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Should I turn in my daughter’s violent abusive husband?

  • Posted on March 5, 2011 at 6:17 am

I want to turn him in but I’m so scared of what he could do to my daughter. A no contact order in effect for the past year that he is violating. He never did comply with the law. She says she let him back in because she needs him to pay the bills. They have two small children that are being subjected to the abuse of their mother.She is under chronic stress from his abuse there yet she won’t leave him.
He assaulted two police officers ( one was female) when my daughter called the police on him last year.
He is an alcoholic, past drug addict, has epilepsy with grand mall seizures and is so mean it’s off the charts. Also very cocky about it all. He spent a few days in jail for the assaults on the officers but other than that he never seems to have any consequences for his appalling behavior. We wish he would just leave her and the kids and never contact them again. But some have said it’s not possible. I am so discouraged but can’t take her and the kid’s abuse anymore.

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Should I turn in my daughter’s violent abusive husband?

  • Posted on March 4, 2011 at 8:17 am

I want to turn him in but I’m so scared of what he could do to my daughter. A no contact order in effect for the past year that he is violating. He never did comply with the law. She says she let him back in because she needs him to pay the bills. They have two small children that are being subjected to the abuse of their mother.She is under chronic stress from his abuse there yet she won’t leave him.
He assaulted two police officers ( one was female) when my daughter called the police on him last year.
He is an alcoholic, past drug addict, has epilepsy with grand mall seizures and is so mean it’s off the charts. Also very cocky about it all. He spent a few days in jail for the assaults on the officers but other than that he never seems to have any consequences for his appalling behavior. We wish he would just leave her and the kids and never contact them again. But some have said it’s not possible. I am so discouraged but can’t take her and the kid’s abuse anymore.

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My daughters boyfriend killed her in a wreck because of alcohol.?

  • Posted on February 26, 2011 at 9:23 pm

My daughter (18 yrs) and her boyfriend (22 yrs) went to a party two weeks ago. He was drunk and driving, and killed my daughter in the wreck. He has had 3 major wrecks due to alcohol…two of which involved my daughter, and he has walked with no punishment all three times. Now, we are waiting for blood test to come back to determine if this is a manslaughter case. I don’t understand why he is still walking around able to flee at any time. Now I found out that he is drinking and going to party’s again and already sleeping with another girl. I feel as if I am gonna lose my mind if something is not done soon. I want Justice to be served. What can I do to put him behind bars….he is going to do it again to someone else.

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Found pack of cigarettes in my daughter’s room?

  • Posted on February 23, 2011 at 4:21 am

She’s 17 and while she was at school yesterday I was vacuuming her room and I had to move her bed over to get behind it. When I moved the bed, I found a pack of cigarettes and a lighter underneath of a pile of magazines. I looked in the pack and it was about half empty, meaning some one was smoking them. I know she’s 17 and can make her own choices but it really surprised when I found them. She’s always been a good kid and has never given me a reason not to trust her. I thought about taking them and questioning her when she got home, but then I thought about back when I was a teenager and how I used to hide stuff in my room from my mom. I used to smoke all the time with my friends in high school. I don’t anymore but I understand what it was like and how you kind of feel pressured to have that occasional cigarette. I decided to put the cigarettes and lighter back where I got them from and not say anything to her about it. Honestly, I don’t think it’s really that big of a deal. I’m sure that if she was smoking all the time I would smell it on her and her clothes and in her room. I don’t really care if she has an occasional cigarette with her friends or whatever. Teens will be teens. I’m just worried that it could turn into an addiction and it would be my fault for not trying to fix the problem while there was still a chance to. I don’t know. Do you think I should take them and talk to her about it? Or just let it go and then take action only if I see it starts turning into a habit?

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Found pack of cigarettes in my daughter’s room?

