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do u think im doing the right thing?!?!?!?

  • Posted on April 4, 2011 at 1:21 pm

okay, so when i was pregnant my baby father hit me when i was 5 weeks with her, i left him, lost total contact with him, he been trying to find me and all this other stuff, he made threats towards me thru aol messenger and everything, said that i better not hide from him or there will be hell to pay and he went crazy, he started smoking more pot everyday all day long non stop, started sniffing heroin and blamed it on me when ever he would do it, blamed me for him leaving his ex girl, i always caught him texting his ex when we would hang out and he would talk to her bout fuc%in her, and how if she gets him xanex that he would go longer and all this other crap, but thats just bout him and how he was,, now i left him cause he went thru my phone and i snapped and cause he got soooo mad when i got a job cause he wouldnt, like how are we going to bring a child into this world if he didnt want to get a job, he didnt want to help me get a doctor, insurance, nothing, so i left him…

now i had my daughter on march 24th.. do i think im doing whats best and not letting him know she is here? he is really crazy and i want wats best for her, i dont want her to get hurt and i have a feeling he will do that to her..

i dont want to be disrespected but i did wats best and that was not to ABORT like what some my family told me to do and now that i didnt they dont want to know nothing about me or her.. except my parents who wanted me to abort but are here for me and love my daughter to death…

am i doing the right thing for her? please help me ease my mind…
He knows there is a baby and that its a girl… thats all.. and that im due in april… thats all… but in reality i was due end march..

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Which one of the President’s daughters was doing drugs all week in a hotel with a gay folk singer?

  • Posted on March 23, 2011 at 2:20 am

Hint:

Google “Rufus Wainright” and “Bush daughter” and “crystal meth”
But hey… I can’t say I blame her…
If my last name was Bush I would probably hit the pipe too…

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Doing the right thing?

  • Posted on February 11, 2011 at 7:21 am

I was dating a guy for a couple of years he was a big pot head on and off then i joined the army and went to korea when i came back him and i slept together and i got pregnant i found out while i was away his drug problem got worse. his current drug choice was heroin you name the drug he has done it. any way i have a happy healthy beautiful baby girl now. and at first i gave him a chance to see her. he claims that he is clean now bla bla. In the mist of all of this i found an awesome man and we are engaged he has done soo much for her and considers her to be his daughter. i stopped letting her biological father see her. im still in the service and i cant go on leave very often to see family. He gets outraged when i tell him we not coming back. the situation is more and more volatile every time we talk. is it right for me to keep her from her? I want to do whats right for her. please help

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district attorney not doing their job in prosecuting.?

  • Posted on January 26, 2011 at 5:23 pm

I need some advice on what i should do on making sure that the DA is doing their job to the fullest, to get an appropriate conviction.
My daughters boyfriend killed her driving drunk a yr ago. He is still not in prison or hasn’t been convicted yet. His attorney is pretty much giving us an option as to his punishment, which is SO WRONG. We are trying to find an attorney to assist us in making sure that the DA is in fact doing their job. I am kinda lost on the type of attorney I should be looking for.
If anyone has any ideas or advice, please let me know asap. He has court in the morning only to have it reset again, while he is continuing to drink and live it up while we are still in so much pain.
By the way, we are in Liberty Texas and county of Liberty. This is the last time I will ever be able to do anything for my baby girl. All answers are so much appreciated.
Thank You JC!

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Is Kate moss still doing cocaine?

  • Posted on January 9, 2011 at 1:21 pm

i just wondered because she has a daughter and if she quit after she got fired from alot of companies. Also i heard burberry fired her but i see her in burberry ads…what’s up with that?

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tenant doing drugs and stealing need advice its long?

  • Posted on December 14, 2010 at 3:21 pm

My husband, mother,and I purchased an apartment building in Sept 08. I have never had to deal with the problems I am having now and would like some advice. The previous owner did not have any rules or guidelines. His lease simply said the amount of the rent and security deposit the effective date and there were to be no air conditioners or pets. We asked around town (it is small townt hat does not even have a mail carrying service only PO boxes) All anyone could say about him and the building was good.

We have come to learn that he is basically a jerk but that doesn’t even matter now. The problems I am having is with the tenants. One set in particular r really getting under my skin. For months things were fine. If there would be a problem we would tell the mother and she would take care of it.

