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The gift of a good night’s sleep

  • Posted on July 2, 2009 at 12:35 pm

I’ve struggled to find the perfect gifts for friends and family. I’ve shopped for hours to find that special something that sends just the right message? After a recent night without sleep I’ve come to a unique conclusion about gift giving. I now believe the best gift I could give someone is a good night’s sleep.

To Give the Gift of Rest… I’d love to hand that night of sleep, wrapped in a gift box, to the people who mean the most to me. What could be more delicious than hours of deep, healing rest? Picture it: the person you love most rising from bed in the morning, happy, refreshed and focused, with energy to last the day.

Imagine saying to your friends, “Here’s a whole night’s sleep. Just close your eyes and enjoy it.” To be able to give them the freedom to sink into slumber without a single, anxious thought. That simple gift could be the start of something big, perhaps a whole chain of restful nights strung together.

How much different would our loved ones’ lives be if they slept well every night? Would they follow conversations better, think faster, solve problems more quickly, have better concentration and drive more safely? I like to think that, with the gift of rest, the people I love could be even more extraordinary.

You see, I believe that simple present of gift boxed sleep could be the catalyst to better health and happiness. All I need do is look at my own life and the damage lack of sleep does to know what can be healed helping someone else sleep better.

To Give the Gift of Dreams… We haven’t yet discussed the wave of creativity gifts of restful sleep could set free. There’s no limit to the art our loved ones might create, given rich, dream filled nights. On the other hand, what wonderful inventions have been lost to nagging insomnia? It hurts to think of the loss to society sleepless nights may have caused.

I hesitate to call it a revolution, but I believe this gift of ours, this peaceful night of sleep, could be the key to endless creativity. I’m certain there are people in our lives who are waiting to imagine great things, given the simple gift of enough sleep each night.

To Give the Gift of Joy… There’s a sad cycle I’ve witnessed in the lives of those around me, and it goes like this—anxiety and depression disrupt their sleep, and lack of sleep worsens their symptoms. I’d love to be able to break that cycle and bring back joy to their lives.

What a wonderful Christmas present, handing someone suffering from anxiety a whole night without racing thoughts! The happiness these friends miss is heartbreaking; to gift wrap sleep and the peace it could promote in their minds would be an act of friendship, indeed.

To Give the Gift of Healing… There’s one more reason I’d like to give my loved ones sleep, and that’s the healing it would bring to their bodies. I watch my friends as they struggle with cardiac, respiratory and digestive problems, and know if they slept at night, healing might be triggered.

Who knows how much healthier each of us would be, given enough sleep? Would our skin be clearer, our hearts stronger and our immune systems more durable? If we could see the benefits kick-starting the habit of adequate sleep might trigger, I think we’d be even more anxious to give our loved ones the gift of sleep.

Sleep is the ultimate gift to offer those closest to us. When our loved ones sleep, their bodies have the chance to regroup, heal and strengthen for the days ahead. And what, after all, could be a better result from any gift we give?

Matthew White, the Sultan of Snooze, is the author of “Sleep Anywhere Anytime in 7 Minutes or Less” and “Eliminate Jet Lag Now”.
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Why to Love Your Work

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 10:12 pm

The prospect of retiring soon–or ever–has dimmed for a lot of us. If you’re going to be in the workforce for a very long time, there is one thing that’s absolutely essential: LOVE WHAT YOU DO.

Once we’ve been at something for a while, it’s comfortable to just keep doing it, even if it never was fun. But it makes heaps more sense to do what you love.

If the thought of doing what you are doing now until the day you die feels like drinking a large glass of vinegar, please make plans to do something else. Here are five good reasons to use that strategy.

JOB SATISFACTION: The first reason is, of course, that it makes your life more satisfying. When you love your job, you go to work happy and you come home happy. That translates into better health. Let’s not kid ourselves. No job is perfect all day every day. But if most days have you humming while you grade the papers, adjust the machine, or flip the burgers, you’re onto something.

If, on the other hand, just pulling into the company parking lot makes you want to throw up, you have a little remodeling project to take on. You need to make your work match yourself or you’re going to miserable 24 hours a day.

This sounds simple, but quite often it isn’t. Often, you get to “That’s it. I’m outta here” before you realize the problem. Being “outta here” without a plan for what you want to do next isn’t such a good idea in this economy.

