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Should I tell the cops on my dad & step-mom?

  • Posted on March 9, 2011 at 9:22 pm

I’m 17 and I go to a community college. My step-mom is abusing my dad and I can’t take it anymore. They have been married since March and she is by the nastiest person I have ever met in my life. She is an alcholic.

She is abusive to my dad. She is constantly yelling and screaming at the top of her lungs. My dad doesn’t do ANYTHING wrong to her. I swear! My dad has never cheated on her or treated her badly.

Last night, at 1 in the morning, she started screaming and yelling “GET THE **** OUT OF MY HOUSE!!!” and who knows if she hit my dad or not. She then got into her car and spent the night at her 22 year old daughter’s house. She drove drunk.

That happens at least 3 times a week. She’s not some little tiny petite woman. She’s almost 5’10 and works out. She has tried to physically hurt him before too.

I can’t barely take my life anymore. I have dark bags under my eyes. I have depression. I seriously can’t do this anymore. I am going insane in the head. I don’t want to put up with this anymore.

I live in a suburb of Phoenix, Arizona. The nearest family member is over 15 hours away. I don’t have any family members that I can live with. I don’t know anyone here.

I am so afraid of my step-mom that every time they argue or fight, I put my clothes dresser in front of my bedroom door to make sure that she doesn’t come into my room and do something to me. I don’t feel safe at all at home. I’m scared.

What should I do? Should I tell the cops on them?

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my friend was beaten badly, he’s in critical condition in the ICU, the cops arrested him and held him w/regard?

  • Posted on January 1, 2011 at 1:22 am

to his very obvious injuries.
he was arrested on suspicion of being on drugs/intoxicated, but he was acting erratic because of his head injury and wanting to get back home to his daughter.
so for 24 hours he went without any care for his, now life threatening, head injury. i don’t think anyone can say whether he will make it or not and i think that a big reason for that is the delay in treatment.

how did this happen?!
how is this justified??
is someone, namely the arresting officers, going to be held accountable if he does not make it???
he wasn’t on drugs.
he had a head injury.
the police misinterpreted his behavior as being intoxicated when, in fact, it was due to the severe head trauma he encountered.
he was not making sense with his words and stumbling around.

BUT he had visible injuries on his head and blood.
no matter what his suspected crime isn’t he expected to receive medical care in a situation where it is obviously needed??!
of course, bloody, did you not read where i wrote bloody? he was BEATEN bad enough to need surgery and is not in the neurology dept. ICU in critical condition.

no offense, sandy, i appreciate your story where the cops did the RIGHT thing and all, but i posted in here for a professional opinion on whether the cops WILL be able be held responsible.
is there anything i can do?
i meant he IS in the neurology dept. ICU right now.
“recovering” from surgery and head injuries.
not conscious.

i think it would have been pretty obvious he had been roughed up enough to warrant an examination, at least.
i’m not trying to get comments, just answers.
anyways, he looks like a freaking train hit him. but i guess thats completely normal for someone intoxicated.
and his baby’s mom called for him to be jumped by two huge dudes, he didn’t “get in a fight” nor was he having anything to do with drugs.

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Given how they abuse their positions, how can Cops expect the respect of THE PEOPLE or themselves?

  • Posted on October 14, 2010 at 4:33 pm

Yesterday, after being held in jail for seven hours for committing the “crime” of being rear-ended by a cop’s daughter, I noticed a poster handing in the police station with a glorified picture of a police officer and the word “respect” written accost it.

Given how often and how egregiously police officers abuse their positions, lie, and generally prey upon the American citizens they swore to protect, they can expect any respect either from the American public or even from themselves when they look in the mirror (that’s assuming that they still can look in the mirror).

Specifically, I was rear-ended by the seventeen year old female offspring of a Passaic (NJ) cop while waiting at a red light in Wayne, NJ.

Immediately after the accident occurred, the girl began telling anyone who’d listen that she was the daughter of a cop (something her father likely trained her to do to ensure she received favored treatment from other cops).

Once the police arrived, she reiterated that she was the offspring of a cop and the (Wayne, NJ) police proceeded to take her statement first.

When the officers went to take my statement, they waited until I’d gotten half way through my first sentence and claimed that they smelled alcohol on my breath. This is odd because, due to a family history of alcoholism, I elected not to drink and, other then Communion, never have.

Without allowing me to finish my statement, the officers placed me under arrest, handcuffing me in front of all the witnesses to the accident, and placing me in the squad car. Despite the fact that I told the officer that my back was hurting from the accident, they refused to loosen the cuffs or cuff me in the front where my arms wouldn’t be pulling on my shoulders and back.

Once we arrived at the station, they told me that all the officers who were qualified to operate the breathalyzer were “busy” and that I’d have to wait in a cell until one of them had the time to administer the breathalyzer.

It turned out that all of them were “busy” for the next eight hours during which I was forced to sit in a damp disgusting cell, handcuffed to the bench, with my back throbbing.

When the breathalyzer was finally administered, it registered a BAL of .0002% (an attorney and friend of mine informed me that this reading could result from the inherent inaccuracy of the machine or from alcohol naturally released when food ferments in the stomach-something that happens when someone hasn’t eaten in a 10 hours) well below the legal limit of .08%*.

I was then released but still had to pay for the towing of my vehicle to the impound lot (the state CLAIMS that it will reimburse me for this in 10-12 weeks) and pay for a cab to take me to the impound lot (an expense I won’t be refunded).

After this disgusting display of corruption and favoritism, I found the “respect” poster highly ironic.

After engaging in behavior like this, how can police officers respect themselves???

Furthermore, how can these same police officers expect the public to respect them???

*Furthermore, my friend told me that while the actions of the cops were immoral, they can be made to appear technically “legal” and thus it wouldn’t be worth pursuing LEGAL action against these officers…I can’t say what would happen if I met any of them or the b*tch who started this by hitting me in a dark ally…

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Would calling the cops resolve this?

  • Posted on August 28, 2010 at 11:20 am

would calling the police resolve this? i am 21 my hubby is 20 and we have a 5 month old daughter. on fathers day i drove after having 1/2 mikes hard lemonade then i finished the rest at my aunts. my hubby had 1 as well. i was prescribed percocet after birth (those are gone) and used them for their intended purpose. my cousin is harrassing me. saying im driving drunk while on drugs. im supplying alcohol to a minor (my hubby). i am breastfeeding but my dr informed me a small amount of alcohol is perfectly fine. anyway my cousin is threatning to have my child taken from me (she cant have kids of her own and is OCD about this) she is posting mean things on my facebook and wont let it go. if she keeps it up would calling the cops help? and could she really have my daughter taken away? (i wasnt CLOSE to even buzzed, it was like drinkin a coke)
perc. was gone 4mo. ago so idk where she got that, sheesh i dont even take IBU after i drink. i dont hardly ever drink (maybe 3 mikes a month!) but when i do i pump out that breastmilk just incase! my mistake was driving with an open container. is it illegal for my hubby to drink with me (he is 20)?

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Will this Cops wife and daughter file Child Support on me…..?

  • Posted on August 8, 2010 at 10:22 pm

I have two children one by this cops wife and the other by his 19 year old daughter…..He’s aware of this and man he hates my guts he tried get my little brother sent up on a burgarly charge(he delivers newspaper) and he tried to give my dad a dwi when my old man doesnt drink he’s a deacon…..

I had my uncle talk to him because he’s tied into that community…now everytime either the wife or the daughter doesnt get to see me they throw up filing child support on me…..i have tried to ive them money since my son and daughters birth but they wont take it and i hardly ever get to see them……what can i do…?

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