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Could I have done anything?

  • Posted on January 18, 2011 at 11:21 am

Okay so my sister has been in a drug program and is now in recovery, she has been sober for about 2 years. Along the way of her recovery she meant a beautiful women and they became good friends. The women she meant is 30 years old and was sober from her drug of choice (heroin) for 15 months. Last tuesday she got high off of methadone for the first time in 15 months. (Methadone is Similar to heroin, kind of a substitute.) But anyway her 17 year old daughter went to wake her up this morning and she did not wake up! :’( I received the call at 8:30 this morning , my sister was hysterical. We all know who gave her this drug, I feel the guy should be put in jail for murder. The women that passed has 4 beautiful kids. I feel bad for her children. Why would the lord let this happen so close to christmas???!!!
I know that the devil took over her state of mind but she was one that followed the lord. I know she will go to heaven because she was wonderful person.

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If I was a VP nominee could I count on your support?

  • Posted on January 17, 2011 at 9:20 pm

I never been a community organizer but I’ve done court ordered community service.
Also, I can start a community program in you area called Crystal Meth spans the county.
I’ve never hunted while in a helicopter but I’ve hunted while in my truck.
I might have a pregnant teenage daughter, just none that I’m aware of
I can’t see Russia from my house but I can see the moon.
I believe in change. Your change in my pocket.

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Could i be pregnant and when can i take test?

  • Posted on January 12, 2011 at 1:23 am

Okay on december 24 and on december 25 me and my ex bf had sex i know i was ovulating b/c i protected it from my last menstrual cycle. I mentioned to Him to be careful..well we got kind of intoxicated and he said we had sex 4 times i only remember 2 times and with a condom, he did admit that once was unprotected but he did not ejaculated. anyway I concerned im pregnant, b/c i have one daughter already by this man, and im already getting the lower abdominal pain but its only been 9 and 10 days since we have had sex, so when is the earliest i can take a test? not to mention im already extremely moody, and not due for my cycle until the 12 of jan. so its not pms.. so can anyone let me know when i can take a test? the sooner the better

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4 year old step daughter could have hurt 11 month old son husband doesnt think its a big deal! help!?

  • Posted on January 2, 2011 at 1:20 pm

Ok I have a four year old step daughter and six year old step son and my husband and I have an 11 month old together, not to mention I am 18 weeks pregnant with our second together. My husband says that I am crazy and that I try to separate the children which in fact is not my intent but I try to make him understand that I do my best to make everything as equal as possible when they are here but that its not a perfect situation and that the family will always be divided in a way because his kids are here one week and at their mothers the next. my husband does not pay child support (its in the papers) at all and thats why we have them 50 percent of the time but its really bad this way because the kids have no stability. i believe they need to be at both places for longer periods of time or one of us needs full custody. anyways my step daughter who i believe is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong gets into things when she knows she is not supposed to. she got into some school supplies of mine in a shoe box on my desk (she was snooping) and took out 3 safety pins at some point while i was going to the bathroom and dropped them in her brothers play pen. I discovered them thankfully before anything happened but i think it was resentment or jealousy towards the baby and/or acting out for attention that she doesnt get from her dad who has pawned them off on me from day 1. i told my husband that she knew better and he says well maybe she is slow (she was born addicted to meth because of her mother) and needs to be tested. i just find it hard to believe that she is slow considering she does not show signs of developmental delays and also i think her older brother might have put her up to it. he lied to my face when i asked him about it. he said he did not know anything. their dad (my husband) talked to them but my husband insists that i am crazy because i think they are out to get me. am i crazy for even thinking that. i believe that at 4 and 6 almost 5 and 7 that they can be manipulative and that they are not stupid. i am not saying they are out to get me or hurt our son but i do think this possibility should be checked into and also having her tested for developmental delays. but my husband just goes into blaming mode. the girl was spanked for what she did last night and they were both grounded to their rooms for a few hours today after we found out they were both lying and were checked on often. i find something very wrong with the fact that when i asked her why she did it after she finally admitted to me that her only answer was cuz. and then her brother to boldly lie to my face. i think they both need serious counseling and i think my husband is trying to turn the problem around on me and say that i am the problem. the whole situation is bad in of itself and i dont know what to do any more. my husband doesnt even think its a big deal to tell their mother what they did and i think its a serious issue that needs to be nipped in the butt now and he some how thinks that i am a bad person and crazy also cuz they wont tell me the truth but they will him well gee i wonder why!!! they are not my biological children and they know that and they resent being shuffled between two places, what else could it possibly be? and to those of you who say you married the kids too, well thats fine and dandy but my own flesh and blood could have been killed and that makes me not want to have those kids in the house if their father can not control them or get them help. i dont think im crazy for wanting that and i do my best to treat them the same but they need to show me respect too and i feel my husband should be on my side and respect my wishes especially since he leaves those kids with me 95 percent of the time because he works more and when he is home he is watching tv among other things as long as i am here. im fed up what should i do? i dont want something worse to happen next time if those kids dont get help and he realizes the seriousness of this situation.

