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i am bitter bout a breakup, how do i deal with that with my daughter?

  • Posted on September 2, 2010 at 10:21 pm

i was in a serious relationship for 5 years and we have one child together, he is a crackhead that is currently in jail but set to get out soon, i dont want anythign to do with him, but he is her dad, how do i portray my feelings to her, how do i deal with him and all his faults that i dealt with, without making my daughter bitter or unknowing of her father, do i just keep up with my i hate him, and i want him to be as miserable additude, do i just not talk about him and hope for the best, how do i deal with the future, with him maybe or maybe not in her life, i want him to have nothing to do with her, part of that is because of my feelings for him, but mostly because i dont want her to see his addictions, or have the very poor relationship that he has with his other 2 children that he abandoned to come here,
he left them to come to me, to leave his problems in N.Y and then left us to go to TN to live with anouther woman, again running away, how do i hate him and her not hate me?

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How to handle a very bitter ex?

  • Posted on August 1, 2010 at 3:18 pm

Beside going to court (which has been done) what can me and my husband do to get his “bitter ex” to come around? We have taken her to court but she fails to follow through with visitaion and makes us look like the bad ones. She will go on sparactic binges of letting us see his daughter with her and then she will get hateful saying she doesnt want the little girl around me or the kids we have together. She has issues mentally and is so up & down. We are at the point where we have just left it alone and dont contact her. My husband really loves his daughter though and wants to be in her life. What shoudl we do and do you think this bitter ex will ever come around? She has done any & everything she can to make our lives hell but I refuse to let it work, we want to do whats right for the child. Help.

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