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Should I give my soon to be ex husband heads up on divorce decree?

  • Posted on October 15, 2010 at 11:22 pm

Just got my divorce decree draft yesterday from my attorney and I am worried my husband will go crazy when he finds out that I am requesting supervised visitations…I found out him and his girlfriend smoke pot WITH my 16 year old step son occassionally. (my step son told me himself) I don’t want my 7 year old daughter around them while they’re doings drugs and my husband has been to jail for two separate DWI charges. (he was given probation) I am being fair on not seeking arrears and hope that he will realize that it’s all in the best interest and safety of our child. My attorney also mentions in the decree that he should not contact me directly anymore and if he does he will order a restraining order against him since he has recordings of all the horrible messages he has left on my cell. I am sure I will hear from my husband by the end of the week when he receives the paper work…my attorney said that’s great if he calls yelling at me because that is proof he RECEIVED all paper work….I am so stressed out and hope that I am doing the right thing by doing what attorney is advising me to do…am I being fair? = (
I left him because he started smoking crack and became addicted…I’m not sure if he has done that lately and that’s REALLY the reason I mentioned smoking. I have been told that smoking that stuff can cause hallucinations and NO WAY I want my daughter near him without supervision. Smoking pot is illegal and I don’t agree that it’s no big deal, always will be against it.

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