the kids have rules and their own spaces at our house…i resent the situation and my husband for allowing it to be the way that it is…and my husband changed a lot since we got married expecting that everything in our family is to be “normal” and that i am their mother (meaning take her place when they are here) and i think the kids resent that….and the girl was snooping through my things the box was up higher on my desk where she would have had to have gotten a chair to climb up there and grab it. they have been known to be sneaky like that before. i left the room for 2 min to go to the bathroom…the baby was in his play pen. and the kids have also been warned time and time again how dangerous small objects and toys are to babies. HELLO?

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4yo step daughter could have hurt our 11 month old son and husband doesnt think its a big deal! help!?

  • Posted on January 1, 2011 at 2:20 pm

Ok I have a four year old step daughter and six year old step son and my husband and I have an 11 month old together, not to mention I am 18 weeks pregnant with our second together. My husband says that I am crazy and that I try to separate the children which in fact is not my intent but I try to make him understand that I do my best to make everything as equal as possible when they are here but that its not a perfect situation and that the family will always be divided in a way because his kids are here one week and at their mothers the next. my husband does not pay child support (its in the papers) at all and thats why we have them 50 percent of the time but its really bad this way because the kids have no stability. i believe they need to be at both places for longer periods of time or one of us needs full custody. anyways my step daughter who i believe is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong gets into things when she knows she is not supposed to. she got into some school supplies of mine in a shoe box on my desk (she was snooping) and took out 3 safety pins at some point while i was going to the bathroom and dropped them in her brothers play pen. I discovered them thankfully before anything happened but i think it was resentment or jealousy towards the baby and/or acting out for attention that she doesnt get from her dad who has pawned them off on me from day 1. i told my husband that she knew better and he says well maybe she is slow (she was born addicted to meth because of her mother) and needs to be tested. i just find it hard to believe that she is slow considering she does not show signs of developmental delays and also i think her older brother might have put her up to it. he lied to my face when i asked him about it. he said he did not know anything. their dad (my husband) talked to them but my husband insists that i am crazy because i think they are out to get me. am i crazy for even thinking that. i believe that at 4 and 6 almost 5 and 7 that they can be manipulative and that they are not stupid. i am not saying they are out to get me or hurt our son but i do think this possibility should be checked into and also having her tested for developmental delays. but my husband just goes into blaming mode. the girl was spanked for what she did last night and they were both grounded to their rooms for a few hours today after we found out they were both lying and were checked on often. i find something very wrong with the fact that when i asked her why she did it after she finally admitted to me that her only answer was cuz. and then her brother to boldly lie to my face. i think they both need serious counseling and i think my husband is trying to turn the problem around on me and say that i am the problem. the whole situation is bad in of itself and i dont know what to do any more. my husband doesnt even think its a big deal to tell their mother what they did and i think its a serious issue that needs to be nipped in the butt now and he some how thinks that i am a bad person and crazy also cuz they wont tell me the truth but they will him well gee i wonder why!!! they are not my biological children and they know that and they resent being shuffled between two places, what else could it possibly be? and to those of you who say you married the kids too, well thats fine and dandy but my own flesh and blood could have been killed and that makes me not want to have those kids in the house if their father can not control them or get them help. i dont think im crazy for wanting that and i do my best to treat them the same but they need to show me respect too and i feel my husband should be on my side and respect my wishes especially since he leaves those kids with me 95 percent of the time because he works more and when he is home he is watching tv among other things as long as i am here. im fed up what should i do? i dont want something worse to happen next time if those kids dont get help and he realizes the seriousness of this situation.