  • Posted on February 20, 2011 at 10:21 pm

She’s 17 and while she was at school yesterday I was vacuuming her room and I had to move her bed over to get behind it. When I moved the bed, I found a pack of cigarettes and a lighter underneath of a pile of magazines. I looked in the pack and it was about half empty, meaning some one was smoking them. I know she’s 17 and can make her own choices but it really surprised when I found them. She’s always been a good kid and has never given me a reason not to trust her. I thought about taking them and questioning her when she got home, but then I thought about back when I was a teenager and how I used to hide stuff in my room from my mom. I used to smoke all the time with my friends in high school. I don’t anymore but I understand what it was like and how you kind of feel pressured to have that occasional cigarette. I decided to put the cigarettes and lighter back where I got them from and not say anything to her about it. Honestly, I don’t think it’s really that big of a deal. I’m sure that if she was smoking all the time I would smell it on her and her clothes and in her room. I don’t really care if she has an occasional cigarette with her friends or whatever. Teens will be teens. I’m just worried that it could turn into an addiction and it would be my fault for not trying to fix the problem while there was still a chance to. I don’t know. Do you think I should take them and talk to her about it? Or just let it go and then take action only if I see it starts turning into a habit?

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Found pack of cigarettes in my daughter’s room?

  • Posted on February 19, 2011 at 7:21 pm

She’s 17 and while she was at school yesterday I was vacuuming her room and I had to move her bed over to get behind it. When I moved the bed, I found a pack of cigarettes and a lighter underneath of a pile of magazines. I looked in the pack and it was about half empty, meaning some one was smoking them. I know she’s 17 and can make her own choices but it really surprised when I found them. She’s always been a good kid and has never given me a reason not to trust her. I thought about taking them and questioning her when she got home, but then I thought about back when I was a teenager and how I used to hide stuff in my room from my mom. I used to smoke all the time with my friends in high school. I don’t anymore but I understand what it was like and how you kind of feel pressured to have that occasional cigarette. I decided to put the cigarettes and lighter back where I got them from and not say anything to her about it. Honestly, I don’t think it’s really that big of a deal. I’m sure that if she was smoking all the time I would smell it on her and her clothes and in her room. I don’t really care if she has an occasional cigarette with her friends or whatever. Teens will be teens. I’m just worried that it could turn into an addiction and it would be my fault for not trying to fix the problem while there was still a chance to. I don’t know. Do you think I should take them and talk to her about it? Or just let it go and then take action only if I see it starts turning into a habit?

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Found a Vibrating Rod in my daughters room. Is this used for drugs?

  • Posted on February 19, 2011 at 1:23 pm

She’s out with her friends all the time now and I’m starting to worry that she might be using this vibrating rod for drug use. I did some research online (Web MD) and one theory was that it could be used to evenly break up cocaine. Is she using drugs?

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Found pack of cigarettes in my daughter’s room?

  • Posted on February 18, 2011 at 4:21 pm

She’s 17 and while she was at school yesterday I was vacuuming her room and I had to move her bed over to get behind it. When I moved the bed, I found a pack of cigarettes and a lighter underneath of a pile of magazines. I looked in the pack and it was about half empty, meaning some one was smoking them. I know she’s 17 and can make her own choices but it really surprised when I found them. She’s always been a good kid and has never given me a reason not to trust her. I thought about taking them and questioning her when she got home, but then I thought about back when I was a teenager and how I used to hide stuff in my room from my mom. I used to smoke all the time with my friends in high school. I don’t anymore but I understand what it was like and how you kind of feel pressured to have that occasional cigarette. I decided to put the cigarettes and lighter back where I got them from and not say anything to her about it. Honestly, I don’t think it’s really that big of a deal. I’m sure that if she was smoking all the time I would smell it on her and her clothes and in her room. I don’t really care if she has an occasional cigarette with her friends or whatever. Teens will be teens. I’m just worried that it could turn into an addiction and it would be my fault for not trying to fix the problem while there was still a chance to. I don’t know. Do you think I should take them and talk to her about it? Or just let it go and then take action only if I see it starts turning into a habit?

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Should I not allow my 2 teenage daughters (15 and 16 years old) to lock their rooms?

  • Posted on February 13, 2011 at 1:21 pm

I used to allow this until their was evidence of marijana, tobacco and possibly cocaine use.
I think I have a right to not allow them to lock the doors as I seriously believe they are at risk of damaging themselves.
They are aggressive and hostile almost all the time. They lie and steal regularly….what do you think?

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i need help with my daughters father. Is there any hope of him getting it together if hes hooked on Meth?

  • Posted on February 9, 2011 at 9:20 pm
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