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I need legal advise on how to get my daughter back, PLEASE HELP?

  • Posted on January 7, 2011 at 11:23 am

Okay, My daughters Father and I had a verbal agreement on her going to live with him until school has ended so she don’t change schools in the middle of the year. (Now this was never written or discussed through court, it was verbal between us) I am the main custody holder though. He has had her enrolled in her school under his name for 3 months now. Her situation has gotten bad, she is jumping around in house (sometimes at her dad, sometimes at her great grandmas), She don’t get bathed regularly, her toe and finger nails are long and dirty, he tells me he wont allow her to sit in a car seat cuz shes 5 (but legally, she has to, shes under weight limits and height limits), he drink and drives with her in the car, he a drunk, (the list goes on) When she first went the environment was steady for her and now its worse and worse. His excuses are that hes under way too much stress. She says she wants to live with me! Well I told him that i want to brake our agreement and have her move back in with me because i am worried and it would be of her best. But he disagrees. He says he wont allow it. He says that hes done talked to the cops, explained everything and they said i would have to go to court to get her back since he has had her in his custody for 3 months now (and the school can prove it.) Then also, I thought about saying i wanted a visitation with her and then pick her up, but not take her back… but would he be able to have call “kidnapping” then take me to court and just say that i had abandoned her, (that would be his excuse on why he got her in the first place) then be able to take my rights away cause of “kidnapping” and (supposedly) abandoning her??? I want my daughter back! Shes not safe, I cant wait for the whole school year to be over, SHES NOT SAFE! I don’t know what to do or how to “safely” get her back, any advise, please help!
I have joint custody

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How long does it take to get the results back from D&A testing back?

  • Posted on December 21, 2010 at 11:23 pm

I know a man that has been sexually molesting a thirteen year old little girl. She kept getting UTI and bleeding from the bowels when the doctor found seman in her urine.The perpertrater was the one that took her to the doctor around the 1st of November and the results are still not back. The perpetrator ( The little girls grandmothers live in ) did not want the Doctor doing the test but they did them anyway because this was the 2nd time he had brought her in with the same problem.The grandmother Patricia and the live in David has raised the child because the mother of the child Patricias daughter give her to her mom when she was a baby . Patricia is an alcoholic and has been caught while drinking and driving several times. Some with Kayla in the car. I hope i haven’t rattled to much. I always do when i am nervous . I am very nervous that he is still free to do what he wants. Kayla was removed by social services and given to her mom and mom has probably given her back to Patricia .
Sorry William B. correction DNA
OMG it has been eleven weeks since the DNA testing was done
AS far as i know one in the family believes he is guility but me.I have my reasons to believe he is one being that he slept with her. No one seems to believe that any testing was done on David.

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My friend who has 2 kids is back into meth again?

  • Posted on December 16, 2010 at 7:20 am

What can I do to help her? I do not even go over to her house anymore and I have not seen her latley but I heard from her sister she was back into meth again. We both did it a few years alot and got into it. I got out of it because I moved away, had a baby. Have not done it since because I want to be their for my daughter and set a good example. She does not have a very supportive family, its chaos with them right now. And I am sure she is not associating with good people. Is their anything I really can do?
How is calling CPS on her going to help anything? I have no proof the children are being abused. Just word of mouth that she is back into drugs bad. I think they have already come their twice because people are trying to get her in trouble for stupid things. One person who called was a ex boyfriend who was mad she dumped him. The other was this ex friend who was trying to get back at her. I am see where you are coming from but how much better would it be for the kids to be in foster homes? I am looking for a better alternative
Two different Dad’s. One I have no idea where or how to get a hold of him and the other comes around and is not a drug user. But I have no way of getting a hold of him either. Like I said I do not go over to her house or visit her.

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My 19 yr old daughter has been ditched by a boyfriend for the 3rd time and keeps going back.?

  • Posted on November 26, 2010 at 6:17 am

A couple of days ago, she caught him riding in a car with 4 girls and she got upset and he said if she was going to act that way, to get out and packed her crap and sent her on her way. She has been thru this before with him and everytime, she ends up going to mental health and becomes all anorexic and pale. She loses a whole bunch of weight and then he asks her to come back and she crawls back to him like a beat dog. She cannot eat or sleep. This guy is such a user. He is an alcoholic, has no real job works for a temp agency. He managed to get her to put all the utility bills in her name and now has creditors chasing her. He is 26, married and has a 3 yr old. My daughter was 17 when they hooked up and she is such a pretty girl. How can I help her. Its ridiculous.
I did not know about him when she was 17. She graduated high school and pretty much did her own thing. I thought she was getting ready to start college. I was suspicious about her 18th birthday when she disappeared and I found out had moved in with him.
Police does not do anything to help you with your kids in this county. They figure if your kid is 17, they cant stop them anyways. She has put me thru the hell of my life and its still going on. I pray for this hell to end every day. Real story would take a book.

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How Can I Get My Kids Back After Drug Addiction?

  • Posted on November 20, 2010 at 10:21 am

It’s actually a friend of mine… She did Meth and all kinds of nasty crap, and lost 2 of her children. One of the children, a daughter, was given to her Grandmother. (Guardianship) That was 9 years ago… She successfully quit all her disgusting vices, and was fine with the ways things were, because she could still see/talk to her daughter. Now the grandmother is leaving the state, and she wants her daughter back because she does not want her out of MO.

What can she do??

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My close friend blew me off for 8 months after I had my baby, now expects to just pop back into my life?