she and her brother have been warned time and time again that small toys and objects are not for babies. they have rules and boundaries in our house. they knew better unless obviously there is some mental issue with the girl because of her mothers meth use. my husband forces me to pretend that we are a “normal” family and that i am the kids’ mother and he doesnt deal with the real mother..guess who has to do it? ME and i dont think its right. i dont resent the kids. i resent him and the situation he has made for our family. a lot of things changed when he married me he expected me to basically take the total place of their mother and i dont think they like that and thats why i feel they are being resentful….you cant you people see that?!

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4yo step daughter could have hurt our 11 month old son and husband acts like no big deal what do i do?

  • Posted on December 31, 2010 at 3:20 pm

Ok I have a four year old step daughter and six year old step son and my husband and I have an 11 month old together, not to mention I am 18 weeks pregnant with our second together. My husband says that I am crazy and that I try to separate the children which in fact is not my intent but I try to make him understand that I do my best to make everything as equal as possible when they are here but that its not a perfect situation and that the family will always be divided in a way because his kids are here one week and at their mothers the next. my husband does not pay child support (its in the papers) at all and thats why we have them 50 percent of the time but its really bad this way because the kids have no stability. i believe they need to be at both places for longer periods of time or one of us needs full custody. anyways my step daughter who i believe is old enough to know the difference between right and wrong gets into things when she knows she is not supposed to. she got into some school supplies of mine in a shoe box on my desk (she was snooping) and took out 3 safety pins at some point while i was going to the bathroom and dropped them in her brothers play pen. I discovered them thankfully before anything happened but i think it was resentment or jealousy towards the baby and/or acting out for attention that she doesnt get from her dad who has pawned them off on me from day 1. i told my husband that she knew better and he says well maybe she is slow (she was born addicted to meth because of her mother) and needs to be tested. i just find it hard to believe that she is slow considering she does not show signs of developmental delays and also i think her older brother might have put her up to it. he lied to my face when i asked him about it. he said he did not know anything. their dad (my husband) talked to them but my husband insists that i am crazy because i think they are out to get me. am i crazy for even thinking that. i believe that at 4 and 6 almost 5 and 7 that they can be manipulative and that they are not stupid. i am not saying they are out to get me or hurt our son but i do think this possibility should be checked into and also having her tested for developmental delays. but my husband just goes into blaming mode. the girl was spanked for what she did last night and they were both grounded to their rooms for a few hours today after we found out they were both lying and were checked on often. i find something very wrong with the fact that when i asked her why she did it after she finally admitted to me that her only answer was cuz. and then her brother to boldly lie to my face. i think they both need serious counseling and i think my husband is trying to turn the problem around on me and say that i am the problem. the whole situation is bad in of itself and i dont know what to do any more. my husband doesnt even think its a big deal to tell their mother what they did and i think its a serious issue that needs to be nipped in the butt now and he some how thinks that i am a bad person and crazy also cuz they wont tell me the truth but they will him well gee i wonder why!!! they are not my biological children and they know that and they resent being shuffled between two places, what else could it possibly be? and to those of you who say you married the kids too, well thats fine and dandy but my own flesh and blood could have been killed and that makes me not want to have those kids in the house if their father can not control them or get them help. i dont think im crazy for wanting that and i do my best to treat them the same but they need to show me respect too and i feel my husband should be on my side and respect my wishes especially since he leaves those kids with me 95 percent of the time because he works more and when he is home he is watching tv among other things as long as i am here. im fed up what should i do? i dont want something worse to happen next time if those kids dont get help and he realizes the seriousness of this situation.

