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My boyfriends baby momma is breaking probation, shes in another state, we would like to get custody of the….?

  • Posted on March 20, 2011 at 9:23 pm

baby but her parents are pretty high up in the political latter here. She has driven drunk with the baby(4yrs old) in the car, and the child knows what is going on, thats the worst part. one night she asked who was going to drive them home “mommy drank bad stuff” and this week alone she has spent 1 night with her daughter, the other 6 shes been with the grandmother. should I report her? to help us get custody?

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Can my boyfriend’s soon to be ex-wife legally say I can’t be around her daughter?

  • Posted on January 5, 2011 at 10:20 am

My boyfriend, who also happens to be the biological father of my oldest daughter, is going through a nasty divorce. Right after his ex left we started seeing each other. We have been ever since, it’s been almost 16 months. He still hasn’t got divorced because the ex is trying to get back with him, and keep contesting it over and over. Also he has been very back and forth on whether or not he wanted to give her another chance, so he didn’t really “rush” this divorce along. He was very naieve about the whole process.
It’s hard to put this all into a short lil composed story, but basically she moved 1 state over months and months ago and he’s been making the trip there so that she can see her daughter, even a couple of times towards the end he let his daughter stay the night with her.
All was well, until last weekend she called to say she was driving to town and staying in a hotel and wanted to see their daughter. My bf told her he didnt want their daughter staying in a hotel so she could have her the next day. He proceeded to drop her off with her in the morning, when time came to pick her up, the ex didnt respond to any calls or txts. We later learned she fled to another state with her and he could do nothing about it until he recieved a temporary custody paper.
Ok so onto my problem now… she still has the child and is telling him that I will never be allowed to be around his daughter, which is also mind you, my daughter’s sister. We will be getting her back once he gets paperwork, but when they have divorce court in a few months I’m wondering if she can try and break us up by not allowing the child around me. Obviously she has to have grounds for this, which are the following: I have been arrested, but before I was ever dating him, or around his child, and everything but 1 thing was dropped in court, which was resisting arrest, which I spent 8hrs in an anger mgmt class and 36 days house arrest for. Also before we were dating, or I was ever living with his child I tried to kill myself and spent 30 days in the hospital, 5 of which were in a mental facility, where i was cleared to go home.
Should I be worried? I have been raising his lil girl for over a year bc her own mom has barely been around. Now all the sudden she wants to keep her from me bc I was mad and txtd her that her daughter will know all about her mom one day. She feels that she is going to use my past against me.

Ok now onto her past:
While she was pregnant she smoked pot and took pills to get high, they drug tested the baby when she was born and she came up positive.
During their marriage she cheated on him with almost every single one of his friends, inlcuding his roommate while he was in the other room.
She has done every drug imaginable even after the baby was born, including smoking crack, and meth.
She would have family members come over to watch the baby every single day so that she can go meet up with random men and get drugs.
After she left him she started stripping at a local strip club.
She has repeatedily threatened to kill herself if he doesnt take her back.

Please, I welcome any and all responses. I want to know LEGAL stuff more so than opionions. Thank you in advance.
I am not a threat to her in anyway what so ever, but can she use my past against me? My past is in no way abusive or involving children.

Also, she is trying to claim that I am still suicidal, and that I am on drugs. Can she even bring this up in court or will they just realize she is a jealous ex-wife?

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My boyfriends sister is a morally reprehensible person? Is it a dealbreaker?

