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Is it wrong to tell my husband I don’t want him to play in a band with a heroin addict?

  • Posted on September 11, 2010 at 5:23 am

The heroin addict in question is an old friend of both of ours. He has a habit of getting dangerously addicted to drugs and spending time in and out of rehab. I have been emotionally supportive for this guy multiple times, for almost 8 years!He swears he’s going to get better, he fails. Now he tells my husband recently that he’s tried heroin but only once or something. I have seen him recently sitting on the ground by the bus stop looking like he was tripping out and rocking back and forth on the ground! I told my husband that our child’s safety should be our biggest concern, not playing in a band. I told him I didn’t want this guy at our house and he had him over anyways(x2)! We have a six year old daughter!! I don’t want my child exposed to a heroin addict! So anyways the band is made up of like all of my husband’s friends and I told him I don’t want him going anymore. I told him go ahead tell them it’s my fault I don’t care. He hasn’t been going since I told him I was furious and I will not have it, but I think he’s actually blaming me for being the problem. I feel really bad that he may feel this way.. I was just looking out for the welfare of our family. I also want to add that he would always end up driving this guy to band practice and back and I didn’t want drugs in our car! Yahoo users was this wrong of me to do????

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