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My boyfriends baby momma is breaking probation, shes in another state, we would like to get custody of the….?

  • Posted on March 20, 2011 at 9:23 pm

baby but her parents are pretty high up in the political latter here. She has driven drunk with the baby(4yrs old) in the car, and the child knows what is going on, thats the worst part. one night she asked who was going to drive them home “mommy drank bad stuff” and this week alone she has spent 1 night with her daughter, the other 6 shes been with the grandmother. should I report her? to help us get custody?

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Should I take the blame for something I didn’t do, if it means I can avoid breaking a promise?

  • Posted on March 12, 2011 at 3:20 pm

Out of me and my younger sister, I was always the ‘bad’ daughter, because I smoked cigarettes and weed, was addicted to amphetamines and opiods (including heroin, occasionally), was an alcoholic, and most of my friends were dealers. I was like that from about 13 til two months ago, when I suddenly had a change of heart (I’m almost 19 now). I’ve quit all drugs (apart from caffiene and nicotine :P) and quit drinking, cold turkey. I decided to be healthy, and on top of that, to be an honest person, and live in a moral way, so I could start making up for how awful I’d been in the past.

Part of my new life is my decision that I would NEVER break a promise, because I want to be honest. Another thing I decided was that I would do everything I could to avoid causing people harm, and I would protect and look after my family as best I could.

This is my problem: my 14yr old sister (who, as far as my mom knows, is 100% good and has never done anything wrong) came home from school stinking of weed. My mom smelled it, and immediately assumed it was me who had been smoking it, because of my past. I said I hadn’t been smoking weed (which is true), but she doesn’t believe me, and is pulling a huge guilt trip which is making me really upset. My sister told me that not only did she smoke weed today, but that she smokes it very often, and drinks. She’s planning to go out and get drunk and stoned tonight, having lied to my mum about where she’s going. But she made me PROMISE not to tell our parents any of this.

What is the right course of action here? I would hate to break my promise, but on the other hand, I’m afraid she might get hurt or go down the same path I did if I don’t break the promise. And that would break the vow I made to protect my loved ones. Also, it’s unfair that I should be punished for something I didn’t do.
But then again, I feel like it’s my fault that she’s got in with a bad crowd (a lot of her friends do drugs, and she’s started to help her dealer friends measuring, packing and moving the weed on), because of the awful role model set to her. Should I set that right by telling my mom and hoping she will stop my sister ending up like I did? Or should I just take the blame and do nothing?

What is the moral course of action here?

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Should I take the blame for something I didn’t do, if it means I can avoid breaking a promise?

  • Posted on March 11, 2011 at 5:20 pm

Out of me and my younger sister, I was always the ‘bad’ daughter, because I smoked cigarettes and weed, was addicted to amphetamines and opiods (including heroin, occasionally), was an alcoholic, and most of my friends were dealers. I was like that from about 13 til two months ago, when I suddenly had a change of heart (I’m almost 19 now). I’ve quit all drugs (apart from caffiene and nicotine :P) and quit drinking, cold turkey. I decided to be healthy, and on top of that, to be an honest person, and live in a moral way, so I could start making up for how awful I’d been in the past.

Part of my new life is my decision that I would NEVER break a promise, because I want to be honest. Another thing I decided was that I would do everything I could to avoid causing people harm, and I would protect and look after my family as best I could.

This is my problem: my 14yr old sister (who, as far as my mom knows, is 100% good and has never done anything wrong) came home from school stinking of weed. My mom smelled it, and immediately assumed it was me who had been smoking it, because of my past. I said I hadn’t been smoking weed (which is true), but she doesn’t believe me, and is pulling a huge guilt trip which is making me really upset. My sister told me that not only did she smoke weed today, but that she smokes it very often, and drinks. She’s planning to go out and get drunk and stoned tonight, having lied to my mum about where she’s going. But she made me PROMISE not to tell our parents any of this.

What is the right course of action here? I would hate to break my promise, but on the other hand, I’m afraid she might get hurt or go down the same path I did if I don’t break the promise. And that would break the vow I made to protect my loved ones. Also, it’s unfair that I should be punished for something I didn’t do.
But then again, I feel like it’s my fault that she’s got in with a bad crowd (a lot of her friends do drugs, and she’s started to help her dealer friends measuring, packing and moving the weed on), because of the awful role model set to her. Should I set that right by telling my mom and hoping she will stop my sister ending up like I did? Or should I just take the blame and do nothing?

What is the moral course of action here?

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I’m pregnant and thinking about breaking up with my alcoholic bf, but how?

  • Posted on January 23, 2011 at 12:17 am

I’m 22 yrs old and 17 wks pregnant. My bf is 43. Yes, I know our age difference doomed us from the start. Anyways, I do love him but I dont think I want to be with him anymore. He is an alcoholic, he hasn’t told his daughter, she’s 15, that i’m pregnant, he has a hard time keeping a job. Whenever I am with him I just get more stress. I honestly think me and the baby would be better off without him. Now he is saying he doesn’t believe I am pregnant! I invited him to all my doctors appointment but he didnt come to any. I’m a big girl so I havent started showing yet, plus I heard you show later with your first pregnancy. Anyways, I dont know what to do…. the more I think of him the more of a loser I think he is. But can I be a single mom? I barely make enough money at my job to support myself. Any advice is appreciated…..

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Should I feel guilty for breaking up with my fiance’ for meth use?PLEASE HELP!?

  • Posted on December 27, 2010 at 7:20 pm

Sounds like a stupid question I know , but i found 4 glass pipes and a bag with meth residue. He admitted to using a week and half ago and claimed he does it very randomly. Other than his serious so called insomia and high blood pressure , i havnt seen any other side effects. I told his mom because he has a daughter, he told her sugar coated information of course. He isnt calling or texting me at all, I would think he would considering he feels bad , but could he just be mad cus he knows hes not addicted? I have emailed him a good bye email and he has yet to respond to that even.

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sarah palin more breaking news ?

  • Posted on August 30, 2010 at 11:23 pm

her hubby had an DWI how can people for them,
her daughter knock up and he gets duis

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What was that one book that talked about breaking the cycle of alcoholism and its behavior?

  • Posted on July 25, 2010 at 1:46 pm

I forgot the title.

Both my parents had alcoholic fathers, though my parents were not alcoholics themselves, they still carried some of the dysfunction (for example distant father, depressed mother that acted like she was her children’s daughter)… and I’m trying to find that book that talks about breaking that alcoholism behavior cycle…

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