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single moms! WHO filed for child custody in california?

  • Posted on May 9, 2011 at 9:21 am

where you married?
who filed for divorce if any?
how long was court?
did u provide any evidence? what was the outcome?
does any one have supervised visitation?
any details that will help me

Iv been married to a marine for 6 months now. IM about 5 months pregnant and he has anger issues and takes it out on me hes been physically mentally verbally abusive to me i have proof in pictures and texts. I dont know anything about divorce or child custody. He tries to control me and my money. We have tried counseling and it doesn’t work. He has a violent past i have proof of him admitting it in text. Even though IM pregnant he still abuses me iv been slapped pushed and fell hes threatened to drownd me in the shower and toilet shoved and pushed agaisnt walls tackled to the floor from high stools has tried to suffocate me w his hands and pillows hes been on top of me pulling my hair grabbing my face yelling at me hes been suicidal w pills and a razor hes hit me multiple times IM scared when he gets mad i try to go to the room and he insists all the time yelling hitting walls getting in my face screaming, i always have to conform to him if i want things to work out hes manipulative all i want is safety for my child and me. He keeps me from my family when we go visit. He has a daughter and has me doing everything for her while he plays video games or watches TV and tells me shes my responsibility. He demands respect even though he cant give respect he has packed my clothes and kicked me out of the house a lot! douring the night hes told me to leave if i cant handle it.hes admited to be bipolar.hes grabed me from the neck and raised me agaisnt the wall while my feet dangle, hes covered my nose and mouth telling me he wishes i was a guy so he can do more damage, hes said your lucky your my wife, hes piked me up and thrown me after he hits me he tell me hes going to jail and wants to go to jail and wants to take me to the hospital hes done this and more WHILE IM PREGNANT
what counts as evidence?
i have texts admiting he needs help ,that he wants to go to jail for hurting me , i have videos of his doughter at parties where there is alcohol, he rather come clean w the truth, he feels hes lossing it, hes afraid,b he saying that he might go to a mental hospital or jail if he says the truth, he doesnt want to keep hurting me or the baby, he admits hes wrong, hes going crazy in his dead, he feels fake and isnt proud hes tot this far, there is a text he sent me saying hes done cocaine at 7 years of age, addicted to cocaine, extacy, heroin weed, he inhailed fumeshes robbed and killed to get money.
would this help me in court?
my lil sister is witness of his doughter being at a beer pong party where there was weed. his baby mama was abused and she stated that when she filed for child custody and support.
i just want supervised visitation fo my child.

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child custody, supervised visitation in california?

  • Posted on May 1, 2011 at 3:20 am

where you married?
who filed for divorce if any?
how long was court?
did u provide any evidence? what was the outcome?
does any one have supervised visitation?
any details that will help me

Iv been married to a marine for 6 months now. IM about 5 months pregnant and he has anger issues and takes it out on me hes been physically mentally verbally abusive to me i have proof in pictures and texts. I dont know anything about divorce or child custody. He tries to control me and my money. We have tried counseling and it doesn’t work. He has a violent past i have proof of him admitting it in text. Even though IM pregnant he still abuses me iv been slapped pushed and fell hes threatened to drownd me in the shower and toilet shoved and pushed agaisnt walls tackled to the floor from high stools has tried to suffocate me w his hands and pillows hes been on top of me pulling my hair grabbing my face yelling at me hes been suicidal w pills and a razor hes hit me multiple times IM scared when he gets mad i try to go to the room and he insists all the time yelling hitting walls getting in my face screaming, i always have to conform to him if i want things to work out hes manipulative all i want is safety for my child and me. He keeps me from my family when we go visit. He has a daughter and has me doing everything for her while he plays video games or watches TV and tells me shes my responsibility. He demands respect even though he cant give respect he has packed my clothes and kicked me out of the house a lot! douring the night hes told me to leave if i cant handle it.hes admited to be bipolar.hes grabed me from the neck and raised me agaisnt the wall while my feet dangle, hes covered my nose and mouth telling me he wishes i was a guy so he can do more damage, hes said your lucky your my wife, hes piked me up and thrown me after he hits me he tell me hes going to jail and wants to go to jail and wants to take me to the hospital hes done this and more WHILE IM PREGNANT
what counts as evidence?
i have texts admiting he needs help ,that he wants to go to jail for hurting me , i have videos of his doughter at parties where there is alcohol, he rather come clean w the truth, he feels hes lossing it, hes afraid,b he saying that he might go to a mental hospital or jail if he says the truth, he doesnt want to keep hurting me or the baby, he admits hes wrong, hes going crazy in his dead, he feels fake and isnt proud hes tot this far, there is a text he sent me saying hes done cocaine at 7 years of age, addicted to cocaine, extacy, heroin weed, he inhailed fumeshes robbed and killed to get money.
would this help me in court?
my lil sister is witness of his doughter being at a beer pong party where there was weed. his baby mama was abused and she stated that when she filed for child custody and support.
i just want supervised visitation fo my child.

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Modesto Resident Arrested in California Car Accident

  • Posted on January 5, 2010 at 12:07 am

A Modesto resident has been arrested after he made a dangerous pass, and crashed his car head-on into another vehicle, in a car accident that injured four of the other car’s passengers.

