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what to do when my step-daughters mom chooses new felon brother in-law/bf over her 5yr old daughter?

  • Posted on December 25, 2010 at 9:20 pm

My new step daughter’s mother has been giving my husband and i hell. The ex moved without telling us until the day she moved. My step daughter is 5 and did have the visitation with her mom on all wed’s for 4 hours and everyother weekend. Now that her mom just had a baby with her ex brother in law (possibility of 3 other baby dads) she is using her daughter as a pawn against my husband and my kids. In their divorce it states that she can have joint custody when she secures a safe residence and gives 60 day notice when she moves, which she didnt. And her meeting strange men from online for hookups.The man that shes living with just got out of jail in april 07 for drug stuff (selling and meth lab in his home). They just got a trailer out in the sticks and is wanting her daughter to sleep on the floor because she cant afford a bed (when we found out that she spent her welfare $ on gifts for the boyfriend. We are having lawyer draw papers for supervised visits. Is this wrong?
after asking the ex to choose between the new bf and her daughter she chose him!!…what a bi***!..i love this little girl as if she were my own flesh and blood…her mother spends little to no time with her and flashes her buying the kiddo an outfit as supporting her! yeah right…she lives on ramen noodles while the fat a$$ mom eats steak dinners! shes collecting welfare and paying $98 a month child support to my husband.. we have chat logs of the mother neglecting the 5yr old and the new baby..and her offering to *ahem* meet and “hook up” with a total online stranger she only knew for 2 days!..we are scared for her..we havent let her see her mom since she moved. this past weekend was her time and we said hell no! the little girl doesnt understand why she cant see her mom, and since we never talk bad on mom around her we dont really know how to approach things with her. do we tell her that mom chose new man over her?

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