  • Posted on December 24, 2010 at 5:22 pm

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs, he recently moved from an apartment with his friends back home with his parents until we find a house together. His sister is 27 (we are 23) and she has a 3 yr old daughter whom she is neglectful and abusive towards. My boyfriend is ignorant of the situation, but I know it eats him up inside. His sister had this child by having sex in exchange for drugs, which she told me one night when she was intoxicated, but my boyfriend is basically in denial of this. She is living at home with her parents and they take care of the kid while she boozes and parties. She hooked up with an exboyfriend not too long ago and shortly before she also went to Vegas with me and some of my friends and she slept with two different men. Now she is pregnant and claims it is the ex-boyfriends, and she is supposedly moving in with him. He is also a very wealthy stockbroker, and I’m pretty sure she’s doing it to get her ticket out of the parents house…
It’s also hurtful because I got pregnant by accident 2 yrs ago and had a miscarriage w/ complications and was told I couldnt have kids. Since my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married and we have saved enough for a down payment on a house, we decided to keep trying to have a baby since we knew it could be hard for us. We had three more miscarriages, so it is somewhat of a sore subject for me especially. And it hurts to see his sister using this pregnancy as her meal ticket to being taken care of financially, especially when she abuses the child she already has. I’m at the point of running away screaming, but my boyfriend and I have a wonderful loving relationship, and he is nothing like his psychotic sister, he kind of just got sucked in by moving back in. Now he’s not sure if we can move out because he thinks he may have to help take care of kid # 2 since it may not be the ex-bf’s. I don’t know if it’s worth it to deal with all of his family drama?

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Why does my boyfriends mom hate me so much?

  • Posted on December 17, 2010 at 9:24 am

well I’ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now in the beginning of the relationship his mom and i were cool but sometimes i had this gut feeling that she wasn’t fond of me.so whatever ignored my gut feeling but to continue, they had moved from the place they were living for about 1 year i helped his family move then his mom suggested that i come live with them. my boyfriend was down with what his mom said so i was like why not.everything was cool for about a month or so then there was this day me and my boyfriend took his brother and sister to play basketball after me and his family returned his mom was overly intoxicated and hanging her self over the balcony yelling my name saying that i don’t love her:s. i ignored that seeing at that time she got drunk often and always acted that way. my boyfriend and i and his sister and brother reached up stairs to his apartment when we walked in his mom wanted us to help her change she wasn’t capable we tried and she kept trying to run out the in hallway naked and trying to jump off the balcony:s.i thought that was strange behavior so i had called her brother because he always knew how to control her .at first he told me to try and clam her down that didn’t work she started screaming because we wouldn’t her go out in the hallway because who knows what could happen.finally both of her sons came down to help me and and her youngest daughter. they could also not control her so i had called her brother again finally he was on his way to come over and calm her down.but before he even reached to the door she was trying to fight everyone in her way just so she could go out in the hallway. finally my boyfriend held her down and she scratched up his face,out of nowhere she started calling me a whore saying i slept with 10 guys:s and told me i was overweight and that everything is my fault then started calling my mom saying i’m a whore and stealing my property,finally my boyfriends uncle came to the door my mans mom let him in his mom started making false accusations about me and telling lies to her brother.her brother tried taking us all out of my boyfriends mom’s house just so she can calm down.she didnt allow it she called the police and said her own brother was trying to kidnap her own kids.her brother had left then at that point and security came and so did the cops.me and my boyfriend left that night and went to a friends his mom started calling him and harassing him and pinned everything on me. he didn’t listen after that day we didn’t talk to his mom for three months she then called him and said that she was sorry for disrespecting me and him also i had accepted her apology because i thought it was her intoxication talking that day but i should have listened to my mother because she told me this was going to happen again but it would be worse .she invited me to move back in the first few months were ok, then i had invited my friend over and we all drank that day including my boyfriends mom and she told me the reason why she kicked us out was because she wasn’t ready to let go of her baby boy.i found that strange after that month it got weirder his mom had told my boyfriend a chore she wanted me to do she only had told him that i would have to clean the toilets and counters so i did all of a sudden she started to freak out on my boyfriend and started talking crap about me in Spanish thinking i wouldn’t understand, i understood. that next morning i went downstairs his mom was there i ate breakfast cleaned my dish then wanted to excersize i learned this excersize off of you tube on how to get bigger glutes with using chairs. so i had walked downstairs to get a chair and my boyfriends mom told me not to get a chair, i asked her why not? and she told me pretty much that im going to break it.i got offended because shes implying that im fat. i came back downstaris after my excersize and she was on the phone and i said the chair didnt break she didn’t hear me then so i went upstairs and grabbed my bottle of water to refill it and i said once again the chair isn’t broken she then told me to shut up that i was a bitch and she started bringing up my relationship problems because my boyfriends had flirted and such and continued to insult me so i told her she’s retarded she then told me to go upstairs to the room and i said no im going to sit and wait here for my boyfriend and i told her we don’t even have to converse. she then told me she didnt want to see my ugly face so i told her ill sit down here and annoy you sarcastically.she then told me get out of my house i said sure let me get my things shes didnt listen she started throwing my things down the stairs and out the door i got mad and said stop and told her stop or ill go in your room and do the same things your doing to my belongings i walked to her room and she pushed me i told her once not to put her hands on me she then went back to my boyfriends room st

