Ok so this might be long but please help me.
I’m 17 (No negative comments please) and pregnant. By my step brother Jared who is 19. We are only related because my mother married his father NO BLOOD at all. We go to school together, and have been since my parents moved here when I was in seventh grade. Three years after that my parents divorced. about a year ago me and Jared started talking more he was the Senior Quarterback and I was sophomore in a higher math than most 16 year olds. It didn’t go farther than friends for awhile, after a big party at the end of that year we talked more and started making out dry humping lol but that was it no sex. After that he when to collage, and I continued high school. And i didn’t see him for a while, until my mother brought me to dinner with her boyfriend who I had never met, and there was Jared sitting at the table, Jared’s dad later broke the news to me and his two sons that him and my mother were going to be married. I was shocked. after i got home my mom said that after the honey moon we would be moving in with them. Great. The wedding was beautiful, mom left for two weeks on her sex vacation. then the movers came, packed up my stuff, and brought it to the biggest house I had ever seen (I had been there before for the party I mentioned earlier). Jared’s father owned his own company, my mother knows how to pick’em. lol!
Jared still lives at home, so he gave me the tour of the huge house. My room is upstairs, His right across the hall, our parents are not even in the same side of the house. We are in the West wing and they are in the East. During the tour I was not sure if he remembered me at all. but then we got to the office ( where we made out) and he said “You should remember this room” I shrugged like I didn’t. He surprised me by putting his hands on my hips and lifting me so I sat on his dads desk and he leaned his lower half in to me ( Position We had been in during the kissing) I could not help but laugh. when I did he stepped back and laughed we continued the tour of the house.
A few days later our parents were out of the house, we were watching TV and he leaned over and kissed me. we made out for a while we only stopped when we heard the garage door open.
A few nights later he came into my room late like 3 in the morning after some collage party he had been to completely drunk. He told me I was beautiful and he could not get me out of his head. I helped him to his bedroom and when I was pulling the covers over him he wrestled me into bed with him we laughed and he started kissing my neck and unbuttoning my shirt. I just laid there and let him kiss my neck and chest. The bra came off, He took off his shirt and we kissed awhile. Until he pasted out. the next morning he ask if we did it. i said no and he was like “good because if we do i want to remember you”. and he kissed my cheek and went to school.
That night I went into his room and things got hot, I gave him oral and he repaid the favor then we had sex, with a condom.(my first time)
The past few months have been like that, Sex every night always with a condom.
About 2 and 1/2 months ago, I was bored playing with the apps on my phone and I came across the calender, It’s summer so i didn’t really cared what the date was it was. The date shocked me I was late about three weeks, never been late before. I stared thinking when my last period was but honestly I couldn’t remember!
Three positive tests later here i am! Help Me.
1) Who do i tell first Jared or my mom. I know
I need to go to the doctor I am getting sick and already showing Serious baby bump I think I’m pretty far a long but I’m scared and have been hiding it for awhile
2) Do I tell my mom it’s Jared’s, Or not I’m keeping it, hands down it’s my baby and I will not skip out on my responsibility.
3)And to all the mothers answering, what would you do if i was your daughter. I don’t want them to spit up me and Jared i Love him do you think they will
HELP ME ANY ANSWER IS APPRECIATED! Advice on being a teen mother too please I am only a Jr., Right now it’s the summer before my Senior year!!! No negativity :-)
Ok thanks to everyone that had serious answers I’m gonna tell Jared tonight, our parents are out of the house so we will have time to go over everything. I don’t think he will talk me out of anything he is a good guy. I have a job and he works for his father the house is huge tons of extra rooms, and space for our son or daughter. My mother loves babys so lets hope she wants a grand baby. I am scared as hell wish me luck
