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My close friend blew me off for 8 months after I had my baby, now expects to just pop back into my life?

  • Posted on November 14, 2010 at 1:23 pm

If it had been someone I wasn’t close to or didn’t talk to very often I wouldn’t have cared so much, but this was one of my very best friends. We talked all the time, helped each other thru bad times, had playdates with our kids and shared babysitting, and have been friends for 13 years. When I had my daughter in January, I called her from the hospital to tell her the baby was here. She texted me back and said she was sick and didn’t want to come to the hospital and would call me later…..didn’t hear from her for 7 months. I know that I could have called her, but I had just had a baby, by c-section, was moving, and was hurt that she never called. I felt like I didn’t have to call and beg her to come and meet my new baby. So a couple weeks ago, she sent a request to add me as a friend on facebook..but no message or anything, so I waited to add her because I wanted to think about it first. We have a lot of mutual friends and I have heard over the months that she has become a nasty person and that she’s been taking ecstasy and I wasn’t sure if I wanted to be friends with her anymore. I also felt that I was owed some kind of apology or honest explanation. I added her anyway because I decided that after 13 years of friendship, I should see what she had to say. Expecting an apology, this is what I got…” hey girl, sorry, I lost your number, hope you don’t hate me. I had something for your baby girl.” She lost my number?!?!?! I’m sure it didn’t just fall out of her phone, and since we have about 15 friends in common, I’m sure she could have gotten my number from someone else in the past 7 months. I really felt insulted, like she thinks I’m that stupid that I would accept that BS excuse! I didn’t even respond..didn’t know what to say to that. What would you do? What should I say to her, if anything? Should I even try to rekindle the friendship? Thanks:)

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