I am Bipolar and have it under control for several years. I was diagnosed in my teens.
My 23 year old daughter has had since she was 16. She was doing good for a while and then went wild at 18. She goes to visit my parent’s three hours away and got pregnant by some scum bag. He left her and the baby. So she ended up living with my parent’s thinking the DNA donor would come back. She totally took advantage of my parents and still is. She is no longer on meds and is literally psychotic and I see multiple personality in her. She does no wrong in my parent’s eyes. She does work but goes out to bars after work and is out until 3:00 or 4:00am. She tells my mom she is at a friends house. I look on her friends facebook page and there is pictures of my daughter drinking, in bars, and totally wasted. Meanwhile my mom or dad is the one taking care of her son bathing him and tucking him into bed. My parent’s tell me they can not control her because they are afraid she will move out and take her son and he will be in a bad situation. She will not live here because we have rules.
1. She is labeled a slut because she is a bar whore.
2. She dresses in clothes where her boobs pop out and her but crack is always showing
3. She is turning into an alcoholic (which runs on both sides of her family) and we have suspicion of drug use.
4. She hangs with a guy that has warrants out for not paying child support on two kids and skipping bail on dealing marijuana, coke, crack, and meth. She claims it is a lie. I had an attorney friend to look his name up in court records and sure enough it is true.
5. I called my daughter this morning and she became very defensive to me. She was yelling and crying at the same time. I tried to keep a normal voice and not yell back. She called me a Bipolar Bitch, She wished I killed myself when I attempted it years ago, her dad’s girlfriend is her mom and I am dead to her.
6. She tried saying I was mean to her son and I abuse him and I put his life in danger at my house. Everyone knows it is a lie and tell me to ignore her.
7. She has an STD now and claims she was raped. She has pulled the rape story twice before and when we went to file a police report she changed the subject. Now she is claiming it again and wanted to keep it a secret. I asked her when it happened and she claims a long time ago. Well, hanging in brands and dressing like a skank is a call for “rape me.” However, she is with a different guy every week too.
Everything was fine was until I called and confronted about drinking and this guy and then she became a loose cannon. She has hurt me so bad my her words and text messages that I want to disown her. I wanted to help her. How do I help someone not wanting help.
I am so stressed and have no idea what to do!
My dad was just diagnosed with cancer and my daughter still lays around and expects my dad to do everything for her son.
I am involved in many Bipolar Groups and I am a co-founder of one. My daughter denies the drinking and the fact she is Bipolar. She said her doctors her crazy.
I have to leave tomorrow to go take care of my grandson. For her accusing me of abuse is insane. I spoil him too much. My mother even told me when I watch to make him obey.