There are good books to help you figure out what you really want. (Books by Martha Beck, Barbara Sher, and me all offer help with this.).) You can try a life coach. Or do a Vision Quest. You can contemplate you left thumb for fifteen minutes every morning until the light starts to dawn if that’s what works for you. Do SOMETHING to discover the kind of work that thrills you when you think of it.

The best clues are how you feel when you encounter the work that’s really yours. The idea of getting involved in it will be energizing. You will have a calm sense of confidence as you start to explore it. Be sincere in looking for YOUR answers. And be open to what comes. You will be amazed.

TALENT MATCH: When you do what you love, the probability that you are truly suited for it goes up exponentially. I have a long time friend who was a good geologist. He could also sell salt water in the Mariana Trench. When he linked his natural sales skills with what he knew about rocks, his prospects skyrocketed. He sold mining and construction equipment quite successfully.

PERCEIVED VALUE: People like to work with those who are happy at what they are doing. When you do what you love, you do it well. Customers or clients will love you. The people who love what they are doing are the ones who get asked to be on the company dream teams, too.

This is not a case of faking it for the sake of advancement. There’s an intuitive piece to this that you just can’t counterfeit. If you like what you do, people like working with you. Period. So find what you like. Find what you LOVE.

JOB SECURITY: Loving what you do will not guarantee you never get laid off. Not even working for yourself guarantees that anymore. But when you love what you do, you find other ways to use what you know to be able to keep doing it.

If you are told they don’t need you as the team lead manufacturing elephant harnesses and you love leather, there are other ways to work with it. If you love to work in a kitchen and just got let go as a short order cook, you may hire on with a caterer, or make nightly meals for clients who can then look forward to your delicious deliveries after a long day of their own work (also at something they love, I hope).

LONGEVITY: You can try to MAKE yourself like what you are already doing, but that doesn’t work for long. The real answer is to find something you love doing whether you get paid for it or not. That solution gives you one last plus–something you will be happy continuing to do–in some form–for as long as you live.

Including for money if you need to. There are lawyers still active in law at age 99; a favorite centenarian story was of a woman still proofreading for the St. Louis Dispatch after her 100th birthday.

Do what you love and use it to thrive–for a long time

Copyright (c) 2009 Mary Lloyd

Mary Lloyd is the author of Supercharged Retirement: Ditch the Rocking Chair, Trash the Remote, and Do What You Love. She offers seminars on how you can create a meaningful retirement for yourself and consults to help your business attract and use retired talent well. She is also available as a speaker. For more insights on how to live well in retirement and before it, go to => http://www.mining-silver.com .

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Personal Development – Tips on Goal Setting

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 9:05 pm

Personal development cannot be achieved without having clear-cut goals first. How will you be able to ascertain that you have really improved physically, emotionally, mentally or even spiritually if you do not have a basis? Moreover, if you have no idea where you want to go, what things you want to change, or what victories you want to achieve, there is a big chance that you will not be able to make most out of your abilities. Constantly challenging yourself and setting higher goals for you to achieve as the years pass by will also help you become a better person inside and out. So, before you start mapping your way to personal improvement, you first need to master goal setting because your goals will be the foundation to your path to self-improvement and development.

The first step to setting your personal development goals is to look inside yourself and think of the things that you really want to achieve. Are you having problems with your waist and want to achieve better health and wellness? Are you interested in getting rich and learning stock market strategies? Is wealth creation your primary goal so that you could give your family a better life? Once you have learned what your deepest desires are, you can start turning your wishes into viable goals. However, it is important that you make your goals achievable. Take one step at a time. Many people get discouraged by failures because they reach for the sky too soon. It would be better if you do it slowly so that you also start to discover yourself in the process. So, if you are planning to trim down your body from 350 to 120 pounds, you should not expect that you would lose 220 pounds in just six months because it is simply not realizable and it can also be unhealthy for you.

The next step is for you to think of ways in which you can achieve your personal development goals. Many people fail or feel like failing because they get stuck to dreaming and setting goals. If getting rich is your ultimate desire, then watching television all day long will not bring you any closer to your wealth creation objectives. So, what you need to do is to find tangible plans on how you can reach your goals. If you want to become a home based entrepreneur, then you have to start planning where you will get money to invest in your business, what business you want to get yourself into, what your backup plans are just in case you fail. Remember that goals will remain goals and not realities if you do not start to step up and plan.

The last step is to take action. Again, goal setting and planning will bring you nowhere if you do not act on them. However, you also need to understand that the road to personal development is not a straight and flat road. More often than not, before you can achieve your goals, you need to accept the fact that the road to self-improvement is a long and winding one.

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