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My boyfriend’s sister does morally reprehensible things? Is it a dealbreaker?

  • Posted on November 4, 2010 at 7:23 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 yrs, he recently moved from an apartment with his friends back home with his parents until we find a house together. His sister is 27 (we are 23) and she has a 3 yr old daughter whom she is neglectful and abusive towards. My boyfriend is ignorant of the situation, but I know it eats him up inside. His sister had this child by having sex in exchange for drugs, which she told me one night when she was intoxicated, but my boyfriend is basically in denial of this. She is living at home with her parents and they take care of the kid while she boozes and parties. She hooked up with an exboyfriend not too long ago and shortly before she also went to Vegas with me and some of my friends and she slept with two different men. Now she is pregnant and claims it is the ex-boyfriends, and she is supposedly moving in with him. He is also a very wealthy stockbroker, and I’m pretty sure she’s doing it to get her ticket out of the parents house…
It’s also hurtful because I got pregnant by accident 2 yrs ago and had a miscarriage w/ complications and was told I couldnt have kids. Since my boyfriend and I are planning on getting married and we have saved enough for a down payment on a house, we decided to keep trying to have a baby since we knew it could be hard for us. We had three more miscarriages, so it is somewhat of a sore subject for me especially. And it hurts to see his sister using this pregnancy as her meal ticket to being taken care of financially, especially when she abuses the child she already has. I’m at the point of running away screaming, but my boyfriend and I have a wonderful loving relationship, and he is nothing like his psychotic sister, he kind of just got sucked in by moving back in. Now he’s not sure if we can move out because he thinks he may have to help take care of kid # 2 since it may not be the ex-bf’s. I don’t know if it’s worth it to deal with all of his family drama?

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How to deal with my boyfriend’s ex-wife and daughter?

  • Posted on September 22, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My boyfriend and I started dating just over a year ago. He was still married at the time but very unhappy and his ex was cheating on him. They have a 16 year old daughter. she’s been getting in trouble (using drugs and stealing things). Saturday her mother dropped her off at our apartment and told my bf that she found cocaine in their daughter’s bag. And she was grounded for 3 weeks for stealing. He told me, but didn’t say anything about it to his daughter. Yesterday morning she left, just took off. We went out looking for her but couldn’t find her. My bf called his ex just to let her know. But about 2 hours later his ex called and yelled into the phone “you and Melissa need to come downstairs NOW” so we did. i get downstairs and she starts screaming at me. Saying that her daughter called her crying because I told her that her mom found cocaine in her bag and she was going to be in more trouble. I just walked away from her because that’s the 3rd or 4th time she’s done that to me.
I think their daughter does that so she won’t get in trouble for taking off. She knows that her mother hates me so when she says “Melissa told me that you found cocaine in my bag and now I’m in more trouble” crying on the phone to her mother it pushes buttons and turns her mothers anger onto me. I never said anything to their daughter about anything and I’m so sick of being bitched at everytime their kid gets into trouble.
My bf tried to talk to his x about their daughter’s drug problems months ago when if was just a problem with pot and she blew him off. she said that they did it when they were young so it’s probably fine. I know for a fact that his x and her bf smoke pot daily so maybe she feels hypocritical if she yells at her kid for it but she has to be a parent.