The Modesto Bee is reporting that on Sunday, Ray Servin was driving his Dodge on Highway 132, in rural west Modesto. According to reports by the California Highway Patrol, he made an “unsafe pass,” and as a result, his car crashed head-on into a Toyota coming up ahead. There were four occupants in the Toyota, and all of them suffered injuries. While Gabriel Guzman and her daughters, 2-year-old Mia and 7-year-old Lajady received major injuries in the car accident, the driver of the Toyota Felix Parada, received moderate injuries. The mother and her two kids were taken to the hospital where they were reported yesterday to be in a stable condition. Parada, who also received treatment at the same hospital as the Guzmans, was released after treatment.

Meanwhile, Servin was treated at the hospital for minor injuries sustained in the car accident. Tests conducted have shown his blood alcohol levels as being above the legal limit. He has now been arrested for driving under the influence with a blood alcohol level of .08 or more. Drinking and driving is not the only charge facing Servin. He has also been charged with irregularities in his identification card. Bail had initially been set at $25,000 but as of Monday, he was a free man.

The string of reckless actions this man indulged in was extensive. Not only was he driving recklessly, without heeding traffic rules, but he was also driving under the influence of alcohol. Add to that the charge of driving with a “fictitious, fraudulently altered, or fraudulently obtained identification card” and you begin to see that this man should logically still be behind bars.

It’s fortunate that the Guzman family was able to get the emergency medical help they needed, and are now expected to recover. This family has been put through a harrowing ordeal, no thanks to Ray Servin. This man should be held responsible for the trauma that the kids went though. Servin is currently a free man, cooling his heels after having posted bail. The Guzmans meanwhile, continue to be in the hospital.

CHP reports have confirmed that the car accident occurred not only due to his drunken behavior, but also the fact that he made a dangerous pass. The Guzman family definitely has grounds for a civil lawsuit against Servin. They should consult a California car accident lawyer quickly as possible to make sure that they receive the compensation they are obviously due.

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Choosing Northern California Drug Rehab For Your Loved One

  • Posted on January 2, 2010 at 12:20 pm

Watching a loved one grow deeper and deeper into an addiction is heartbreaking. Not only does it slowly rip apart the life of the addict, but it also impacts his family. And unless the family members have the information needed, knowing what to say or do is difficult.

That’s why it is important for family members to learn from a rehabilitation specialist that can counsel the family and suggest the important steps they need to take. The fastest and simplest way to start is to either call a reputable rehab center or to visit their website. Then complete the assessment provided.

The good news is that quality rehab centers are happy to speak to with anyone seeking answers regarding addictions – whether the person concerned is a daughter, son, or other loved one, or the questions pertain to one’s own addiction. This opens the door to making an educated decision about treatment centers and the various options available.

Some treatment programs focus on using drugs to assist in the treatment plan. But others believe that trading one drug for another is not the best way to go about recovery. Instead, these treatment options utilize a holistic approach that does not include the introduction of chemicals into the body.

In essence, quality programs are built on the notion that people are individuals and therefore, treatment plans must be individualized. A recovery or completion of a program takes as long as it takes for a given individual. What this means is that one person may only need treatment for a period of two or three months, but another may have the need for four, five, or even six months of treatment. The fact is that some people can quickly complete a treatment program, but others will progress more slowly.

With that being said, the treatment programs utilized should be flexible enough to accommodate this. In fact, the cost should not be based on the days in treatment, but rather, the cost should be based on the completion of the program. In other words, the rehab center should offer a sort of package deal that includes completion of the program, regardless of the amount of time it takes.

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Looking for the Best Alcohol Rehab in California, Utah or Washington?

  • Posted on January 2, 2010 at 6:07 am

Alcoholics come in every age, race, sex, and religion. Alcoholics are rich, alcoholics are poor. An alcoholic can be your mother, your father, your sister, or your brother. Your daughter can be an alcoholic, your son, your best friend, your boss; anybody can be an alcoholic. Alcoholism doesn’t know any boundaries, alcoholism isn’t prejudiced. Alcoholism doesn’t care if you have money. Alcoholism doesn’t care if you’re dying. Alcoholism doesn’t care if you are a man or a woman. Alcoholism is an addiction to alcohol, and what an alcoholic needs is support. You need support. Treating alcoholism isn’t easy, and it something that shouldn’t be done alone. There are many alcohol treatment facilities in California, Utah and Washington available to help you and the person you care about get the help and support you need.


If you are seeking help for someone you love and don’t know where to start, look to alcohol treatment centers for guidance. We can help you find an alcohol treatment facility for the alcoholic in your life. Alcoholism doesn’t only affect the person with the addiction. It affects everyone who loves that person, works with that person, drives on the same road with that person, alcoholism affects everyone that person knows, and many people they don’t. You want to help and that is why you are here. We are here to for you to start doing exactly that. Alcohol rehab in Utah . California and Washington is available and we are able to find the right treatment facilities for your needs and your budget.

We recognize that getting an alcoholic to get treatment is difficult. A good way to prepare is to have information available; contact alcohol treatment facilities at drug-rehab.org and our professional staff will be able to guide you to where you need to go. You need to know, that as a person who is living or dealing with an alcoholic you have options and were the first step in seeking the help that you are trying to get.

It doesn’t matter where in California you are. We can find a treatment facility your needs. Rehab is available to anyone in the state of California. Don’t wait until it’s too late and your loved one ends up hurting themselves, you, or someone else. Don’t let the emotional toll that alcoholism brings into your life wear on you anymore. Alcohol treatment centers are for you and your loved one who needs help, and we are here to make it easy for you to find it.

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