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Advise for Ex-wife trying to decrease visitation?

  • Posted on September 11, 2010 at 11:26 am

My boyfriend and I have been together for about three years, and from the very get go we have had problems with his ex and wanting to change his visitation he currently only gets her half during christmas and between 4-6wks in the summer if his lucky, in this time that we have been together she has increased his child-support and tooken him to court for visitation several times. She states that he makes bad descisons and I guess she is trying to say I am one of them because I have a criminal background such as DWI about 7 yrs old or more (how would she even know this stuff) well she is using in court. I feel awful about the whole situation Iam not a bad person sure I made some bad choices when I was younger who hasn’t but Iam 29yrs old I work at a Catholic Church I have two daughters of my own (who are my world) and I just can not see why a mother would want to put such a strain on her daughters relationship with her father. In my book he is a great guy and a wonderful father whom loves his daughter very much, but unfortunatley shares his daughter with this women that makes him feel like she is trying to turn his daughter against him and take the little time he has with her away. Even when she is here, her mother is constianly on the phone fighting with him and making their daughter feel bad she just about always cries after getting off the phone with her, but how odd on the days she dosent speak to her mother on the phone their is no crying. His daughter is 13yrs old and I just believe that maybe she just wants to spend more time with friends in the summer but even so, he just wants to see his daughter without all the problems from the mother before she is all grown up.

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