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I used to love the show 24, and I want to get back into it. What is the best way to get caught up on the show?

  • Posted on January 29, 2011 at 10:21 am

I don’t have time to watch all of the previous episodes, is there somewhere that I can just read quick summaries of each season? Or, is there a video that hits all the highlights that have happened in the show so far? Who died, who left, who betrayed, who came back, who came through, is his daughter still in the picture (Elisha Cuthbert), did he kick the drug addiction he was fighting, who is the president now, etc etc

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i have a friend who’s 16 year old daughter was caught smoking pot. what would you say to her when she says…

  • Posted on January 16, 2011 at 10:20 pm

i would never do man-made drugs (meth, crank etc…) what’s wrong with smoking weed? i like the way it makes me feel. when her daughter asked why she should stop, her mom told her because i said so. well that was not good enough. she has been caught smoking weed with friends and in her backyard.
thanks so much for all the answers. her mom did have her take a drug test and she didn’t hesitate to admit she is smoking pot. it’s almost like she is proud of the fact that she smokes.

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i have a friend who’s 16 year old daughter was caught smoking pot. what would you say to her when she says…

  • Posted on January 15, 2011 at 11:20 pm

i would never do man-made drugs (meth, crank etc…) what’s wrong with smoking weed? i like the way it makes me feel. when her daughter asked why she should stop, her mom told her because i said so. well that was not good enough. she has been caught smoking weed with friends and in her backyard.
thanks so much for all the answers. her mom did have her take a drug test and she didn’t hesitate to admit she is smoking pot. it’s almost like she is proud of the fact that she smokes.

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Caught husband downloading porn with daughter in room?

  • Posted on January 1, 2011 at 7:21 am

How bad is this? I mean I’m incredibly upset but I know a lot of you out there that don’t think porn is a big deal maybe think this is not a big deal too? I am so sickened by this that I want to get out of the relationship. Is there anyone out there that can defend this behavior or is it inexcusable? He had my 2 yr old daughter in a high chair turned to the TV while he was behind her on the computer looking at porn/downloading movies. Whenever I leave the house I know he immediately starts looking at porn, but I NEVER thought he would actually do it with my toddler in the room. (she’s usually at daycare when he does it otherwise, or is sleeping) Is this a sign of addiction? Should we go to counseling over this? BTW he has no interest in having sex with me but I CONSTANTLY catch him masturbating/looking at porn. I know there are other issues involved–but that’s my perspective. any thoughts? thanks!
I know, it’s not the fact that he was doing it, whatever, just that he thought it was ok to do it when she was there–whether she could see it or not! (I even think it’s wrong if the baby and I are in the next room)

Believe me I would have sex with him every NIGHT but he’s always too tired, too stressed, never in the mood, or if anything wants it in the middle of the night. I have tried everything to get him interested. But of course he always has time for porn. And I’m not 800 lbs either, I’m a redhead, petite, (why do I feel like I have to defend MYSELF??) I just don’t get it. Thank you for the advice. We will have to go to counseling, I just think this is NOT RIGHT, no way no how. and I’m not crazy, right???

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Caught my teenage daughter drinking! What do I do?

  • Posted on December 7, 2010 at 7:23 am

Last night I got home and sit my stuff on the table. I noticed a cap to a drink and picked it up. To my suprise it was a cap to a mikes hard lemonade. I was shocked! I knew my daughter had to have something to do with it seeing how she had been the only one there. I started yelling at her about it and she admitted it was hers. I didnt mean to yell but was so shocked and disappointed in her. I found out she had got 3 from her friends fridge the day before and the drinks were her friends older brothers. I am a single parent and not sure what to do. I took her cell phone and computer away and grounded her. I havent talked to her since last night because i am still very upset and im trying to calm down before talking to her. I have been crying all day and feel like a failure as a parent. What can I do? She will be 18 in 5 months. I dont want to drive her away but I want her to know this is serious. Please help! I need advice?

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Is it illegal to set someone up to be caught drinking and driving?

  • Posted on November 29, 2010 at 1:24 am

Trying to get custody of my daughter and her dad is a alcoholic.. I know that he drinks and drives and probably is putting her in the car and driving while drinking with her in it. I know if he is caught doing that it will make this so much more easier for me to tell him to give her back to me.. Which he should do without fighting me.. I would think. But can I do that.. Is it legal to hire a police officer to sit and wait for him to catch him doing that.? Or if it is how do I go about proving he does this to the law.. I know that he sits at the house and drinks all night long with her there what can I do about that..
Just to add to your answer about my life and why I don’t have her.. I do have her it was just a verebal mutual agreement that i said ok to for the 50/50 split I asked him not be drinking with her and now he is contioning to do so.. But we have nothing in paper as far as any court order is concerned so as of right now he could keep her and there is nothing that i can do until I take him to court.. I am a dam good mom I work two jobs I sure there hell don’t drink when i have my kids and I make sure they have what they need.. I just don’t have a 5000.$ retainer to give to a attorney or have any idea how to come up with that. I do what I can and have no bad record on me.. Im just a single mom trying to make ends meet and not have to drag my daughter through a battle Becasue of him..

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my daughter is an addict and was caught with sleeping pills.relapse?could she have mixed them with something?