she and her brother have been warned time and time again that small toys and objects are not for babies. they have rules and boundaries in our house. they knew better unless obviously there is some mental issue with the girl because of her mothers meth use. my husband forces me to pretend that we are a “normal” family and that i am the kids’ mother and he doesnt deal with the real mother..guess who has to do it? ME and i dont think its right. i dont resent the kids. i resent him and the situation he has made for our family. a lot of things changed when he married me he expected me to basically take the total place of their mother and i dont think they like that and thats why i feel they are being resentful….you cant you people see that?!
isnt is amazing that just cuz of the fact that i say they are my step children people automatically assume i dont love them?!!? i am tired of being blamed for shit that just isnt true..unless you are in the situation or a similar situation you just cant really fathom the whole deal completely. our society is really screwed up by the media and old crappy fairy tales like cinderella and hansel and gretel…get real people and grow up…thanks to those who understand my frustration and pain…but im some how a horrible person if i am upset because they are my step children….maybe i should have never mentioned step and you woulda maybe spoke differently….i dont think its fair that people feel they need to be treated better or differently because they are step children who are put upon. BULL SHIT those kids are shown plenty of attention at our household by me…how come none of you think their father has a problem…hes the one that doenst pay attention to them!
isnt is amazing that just cuz of the fact that i say they are my step children people automatically assume i dont love them?!!? i am tired of being blamed for shit that just isnt true..unless you are in the situation or a similar situation you just cant really fathom the whole deal completely. our society is really screwed up by the media and old crappy fairy tales like cinderella and hansel and gretel…get real people and grow up…thanks to those who understand my frustration and pain…but im some how a horrible person if i am upset because they are my step children….maybe i should have never mentioned step and you woulda maybe spoke differently….i dont think its fair that people feel they need to be treated better or differently because they are step children who are put upon. BULL SHIT those kids are shown plenty of attention at our household by me…how come none of you think their father has a problem…hes the one that doenst pay attention to them!

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Please help if you can…..what could cause my milk supply to all but disappear in just 2 days

  • Posted on December 5, 2010 at 11:24 am

I am breastfeeding a 6.5 mth old baby girl and had some supply probs around 3 mths. All sorted and has been fine for the last 3 mths.

2 days ago I didn’t have enough milk to feed her one feed, now I don’t have any for any feeds. Even the night feeds when I normally have an abundance….I have none.

I know my boobs and my daughter and I know I’m empty. I’m not ill, I’ve been eating and drinking normally, I’m tired but that’s normal.

What could cause me to ‘dry up’ in 2 days flat?

Please help if you can, I don’t want to give her formula but will have to soon if this keeps up as she’s not getting anything and is very hungry now.
She’s allergic to something in all the commercial formulas (we’ve not found out what yet) so she would have to have prescription formula from the drs. Isomil it’s called….anyone tried it?

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do you like the Plot of this novel i’m writing and what more could i add to it ?

