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What are my chances of gettinf full custody of my one year old daughter?

  • Posted on December 21, 2010 at 1:21 pm

My common law husband and i are recently trying to go through a divorce. Well he has a past of being abusive to me and the last time he was abusive i kicked him to get off of me and he had a mark on his neck and i didnt have any marks until they showed up today so i went to jail and he didnt. He has my 1 year old daughter right now and i havent been living at his residence for over a month now and my daughter has been in my custody until that all happened last night. I was wondering what my chances are of getting her back now are and what my chances of getting full custody are. He has a felony on his record as well for cocaine abusive. He is an alcoholic as well as his father who lives with him and he has a record of being abusive. he actually went to jail for being abusive. So what do you think my chances are of getting full custody of my one year old are?

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What are my chances of getting back with my ex in this strange situation?

  • Posted on October 9, 2010 at 12:17 pm

I am newly divorced (it was final in March). It was due in part to my binge drinking and in part to her passive aggressive personality. There are 2 more months left where we can still have the divorce overturned and cancelled. I was the one who filed for the divorce and we never really tried counseling or anything like that.

I have since gotten help and quit drinking and have started to improve myself. My ex also realizes she has a passive aggressive personality and is trying to correct it. We have been seeing each other about once every 2 weeks for the past few months and I know that I still love her and that I want her back.

I see genuine happiness in her when we are together, but when I asked about reforming a relationship she got nervous and said she still loves me and still has feelings for me but she doesn’t know and she would let me know if she decides that there is no hope for us, but she doesn’t want to lead me on either and she thinks we should both see other people in addition to seeing one another although she only wants to get together once every 2 weeks. She says she wants to just be friends for now, although we are having sex so to me that fits the definition of an open relationship. And lastly she has said she’s not ready for couples counseling because that would be a commitment that she is willing to try to make it work and she’s still not sure?

What should I do- how should I be handling this and do I have any chance of re-establishing a real relationship with her? We have a 2 yr old daughter together as well who lives with each of us 1/2 of the time. My thoughts are consumed with her 24×7 and this is killing me, although I am doing as best I can to play it cool with her and respect the every 2 week thing.
She does “sort of” have someone else- she moved into a side by side a little less than a month ago and there is something going on with the guy who lives on the other side of the unit. She has told me that I am “way better looking than him” and that they’re not really dating but have kissed in the garage before and he is fixing her vehicles and doing stuff for her. Do I sit back and wait for that to run it’s course or what should I do?

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My ex wife was driving with our daughter and got a dui. What are my chances of getting full custody of her?

  • Posted on October 2, 2010 at 7:22 am

My ex wife was pulled over while taking our 5 year old child to school for a dui here in california. Her bac was .381 5 times the legal limit. She also had an open container in the vehicle and was charged with I believe felony child endangerment. She has had to go thru a drinking/ drug program when we got divorced in order to get 50/50 custody of our child. She did and now this. She has proven she is inadiquate to be a good mother and I want to get full custody of my daughter and all parental rights. What are my chances?

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why are drunk drivers given so many chances to kill someone?

  • Posted on September 14, 2010 at 9:22 pm

i just watched a video on youtube where a man’s daughter called 911 while in the car that her dad was driving too fast and speeding out of control in. the reporter said that that was his 5th DWI! this happens way too much. people are caught driving drunk all the time with more than 1 offense, some have 7 offenses. why is it that they are given so many chances to kill others? shouldn’t this be stopped? i think the first time should be 3 months in jail and suspended license for a year. the 2nd should be a year in jail and the 3rd strike rule is a felony charge for 3 years in jail. this has got to stop.

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What are the chances my daughter will have birth defects?

  • Posted on September 12, 2010 at 1:22 pm

I was a xanax addict during 6 months of my pregnancy. I have researched and found that xanax is a contributor to defects such as cleft lip/palate and other congenital disorders. Does anyone have a story to share about their own or someone they knows experience with xanax and birth? I am also curious if anyone knows how great my risk is for defects? At my 20 week sonogram everything looked great, but I know that they do not detect such defects. Thanks for your help.

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What are the chances my step daughters dad will get custody/visitation?

  • Posted on August 27, 2010 at 4:34 pm

My step daughters dad was released from jail about six months ago following a 3 year sentence for violation of probation and felony refusal (he was acquited of his eigth DUI since he wasn’t caught in the act. He completed a 28 day program for alcoholism and my wife and I can’t prove that he is drinking again or driving illegally (he has been caught driving drunk with her before). He bought a truck and had it put in his new girlfriends name who he moved in with after just four days of knowing each other. His girlfriend can’t be said to be a bad person since our feelings about her are not to be proven. His GF use to be one of my wifes friends and in fact was with my wife when she met my step daughters dad. She is also 18 years older than my step daughters dad. My wife and I feel that this relationship is unhealthy for my stepdaugter to be around because of the age difference and the fact that my step daughter knows the GF as my wifes friend. My step daughters dad is court ordered to pay child support but hasn’t paid for 4 months and he doesn’t have steady income. My wife and i googled the dads name and we found that he had been released from jail pending charges no more than two months ago. My wife confirmed what we had found by calling the county jail. My wife talked to him recetly and he mentioned that he had been talking with an attorney and that when he had the money he would be taking us to court for custody whether it be physical or legal i don’t know.

My wife and i have good steady jobs and i have known my step daughter for five years (since she was 3). I know the difference between legal and physical custody and am less worried about him being granted physical custody. We don’t want my step daughter to be emotionally damaged by being involved with a relationship that we see as unhealthy and don’t want her hurt if he were to choose to drive drunk with her again.

What are the chances of the father being granted custody/visitation?Please help us settle our nerves!!!!

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