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I have been dating a black guy with a biracial daughter (blac/japanese) and he does not discpline her….help?

  • Posted on October 24, 2010 at 1:19 pm

I met this guy in January of 2006 while he was legally separted from his wife, who lives in Japan. They have a daughter together who is 8. He met her back in the military…you know how the story goes with these military relationships. He moved back to the states about 2 years ago and the mother decided that she did not want him or the daughter and left.
I met him and have tried my darndest to accept his daughter, but my problem is her lack of respect from me and attitude. He spoils her rotten and is not consistent with disicpline. He did admit that she is not used to boundaries or discpline. My problem is that since the mother has left she tries to act like his ‘girlfriend or wife”. She has referred to him, in front of me, that her daddy his her man and said this in a matter-of-fact sultry tone. She calls him names like stupid and manipulates the hell out of him. He is addicted to porn and I sometimes “wonder” about their relationship. Is something going on?
Correction, I met him in January of 2007. During the early part of our relationship we talked about her behavior and things seemed to get better, 6 months later we are battling the same thing. I mentioned to him that she is going to give any women that he with a hard time. He keeps saying that he is going to work on her behavior, but he is not consistent. She questions me like she is an adult, throws her mother in my face, even though her mother does not give a damn about her. He agrees with me and then turns around and gets defensive about the whole situtation about disiplining her. When me and him are together it is a match made in heaven, but when she is around we begin to argue and fight. I cant believe that a parent cant control their 8 year old child. She is only 8, but has the demeanor and attitude of a teenager. In addition, she walks around the house without shirt on when she is getting dressed. Is this appropriate for a 8 year old who is being raised by her father?

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diarriea with black poop?

  • Posted on October 22, 2010 at 11:24 am

Dr. Oz my 34 year old married daughter is having diarriea since Friday, she thinks it is food poisoning from eating Fish Sandwich from McDonald’s. She wanted me to find out why is the Poop Black. She did drink Pepto.
What should she eat. Had gingerale, water, dry toast so far, still going.
I also told her to drink orange peel tea with cloves.

Thank you,
Angie

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black and white movie with alcoholic father who dies in the snow on Christmas?

  • Posted on October 17, 2010 at 8:17 pm

pLEASE HELP WITH THE TITLE- A FATHER IS AN UNEMPLOYED ALCOHOLIC. hIS WIFE IS ALWAYS PUTTING HIM DOWN IN FRONT OF THEIR DAUGHTER. oN cHRISTMAS EVE, THE DAD GOES OUT IN THE SNOW TO FIND A JOB, BUT HE NEVER COMES HOME.APPARENTLY HE DIED. THIS WAS IN BLACK AND WHITE.

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Tiny black squiggly lines in 14 month olds poop?

  • Posted on August 17, 2010 at 12:18 am

Lately my 14 month old’s poops have been on the light colored side & have black squiggly lines throughout it. they are VERY small & VERY thin but they have the squiggly shape of like little worms is the best way I can explain it. (They dont move so Im guessing they’re not worm!)

I know when she eats kiwis her bms have a bunch of black seed in it (sorry for the tmi) & lately my daughter has been on a banana binge for about the last week & I was thinking maybe that had something to do with these squiggly black lines in her poop?

Has anyone had any experience with this?

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How to Grow Black Hair: African American Hair Care Tips

  • Posted on January 11, 2010 at 10:07 am

This article is a must read if you want to grow longer hair, or even stop hair loss. No matter how many products or treatments you have tried, hair growth can be achieved despite years of stunted hair growth, shedding, and hair trauma. Trust me, I am speaking from personal experience. About three years ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer. Unfortunately, one of the side effects of my medications and chemotherapy was hair loss and balding. Devastated by having patches of hair on my head, during recovery, I did what most people do—I bought wigs. At first, the wigs seemed like a perfect solution. But, they were really a cover up. Moreover, my niece would scream when she saw me because she couldn’t recognize me with my “new wig.” So, I begin using hair loss products in hopes to regrow my hair. Unfortunately, this was another unsuccessful venture. Rogaine. DHT Blockers. Minoxidil. All of these products failed to perform what they promised. Further, I spend hundreds of dollars on Minoxidil every month, only to have no hair growth and a sore scalp. Frustrated, I decided that there had to be a method or some natural product available that would grow my hair, stop my shedding, and stop my balding. Believe it or not, I found one. However, there are some things you need to know about hair loss before I tell you what worked for me.