  • Posted on October 24, 2010 at 1:24 pm

im just wondering if it is commom for addicts to mix sleeping pills with houshold products and make something else. she likes downers and i found 70% alcohol out on the counter on the same day. we also have lots in the garage and she mysteriously cleaned out the garage that day. if she takes sleeping pills and she is currently in recovery is that a technical relaps? please help
the specific stuff i found in her room was diphenhydramine HCI 25 mg. and the alcohol i found was 70% rubbing alcohol??? would she really drink that over regular drinking alcohol? really she has never been interested by alcohol but things could change i suppose. im very concerned about the sleep aid. what could she be doing with that. she has never had a problem sleeping that i knew of.
my saughter is in recovery currently. she goes to 5 or 6 meetings a week and i have no idea where she got those pills. i recently removed anything and everything that i thought couldbe questionable for use but the stuff she had didnt match any of mine. and the alcohol was rubbing alcohol. she is 23 and on her way to treatment in jan. by choice. im just trying to stay on top of things and not be ignorant or enabling. but i have to know whats what first before can go to her with facts right.?

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Please Help Caught Daughter Masturbating?

  • Posted on September 19, 2010 at 7:21 pm

First & foremost I do want to say I’m not joking or playing & any serious advice I would greatly appricate it & I greatly apologize for the length but this is a serious problem.

I am a sex addict; I have struggled with my addiction throughout my life. .. I have had to deal with STDs & almost losing my loving wife & daughter. Now I feel like dying; like karma is out to distroy me. A large part of my addiction is unfortunately an attraction to overtly sexually provocative & charged women. “Slutty girls ” I do get extremely upset at them but turned -on at the same time if that makes any sense.

It all started maybe a 4 months ago & is currently out of control months ago my @ that time 12 year old girl was rushing home from school & spending a lot of time in her room which I thought nothing of at the time. Now I do not allow my daughter to talk to or associate w/ boys in any way (which of course has caused SEVERAL fights b/w my wife & I )
A few months ago had returned from a month long buisness trip to Ohio (I currently live in Florida)
When I returned my daughter wanted to sit in my lap a lot! I figured this to be odd since she stopped that type of behavior when she was about 8. I later could have swoen she grind herself into my crotch but I figured once again maybe I’m losing it.
Two days later my wife was very antsy & worried but did not say why now I believe I know. That afternoon I took a shower & my daughter walked into the bathroom naked. I politely told her to leaving thinking she thought the bathroom was empty. I heard the door close but when I got out of the shower She was still standing there . She was shocked I assume because she had a weird look on her face.
I just ignored her & walked out lying to myself telling me it was innocent.
That night I heard loud cursing coming from her room. I stormed in to fuss her out & she was touching herself; I was in shock almost couldn’t move. She looked up & saw me & jumped back however not before she ejaculated; I @ first thought it was urine (Idk y her mother squirts as well)
I immediately closed the door in utter embarrassment. I got Really mad I was cursing & screaming; I cannot lie I wanted to physically hurt my own daughter. I felt like she was nothing more than a common slut . I guess what bothered me most is my wife may talk dirty Or squirt or w/e & I will get antsy but I can handle it & when I cannot my wife will play on my addiction until u can’t move from exhaustion let alone get mad. I cannot imagine my daughter wanting well what her mom does u understand.
Anyway immediately after this I packed my bags & left the house. I told my wife that I couldn’t handle a slut for a daughter & said I want a divorce & to give up my rights as her parent . (Which I now regret saying more than life itself ) . My daughter ran out & hugged me saying she was sorry & I pushed her away & left I feel horrible.

My wife called me a few hours ago & asked me to come home but she told me that my daughter maybe suffering from a sexual addiction like I did. I asked her why she thought that & she told me my daughter is experiencing some of the same signs I did As a kid I.e. masturbating in public places or masturbating till the genetials are rubbed raw. & she wants me to come home & talk to my daughter (she used the bull$hit excuse only I know what she’s going through etcetera ) but I’m not a girl so how could I possibly know its gotta b a lot easier for girls to control urges than guys rt? & if girls want sex they can have sex because well guys r horny 90% of the time. What makes it worse is that my wife f*ckin TOLD my daughter I’m an addict; Apparently my daughter WANTS to talk to me about it like seriously; but if I can’t! ! I mean what if she ask about my experiences battling this demon I mean I’ve done very careless & reckless stuff (sex in abandoned buildings, unprotected sex, paid for sex ) I’m ashamed of it & am seeking help but still.

Maybe I’m overreacting Idk but please anyone help me what do I do. I’m willing to do anything for my daughter but I can’t stand the fact that she may actually want. .. u know sex let alone her being way to young & just please help what do I do. Do I talk to her. Do i even go back to the house knowing i cannot handle what i saw please help

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My wife caught me in bed with her daughter?

  • Posted on September 15, 2010 at 7:22 pm

It’s a family feud right now and a horrible scene. Her daughter is 21 and we just got drunk last and it then it just happened. Her Mother was not suppose to be back till this evening after work. The music was loud so we didn’t hear her drive up and she walked into the bedroom and caught me in action. It was very embarrasing and now I am cooked. There’s nothing to say about it.
My question is why is she more mad at me instead of her daughter that instigated it?

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Caught my daughter watching N-DUBZ on youtube, should I put her up for adoption?

  • Posted on September 14, 2010 at 11:19 pm

She appeared to be enjoying watching this pop group prancing round like little wannabe Emimen’s, what can I do? I quickly replaced that awful video with some Led Zeppelin, but I fear she may already be addicted, as when she went out later on she perched her hat on top of her head, rather than put it on properly.

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