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Why do boyfriends/husbands say mean things to you if they love you?

  • Posted on August 5, 2010 at 2:17 pm

My boyfriend of over 2 years all over is a great person and has helped me through some rough times. But sometimes he says really mean things to me just to hurt me. For example…I moved to San Antonio, Tx from Fl with my(at the time) 3 year old daughter to be with him from Florida. He goes through binges of playing his computer game world of war craft and plays it from the moment he wakes up until he goes to sleep. I am 8 months pregnant with his daughter and the last few weeks he has played his game non-stop from when he wakes up at 12 in the afternoon or so until 3or 4 in the morning. Somtiems even later. A couple of days ago he wuit his job so its been literally EVERYDAY. He doesn’t take me out anywhere, at least he hasn’t for a long time. But I usually do not say anything, I just le it go and I still clean up after him, I clean up around the house,I give him massages and I over look what he does because I love him. So tonight I told him how him not spending time with me hurts me, and its driving me away. So he decides to attack me saying I don’t do anything around the house EVER, that I don’t cook for him EVER, that I don’t do anything but sit around. I’ve been trying my hardest lately. I’m 8 months pregnant and we live with his mom and two sisters and his mom does the majority of the work, which I admit. I have had a lot of trouble with my pregnany, I went into labor at 30 weeks and I’ve been sick a lot and have had severe lower back pain. I don’t ask him for much, and I usually don’t say anything. How could he attack me with lies just to hurt me, knowing I could go into labor or lose the baby because I get REALLT upset when someone hurts my feelings, expecially him? Also, I didn’t do anything to deserve it, I try my hardest and he doesn’t do anything, and usually I NEVER complain about it or tell him he’s doing something wrong just to hurt him, I just told himit was hurting me. I didn’t call him names or tear him down, so what did I do to deserve that, how could he say he loves me?

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