straw & I finally saved up enough for a lawyer & am suing him for contempt.

Since he has been served the papers, he has been making remarks to our daughter that lead me to believe he is going to try and paint me as an unfit mother & maybe try to get custody of them, purely out of spite. I am a hardworking mother who has worked up to 3 jobs to keep a roof over their heads & food on the table. I have no history of drug use, abuse, or any other lifestyle that might be damaging to the kids; they are safe, happy, and well cared for. Yet I know how sneaky he is & I still worry because I am unfamiliar with the legal system. Does he have any chance at all of getting custody of children that he’s never helped to support? He has lots of questionable things in his past (heroin addiction, unpaid loans, bankruptcy, and more). No court would ever think he’s a more capable parent than I am…or would they? Hoping for some peace of mind…thanks in advance.

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I’m suing my ex for back child support but he wants to sue me back for custody. Does he have a chance?

  • Posted on March 20, 2011 at 9:21 pm

I am in the process of taking my deadbeat ex to court for over 6 years of unpaid child support. During the time we’ve been divorced, he has never paid me a penny in support, nor has he contributed in any way to the ongoing medical bills for our daughter or our disabled son. He sees them every other weekend, but is otherwise not involved in their lives in any meaningful way. He doesn’t come to their school events, attend birthday parties, or take any interest in their well being, especially if it requires any effort on his part. He has also been unemployed for over 4 years, but this past spring, his mom died & left him a huge sum of money (about 200k), ALL of which he has managed to blow through in just under 6 months, without using any of it to pay any of his support arrears or put any aside for the kids future. This was the last straw & I finally saved up enough for a lawyer & am suing him for contempt.

Since he has been served the papers, he has been making remarks to our daughter that lead me to believe he is going to try and paint me as an unfit mother & maybe try to get custody of them, purely out of spite. I am a hardworking mother who has worked up to 3 jobs to keep a roof over their heads & food on the table. I have no history of drug use, abuse, or any other lifestyle that might be damaging to the kids; they are safe, happy, and well cared for. Yet I know how sneaky he is & I still worry because I am unfamiliar with the legal system. Does he have any chance at all of getting custody of children that he’s never helped to support? He has lots of questionable things in his past (heroin addiction, unpaid loans, bankruptcy, and more). No court would ever think he’s a more capable parent than I am…or would they? Hoping for some peace of mind…thanks in advance.

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My alcoholic ex sent me a letter; should I go back to him?

  • Posted on March 8, 2011 at 12:17 am

My ex turned into a terrible alcoholic after his parents and older sister died in a car accident, and I divorced him after months of trying to get him help with were not successful, especially because I didn’t want our 4 year old daughter witnessing his behavior. He was always depressed and angry, and he wasn’t the same joy filled and spirit lifting man that I had known. He dropped out of college and got fired from his job because drinking took over his life. It’s been a year since we’ve talked (which was the divorce), but I received a surprise letter and a $10,000 check from him saying that he went to rehab, got himself clean, and thanked me and apologized for being such a horrible husband and asked me if I would be willing to come back to him. He says he loves me and says that if I don’t want to, he completely understands and he says that he honestly thinks I deserve better. I am still single, and I still love him but I don’t want this to happen again.

I am 27 and my ex-husband is 22 – what I’m thinking is that I’ll agree to re-marry him and let him see my daughter on the condition that he returns to school and finishes his degree. Is this a good idea? Suggestions/any other ideas?

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How Penis Got It’s Groove Back! (Warning: Not for the faint of heart)?

  • Posted on February 20, 2011 at 1:21 pm

One day Bill complained to his friend, “My elbow really hurts, I guess I should see a doctor.”

His friend said, “Don’t do that. There’s a computer at the drug store that can diagnose anything quicker and cheaper than a doctor. Just put in a sample of your urine and the computer will diagnose your problem and tell you what you can do about it. It only costs ten dollars.”

Bill figured he had nothing to lose, so he filled a jar with a urine sample and went to the drug store. Finding the computer, he poured in the sample and deposited the $10. The computer started making some noise and various lights started flashing. After a brief pause out popped a small slip of paper on which was
printed:

You have tennis elbow.
Soak your arm in warm water.
Avoid heavy lifting.
It will be better in two weeks.

Late that evening while thinking how amazing this new technology was and how it would change medical science forever, he began to wonder if this machine could be fooled. He decided to give it a try. He mixed together some tap water, a stool sample from his dog, and urine samples from his wife and daughter. To top it off, he masturbated into the concoction. He went back to the drug store, located the machine,
poured in the sample, and deposited the $10. The computer made the usual noise and printed out the following message:

Your tap water is too hard.
Get a water softener.