  • Posted on November 30, 2010 at 9:20 pm

Fr.Johnathan Poe, leaves the priesthood after helping his daughter abby recover from a heroin addiction. John Ventures to Miami Florida & brings with him abby his daughter and his niece/step daughter Alex, who was put in his care after her mother died of cancer. Alex also, happens to be abby’s best friend! Hear in Florida, he buys a house and opens a book store fulfilling abby’s sobriety dream. Along the way he Meets Jessica his new love interest.
Jessica However Is Engaged To Mitch Sabourne, an entrepreneur/lawyer.
John’s old mentor Fr. Don West who has retired to Florida drops in and informs him he is dying of cancer and tells john that he thinks jessica would be a perfect mother for his children & that he should fight for her. The Girls begin to investigate this mysterious women while abby turns up nothing and draws close to jessica. alex, keeps digging and finds out that jessica’s fiance is her actual biological father who left before she was born and reappeared only once after her mother died to sign away custody to john by way of proxy. Alex, keeps this a secret from abby.
when Mitch Finds Out John Is Fighting for jessica, he decides to fight back he finds a loop hole in the property deed to john’s store abby’s sobriety dream and holds it hostage. along the way he also finds out alex is his daughter and trys to reform his relationship with her and tells john it’s in his best interest to back away because he has the power to over turn the courts decision regarding alex.
alex must now choose between her uncle/step father’s happiness or her biological father’s dream of marrying jessica.

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do you like the Plot of this novel i’m writing and what more could i add to it ?

  • Posted on November 29, 2010 at 11:20 pm

Fr.Johnathan Poe, leaves the priesthood after helping his daughter abby recover from a heroin addiction. John Ventures to Miami Florida & brings with him abby his daughter and his niece/step daughter Alex, who was put in his care after her mother died of cancer. Alex also, happens to be abby’s best friend! Hear in Florida, he buys a house and opens a book store fulfilling abby’s sobriety dream. Along the way he Meets Jessica his new love interest.
Jessica However Is Engaged To Mitch Sabourne, an entrepreneur/lawyer.
John’s old mentor Fr. Don West who has retired to Florida drops in and informs him he is dying of cancer and tells john that he thinks jessica would be a perfect mother for his children & that he should fight for her. The Girls begin to investigate this mysterious women while abby turns up nothing and draws close to jessica. alex, keeps digging and finds out that jessica’s fiance is her actual biological father who left before she was born and reappeared only once after her mother died to sign away custody to john by way of proxy. Alex, keeps this a secret from abby.
when Mitch Finds Out John Is Fighting for jessica, he decides to fight back he finds a loop hole in the property deed to john’s store abby’s sobriety dream and holds it hostage. along the way he also finds out alex is his daughter and trys to reform his relationship with her and tells john it’s in his best interest to back away because he has the power to over turn the courts decision regarding alex.
alex must now choose between her uncle/step father’s happiness or her biological father’s dream of marrying jessica.

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do you like the Plot of this novel i’m writing and what more could i add to it ?

  • Posted on November 26, 2010 at 7:21 am

Fr.Johnathan Poe, leaves the priesthood after helping his daughter abby recover from a heroin addiction. John Ventures to Miami Florida & brings with him abby his daughter and his niece/step daughter Alex, who was put in his care after her mother died of cancer. Alex also, happens to be abby’s best friend! Hear in Florida, he buys a house and opens a book store fulfilling abby’s sobriety dream. Along the way he Meets Jessica his new love interest.
Jessica However Is Engaged To Mitch Sabourne, an entrepreneur/lawyer.
John’s old mentor Fr. Don West who has retired to Florida drops in and informs him he is dying of cancer and tells john that he thinks jessica would be a perfect mother for his children & that he should fight for her. The Girls begin to investigate this mysterious women while abby turns up nothing and draws close to jessica. alex, keeps digging and finds out that jessica’s fiance is her actual biological father who left before she was born and reappeared only once after her mother died to sign away custody to john by way of proxy. Alex, keeps this a secret from abby.
when Mitch Finds Out John Is Fighting for jessica, he decides to fight back he finds a loop hole in the property deed to john’s store abby’s sobriety dream and holds it hostage. along the way he also finds out alex is his daughter and trys to reform his relationship with her and tells john it’s in his best interest to back away because he has the power to over turn the courts decision regarding alex.
alex must now choose between her uncle/step father’s happiness or her biological father’s dream of marrying jessica.

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