Recently, however, I have come to find out that there are a lot of drugs in that apartment. I had been smelling something horrible in my bathroom. Another tenant reported the smelling of it too. It was pot. We told the tenant (whos bathroom it was coming from) about it. She laughed and said that they didn’t do drugs. Then her son admitted that he smokes it in his bedroom (which is bside their bathroom which connects to my bathrm and the other tenants bathrm) he also said that he goes into the bathrm and smokes it. I told him if I smelled it again or ever caught him smoking it on my property they would be evicted.

Now, the tenants daughter loves to share information. She is young and friends with my younger sister and she just talks even if you don’t wnat the information. She was telling us how badly her mother and her mothers bf are into pills. Every Thur the mother goes to a dr then another dr on Fri she gets some type of narcotic. She then is messed up all wkend and also sells the pills. One Sat night we were in the back yard doing smores at the fire pit. The tenant came out and was out of it. She could barely function stand talk walk anything.

the bf also is a heroin addict (according to the daughter and son). he is also a thief. We had cleaned a unit and there was a metal wardrobe in it. I threw it at the dumpster. Here the garbage co. wouldn’t take it. There was also a bunch of other metal scraps we had found while cleaning a section of the property. We planned to haul it in. The other day as I was mowing I noticed that it was gone. It is funny bc previously it kept getting beat in and broken apart to smaller pieces while the tenant had his car. Now he has his truck and it goes missing on the same day he gets the truck back. (This is his MO so he is highly suspected on my list of people. Considering everyone else around here doesn’t have the means to transport or move it is another reason along with him stealing metal from other people) in one way it doesn’t matter bc it wasn’t much but in another way I am angry about it. I also found out that he knew how to sneak into the basement. One day my 19 yr old brother was home visiting. My mother and husband and I went somewhere when we came back my brother said the tenant came to him and asked him to go in the basement w/ him bc he needed the breaker flipped (they are constantly flipping breakers and its all new wiring!) my brother (being too nice) agreed. THe tenant went into the laundry room and from there was able to jiggle open the one door. However he only did the jiggling he had my brother open it. We have secured that door much better (which it had been secured so I do not understand how his jiggling or whatever opened it!) But there had been many times I would go in the basement and find the door open or would think I saw someone in a dark corner. I assumed it to be the regular creepiness of a basement now I wonder if it was him. I also had someone enter my apartment from the basement (I am the only one with a direct entrance to the basement).

The biggest problem I have is I can not actually prove anything. My lawyer says that I need some kind of proof. All I have is hear say. He also said that if I allege these things they could come back with slander. What can I do to get rid of these people?!
Just a bit of side information is I do have a very nice lease with all tenants. In fact they had a fit. The one came to my door complaining how everyone hated the previous owner and his rules then left it at that and went on to say how ridiculious I was etc (its a standard lease I don’t know why everyone was so upset)
thnx james. I haves tried to enlist the help of the police. however we have to rely on the state police bc we are such a small town. They are not too interested in offering their help. I have considered calling our drug investigation task force for the county and seeing where I get.
I have already had the leases redone. All are month to month (due to the length they have already lived here and I did not want to force them to stay should they not like my new rules) One however (which is the one I am having problems with) is a yr lease bc the tenant is on HUD

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daughter’s father has visitation rights, but he is drinking and doing drugs and I cannot prove it.?

  • Posted on December 14, 2010 at 9:20 am

My daughter’s father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on ‘good terms’ and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don’t have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won’t say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?

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daughter’s father has visitation rights, but he is drinking and doing drugs and I cannot prove it.?

  • Posted on December 13, 2010 at 10:20 am

My daughter’s father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on ‘good terms’ and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don’t have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won’t say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?

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daughter’s father has visitation rights, but he is drinking and doing drugs and I cannot prove it.?

  • Posted on December 12, 2010 at 11:20 am

My daughter’s father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on ‘good terms’ and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don’t have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won’t say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?

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daughter’s father has visitation rights, but he is drinking and doing drugs and I cannot prove it.?

  • Posted on December 11, 2010 at 12:20 pm

My daughter’s father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on ‘good terms’ and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don’t have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won’t say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?

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