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I think my daughter is disgusting and crazy… I feel horrible.?

  • Posted on September 15, 2010 at 7:20 pm

My 19 year old daughter is pregnant but does not know who the father is. She really believes that she is above average intelligence, she thinks that I am an antiquated idiot, her dad is an idiot, and her 18 year old brother is “inmature” because he is not sexually involved with no-one. Last year she was involved with a heroin addict, when I voiced my concerns she called me a psycho and did not speak to me for 4 months. Before that she was involved with a 17 year old kid (Also a genius… ) they had moved in together when he was barely 16 and she was 18… Last year she left the “kid” for the addict and moved in with him too. All around this time we supported her financially but when I found out about the crack head she was seeing we stopped helping her .She ask to move back in with us 4 months ago, and 3 weeks later we found out she was pregnant. In the four months she has been living with us I have seen her alternate between the heroin addict and the 17 year old kid , she told the 17 year old that the baby is his, but I know the addict got her pregnant. I have been trying to be very supportive of her, but I cannot hide my disgust. She has decided to keep the baby, but I feel so sorry for the little one already. She insist that my apprehension is only because I am from another country, and she says that americans would be proud of her! because she is sooooo sexually free to have as many partners as she wishes. I really do not know what to do. I feel like I already hate the baby because I know just what a POS the father is. I talk to her kindly, I try not to look her in the eyes because I HATE what she is doing. I sometimes think she is crazy. She says that it doesn’t matter who the biological father is, because she is already picked “who” the daddy will be. The 17 year old boyfriend is acting as if he is the daddy but I know he knows otherwise because she 4 months pregnant and she only got back together with him 2 months ago. She still sees the heroin addict, and I recently read an email she had sent to another friend describing her sexual runnings with the heroin addict while with the 17 year old.
Am I really overreacting?? Am I antiquated? is it normal for teens in America to be this promiscuous ?
About the missing info someone asked about her childhood… she is one of 2 children. I have been married for 22 years to my one and only husband. We own an engineering firm, both dad and I have college degrees and she was raised by a latin mother and an american father. When she turned 9 we decided to move to small town in the south to provide a small town feel and values to our children… later on I found out just how wrong I was about small town-southern baptist culture! In 7th grade I took her out her public school and placed her in an elite private school where she failed miserably, because she was still acting like her close friends from the previous school. ALL of her former classmates are or have already had children. Look up the statistics for GA. among highest teen pregnancy levels in the nation, highest STD (gonorrea) infections in the country… I am not blaming it all in the school but it is hard to convince your teen that what popular girls do might not be best…

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