What Causes Hair Loss?

Hair loss, shedding, and balding occurs for several reasons. They may occur because of heredity, diet, lifestyle choices, or prescribed medications. Even your hair care products and styling techniques may be facilitating your hair loss or stunting your hair growth. If you are like me, a combination of these factors may be retarding your hair growth. If your diet is laden with fats, alcohol, sugars, and junk foods, you are actually inhibiting your hair’s ability to grow. If you buy most, if not all, of your hair care products from traditional stores, you are most likely buying a hair-damaging useless product. Most hair care products, including most of those that claim to be “all-natural,” contain synthetic emulsifiers and harsh detergents, such as Ammonium Lauryl Sulfate, Phosphates, and Sodium Lauryl Sulfate. Unfortunately, these products are loaded with toxins and chemicals that actually dry and strip your hair of vital nutrients it needs to grow.

How to Grow Your Hair, Stop Balding, and Stop Hair Loss?

You have to attack hair loss on the inside and the outside. A great hair growth regimen has three necessary components: a healthy eating plan, substantial water intake, and a high quality hair growth and hair care product.

Step One: A Healthy Hair Eating Plan

Your hair is all protein. Thus, you need a protein rich diet, chocked fill of B Vitamins and other hair-strengthening nutrients. Increase your intake of fish. It is full of healthy proteins and essential fatty acids and natural oils your hair needs. In addition, drink a protein supplement or shake everyday. If you follow this plan, not only will your hair grow, but you will also lose weight. That is, of course, if you lay off the junk food. Remember, I warned you too much junk food above.

Step Two: Drink Water

Eight to ten glasses of water is an absolute requirement. Drinking water flushes your body of toxins, chemicals, and impurities that stifle your hair growth and disrupt your hormone and enzyme imbalances. Water also transports the important nutrients your body needs throughout your body. Hate drinking water? Add lemon and Splenda to have a healthy, tasty alternative.

Step Three: Buy a High Quality Hair Growth Product

I suggest you go all-natural. Unnatural hair care products are a no-no for someone who wants long-lasting, healthy hair growth. Find a hair growth product that contains powerful essential oils, natural herbs, and vitamin rich nutrients your hair needs to survive. Look for products with ingredients such as: Aloe Vera, Citrus Fruits, Jojoba, Rosemary, and Sage. Make sure you stray away from all natural products that use natural extracts. Extracts are not as powerful as essentials oils. They are a cheap substitute for the real thing. Although there are several natural hair care products on the market, not all hair growth products are created equal. Make sure you read the fine print. Most “natural” products still contain phosphates, sodium lauryl sulfate, petroleum, mineral oil, and other lab created humectants that ultimately damage your hair. My advice—if you can’t read the ingredients, don’t buy the product. When I was searching for a natural hair growth product, I found one really great buy, Beauty 4 Ashes Super Hair Growth System. Finding this company took me awhile; but Beauty 4 Ashes pretty much gives you everything you need to make your hair grow. Foremost, I checked the ingredient listings and the products contained no artificial ingredients. The system also included hair growth vitamins, a great hair healthy eating plan, and even scalp stimulating hair growth exercise routine. At first, the system may seem a bit pricey, but, boy was I impressed with the results. In 9 months, I went from patches of hair to hair just above my shoulders. Now, I am no product junkie; but I have to tell you that this product is worth the money. It does not cost an arm and leg and it is worth every penny you pay. You can find it easily at www.discoverb4a.com. Also, check for it on Ebay. You may actually find a deal.

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