Your dog has worms.
Get him vitamins.

Your daughter is using cocaine.
Put her in a rehabilitation clinic.

Your wife is pregnant with twin girls.
They aren’t yours.
Get a lawyer.

And if you don’t stop jerking off, your
tennis elbow will never get better.

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Is my 18 year old daughter back on drugs?

  • Posted on January 30, 2011 at 1:22 pm

Well she got with a guy and they ended up living together and a year into it we were all suspicious that he was an heroin addict with a major crack habit i told her to get out but she “loved him”.. cut a long story short he got her on heroin and crack cocaine also injected her and puttin her in hospital with heroin overdose. They are now splt..

She got herself clean eventually after being on heroin and crack for year, she did a subutex detox which didnt work but the methadone detox did (or so i thought)

Lately she’s lost alot of weight not eating, She has alot of spots and sores on her face and arms, legs etc.She is on benefits and most of the time she tells us she hasn’t been paid or it goes extremley quick and telling me she has no money by sunday she gets paid on a friday, She talks about drugs alot, and alot of people call her a smackhead, crackhead in the street her hygeine isnt great i always tell her to get a shower and wash her clothes.she has blister and burn marks on her right thumb she just says its where she bites her skin.

I kicked her out she is living with her father and i moved a short journey away to a differant town only see her on weekends. Her father hasn’t said anything to me but he is never there he’s always working or out drinking. he is working away at the moment so she is all by herself with no food etc her nan gave her £20 but im not sure if it was spent on food or something else.

She is also drinking alot and sleeps around and still goes to the local drug clinic but if she is clean why go. Do you think she may still be using heroin or crack?? outsiders opinion would be great.
We tried rehab but she left 2 days into it

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I used to love the show 24, and I want to get back into it. What is the best way to get caught up on the show?

  • Posted on January 29, 2011 at 10:21 am

I don’t have time to watch all of the previous episodes, is there somewhere that I can just read quick summaries of each season? Or, is there a video that hits all the highlights that have happened in the show so far? Who died, who left, who betrayed, who came back, who came through, is his daughter still in the picture (Elisha Cuthbert), did he kick the drug addiction he was fighting, who is the president now, etc etc

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How long does it take to get the results back from D&A testing back?

  • Posted on January 24, 2011 at 8:17 pm

I know a man that has been sexually molesting a thirteen year old little girl. She kept getting UTI and bleeding from the bowels when the doctor found seman in her urine.The perpertrater was the one that took her to the doctor around the 1st of November and the results are still not back. The perpetrator ( The little girls grandmothers live in ) did not want the Doctor doing the test but they did them anyway because this was the 2nd time he had brought her in with the same problem.The grandmother Patricia and the live in David has raised the child because the mother of the child Patricias daughter give her to her mom when she was a baby . Patricia is an alcoholic and has been caught while drinking and driving several times. Some with Kayla in the car. I hope i haven’t rattled to much. I always do when i am nervous . I am very nervous that he is still free to do what he wants. Kayla was removed by social services and given to her mom and mom has probably given her back to Patricia .
Sorry William B. correction DNA
OMG it has been eleven weeks since the DNA testing was done
AS far as i know one in the family believes he is guility but me.I have my reasons to believe he is one being that he slept with her. No one seems to believe that any testing was done on David.

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I`ve been dating this man for 3 years and he has a difficult ex wife (plays his daughter back and forth etc)?

  • Posted on January 8, 2011 at 7:21 am

anyhow, he in the past was self employed and paid her cash for child support (when he told me that, I had already thought she may do this) Now she has claimed he hasn`t paid her a dime.. and now they have garnished his wages. He only has proof of what he`s paid through checks. She states he owes her a total of 39,000 (with interest) His daughter is 14. Anyhow reguarding our relationship, it has almost destroyed it. Him fighting w/the ex, him being distraught because he says he has to “protect” his daughter from the ex, and he has told me they all walk on egg shells with the ex, personally, i`m sick of it all. This woman is a known meth user with loss of her teeth(all of them) and she is a highly respected teacher in the community!!! He states everyone walks on egg shells because she`s known to throw fits! I`m like and.. People in the community knows she has this issue, but noone says a word. My bf stays torn up. I feel I`m getting the brunt of it all. Should I stay? Go??? Help please!

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