  • Posted on November 14, 2010 at 1:23 pm

If it had been someone I wasn’t close to or didn’t talk to very often I wouldn’t have cared so much, but this was one of my very best friends. We talked all the time, helped each other thru bad times, had playdates with our kids and shared babysitting, and have been friends for 13 years. When I had my daughter in January, I called her from the hospital to tell her the baby was here. She texted me back and said she was sick and didn’t want to come to the hospital and would call me later…..didn’t hear from her for 7 months. I know that I could have called her, but I had just had a baby, by c-section, was moving, and was hurt that she never called. I felt like I didn’t have to call and beg her to come and meet my new baby. So a couple weeks ago, she sent a request to add me as a friend on facebook..but no message or anything, so I waited to add her because I wanted to think about it first. We have a lot of mutual friends and I have heard over the months that she has become a nasty person and that she’s been taking ecstasy and I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be friends with her anymore. I also felt that I was owed some kind of apology or honest explanation. I added her anyway because I decided that after 13 years of friendship, I should see what she had to say. Expecting an apology, this is what I got…” hey girl, sorry, I lost your number, hope you don’t hate me. I had something for your baby girl.” She lost my number?!?!?! I’m sure it didn’t just fall out of her phone, and since we have about 15 friends in common, I’m sure she could have gotten my number from someone else in the past 7 months. I really felt insulted, like she thinks I’m that stupid that I would accept that BS excuse! I didn’t even respond..didn’t know what to say to that. What would you do? What should I say to her, if anything? Should I even try to rekindle the friendship? Thanks:)

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Okay Im back, asking you to be my jury! Custody issue here?

  • Posted on October 30, 2010 at 8:23 am

Well i was a real good momma , I thought. My children were 18 months and 3 years old when my ex surprised me and servd me with a petition for custody. I had left him, took the kids and moved in with grandma.The ex and I were both using drugs, he drank everyday-I was more of a weekend drinker, we both on ocassion used cocaine after a night drinking-Me one line, him a lot. After I was served with papers I appeared in court a few days later. He demanded I be tested for drugs-A shock to me, cuz I figure we both are gonna lose the kids. HE WAS CLEAN, I was dirty-SHOCK!! He knew it was coming, I didn’t. I immediatly called and got help for my problems. Now, almost two years later, I am remarried to a wonderful man whom has a daughter, does not drink or use, he has supported me 100% in my recovery, I attend AA, sponsor a woman myself,have beeen through drug out patient rehab for 2 months last year. over 150 hours of counseling and I am happy, clean and sober, with 10 drug test (hair, and urine) to prove it.
In the beginning the oppsing lawyer demanded that I give up custody of the girls to get help for 90 days. 90 days came and went one and a half years ago. We went back to court and they all laughed and said “that wasn’t written in the record”. Bad attorney I had.. I used to get the girls everyother weekend. They were always sick as dogs, bleeding diaper rashes,ear infections e.t.c I always took them to the doctor and helped them, because he would not. Then they accused me of having Munchausen syndrome by proxy! Then they insisted on Supervised visits only. Then they put me on supervised after having a P.I follow me last year and he lied in his testimony about seeing me take the kids to see my father whom had an injunction on him not to see the girls because they dug up an old charge that was public lewdness from 1986! They won-supervised visits only for me. I pay $200.00 a week to see my girls for 4 hours. This actually turned out to not be so bad, because the supervisor documents all the abuse the girls are claiming, the jealous new 15 year younger girlfriends negative comments about me, e.t.c Now comes trial in a few months, I have opted for a jury of my peers. His side of the story- A bad mom who was on drugs and her family has a history of drug abuse (yep, family of origin issue here). Me- A mom who has proof I paid all the bills, he never worked, has no tax returns, sold dope (will have witnesses), used drugs, had DWI, jailed 7 times in the past 7 years for tickets, has been through no recovery, drinks like a fish daily and in the car with kids (they tell on him) ,non payment of his support for his son, warrants for bad checks e.t.c. I also despite my smoking weed a couple times a week, took my children to the library, parks,had great b-day parties, was very involved in every aspect of their life. Now of course I can do even better with NO addictions. Let me know what yall think my chances are of regaining custody. I hear the longer the kids are there, the harder it will be to get them back with me. They cry when they leave me, they beg to come and live with me, this is all documented. But the law in my state clearly states-There must be a substantial or material change to warrant the removal from him of custody-I think it’s there do you?
thanks,
sad lost mommy without my babies

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Husband and I are going through divorce…how do I get my daughter back asap!?!?

  • Posted on October 27, 2010 at 11:22 pm

My husband and I are splitting up for the second time. He is physically abusive and suffers from alcoholism. He was planning on moving his stuff out today. The only problem is that he went to my sitters house and took our 2 years old little girl! He is in no way responsible enough to care for her by himself. The only time her entire life she was left alone with him over night he left her at home alone and went to a bar and was pulled over going over 100mph drunk driving. I am concerned and think that it is in her best interest to come back home where she always has been until we go to court for custody,. I plan on going to the courthouse as soon as they open to file for divorce, full custody, and possibly a restraining order. Just 2 weeks ago he punched me in my lip with our daughter standing there watching the whole thing….She has never been away from me a full day….What do I do?!?!?!

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How do I get my baby back from Rev Run?

  • Posted on October 26, 2010 at 1:21 pm

I gave up my baby daughter for adoption. I had no idea that she was going to be adopted by Rev Run.

I saw her on the show “Run’s House.” They named her Miley. She is so adorable and I miss her. How can I get her back? Should I hire an attorney?

I gave her up because I was addicted to cocaine but now I am not doing as much coke so I want her back.

She is MY baby.

What should I do?

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