I try to stay out of things involving their kid, and the divorce when they were figuring out money and the house and everything- which she got all of even though she didn’t deserve any of it. Her bf moved in 2 days after my bf moved out and since then their daughter has been worse.
Also just found out 2 weeks ago that I’m pregnant. And we’re planning to get married next year

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Boyfriends mom asks me to find new home for his dog and now she’s harassing me to get dog back from new owner?

  • Posted on September 20, 2010 at 12:17 pm

I am unfairly caught in the middle. My EX- boyfriend is a 31 yr old drug addict. He has gone off on a binge for weeks. The last time I went to his apartment to check on him he angrily gave me his puppy, saying he can’t care for him right now. Worried about the pups safety. I immediately contact bf’s mother about what to do. She expressed to me verbablly that while she loves the dog she can’t care for him. I couldn’t care for the pup permanently because I live with a roomate who is afraid of dogs. Bf’s mother gave me instructions to find him a good home. I checked and doubled checked with his mother to confirm if she felt comfortable with me finding the puppy an new home. I have emails and txts where she again tells me she thinks that finding the pup a home would be best…So I did find the pup a great home. Its been 4 days and the daughter has already become attached to the pup, they called me to update me on how the pup is doing and thank me for bringing the dog into their lives.
Now my bf’s mother is harassing me to get dog back from new owner, saying she made a mistake, wants to keep the dog in the family.. She put me in an awful position but I contacted the new owner, explained my ex’s mothers remorse. The new owner says she feels horrible but wants to keep the dog because her daughter is already attached. Does the new owner have to give back the dog?
Mother is threatening to call the cops on me, find the new owner etc. etc. Mother has PHOTOCOPIES of paperwork for dog ie. vet bills, health records but I gave the new owner the ORIGINALS of this paperwork..does the new owner have rights to keep dog? I feel terrible for both sides but the mother made a major decision and its not fair to hold me accountable or harass me if the new owner wants to keep the dog…

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Boyfriends mom asks me to find new home for his dog and now she’s harassing me to get dog back from new owner?

  • Posted on September 20, 2010 at 4:17 am

I am unfairly caught in the middle. My EX- boyfriend is a 31 yr old drug addict. He has gone off on a binge for weeks. The last time I went to his apartment to check on him he angrily gave me his puppy, saying he can’t care for him right now. Worried about the pups safety. I immediately contact bf’s mother about what to do. She expressed to me verbablly that while she loves the dog she can’t care for him. I couldn’t care for the pup permanently because I live with a roomate who is afraid of dogs. Bf’s mother gave me instructions to find him a good home. I checked and doubled checked with his mother to confirm if she felt comfortable with me finding the puppy an new home. I have emails and txts where she again tells me she thinks that finding the pup a home would be best…So I did find the pup a great home. Its been 4 days and the daughter has already become attached to the pup, they called me to update me on how the pup is doing and thank me for bringing the dog into their lives.
Now my bf’s mother is harassing me to get dog back from new owner, saying she made a mistake, wants to keep the dog in the family.. She put me in an awful position but I contacted the new owner, explained my ex’s mothers remorse. The new owner says she feels horrible but wants to keep the dog because her daughter is already attached. Does the new owner have to give back the dog?
Mother is threatening to call the cops on me, find the new owner etc. etc. Mother has PHOTOCOPIES of paperwork for dog ie. vet bills, health records but I gave the new owner the ORIGINALS of this paperwork..does the new owner have rights to keep dog? I feel terrible for both sides but the mother made a major decision and its not fair to hold me accountable or harass me if the new owner wants to keep the dog…

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If Sarah Palins daughter’s boyfriend’s mother got busted for weed, are you going to feel cheated by the news?

  • Posted on September 13, 2010 at 1:21 pm

They are making a HUGE deal out of it, if its something harmless like weed, are you going to feel cheated by the news media that it wasn’t something huge like a few bales of cocaine?

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If Sarah Palins daughter’s boyfriend’s mother got busted for weed, are you going to feel cheated by the news?

  • Posted on September 12, 2010 at 1:21 pm

They are making a HUGE deal out of it, if its something harmless like weed, are you going to feel cheated by the news media that it wasn’t something huge like a few bales of cocaine?

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