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Mother in law always causing drama!?

  • Posted on March 16, 2011 at 7:21 am

OK, so my wife and I have been married for 15 years. We have a 14 year old boy and a 12 year old girl… Well about two years ago, my wife began doing heroin. Now, she is not a full blown addict and still gets the house work done, and still is a good mother… She is essentially just chipping…

Now our children don’t really know, although the oldest may suspect… My wife and I both teach them, not to do drugs…

Well being that it was her b-day, I had my two children chip in, and told them that I was taking mom to an all day spa… Well instead, I figured she would enjoy it much more, I could arrange for a day to get her “fix.”

So I took her to the local heroin den, and paid the guy enough money to keep her high all day… She of course loved it… And no one was none the wiser.

I mean when she came home she threw up a few times and fell asleep during dinner, but we told the kids it was part of the spa treamtment.

Now her mother, had suspected what had happend, got mad and left during dinner, causing this big scene… Upsetting her daughter and her grandchildren… Frankly I don’t think that she is a fit influence for the kids! If I gave my wife enough “junk” do you think she would side with me and get her mother out of our lives?

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Who’s right, me or my new step-daughter? I just got married this past Saturday and there is already drama!?

  • Posted on December 28, 2010 at 9:22 am

My husband and I planned a small intimate backyard wedding, for just our closest family and friends. My two children (ages 14 and 7) live with us and his daughter, who is 21, lives 800 miles away. We flew his daughter up for the wedding, along with her boyfriend, with the understanding that they would stay with his sister so that we could have the weekend together after our wedding. We could not afford to take a honeymoon right now, as my children are both special needs and I will be starting law school in 2 weeks. His daughter got here 2 days before the wedding and he spent all day with her the day before the wedding itself. I spent some time with her the night before the wedding and she told me that she really loves me and is so happy that her father had finally found someone (he and her mother have been divorced for 18 years). The wedding ceremony was beautiful, but my new step daughter was upset at the seating arrangements. Her and her boyfriend both got too drunk to drive, so my new husband and I had to leave our wedding separately so he could drive them to his sister’s. When I got home, they were all at our house, with his daughter refusing to leave, saying she was too sick. This was my wedding night and I didn’t get any time with my husband (my children stayed with my parents so we could have our wedding night alone). The day after the wedding she insisted he spend time with her and her boyfriend because he doesn’t get to see her very often since she lives so far away and he can see me anytime. They all went out to a movie and dinner, leaving me at home. I was very upset that I had not gotten to spend any time with my husband since saying our vows. I discussed this with him and he agreed to enforce the agreement that his daughter go to his sister’s house. When he spoke to his daughter, she was very upset and again insisted he should be spending time with her. The next day was Monday and I had to return to work, so my husband had all day to spend with his daughter. When I returned home from work, before I even got a chance to get in the door of my house, my new step-daughter verbally assaulted me telling me that I was nothing but a b*tch and that I had no right to be upset. At that point my husband defended me and told his daughter that she had been being very selfish and that he should have been spending time with me on our wedding weekend. His daughter told him that he was choosing me over her and that she never wanted to see him again and she packed her things and left. She is now refusing to speak to her father. She says he has never done anything for her, even though we pay her rent every month. My question is was it unreasonable of me to want to spend the night of my wedding and the next day with my new husband? She keeps insisting that he should have been visiting with her, but I feel that she was flown up here for a wedding, not a casual visit. We fly her up to us at least twice a year and he flies down to her at least twice a year as well.

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baby momma drama. what to do next?

  • Posted on October 26, 2010 at 12:23 pm

I have a 17 month old daughter that I took in after I found out she wasnt mine,( My name is on the birth certificate as the father) as you can see from my sign on her name is Maya. Well this last friday my ex, her mom, was arrested on her 2nd dwi. 2 weeks ago she was arrested for disordely conduct and was released thru a bail bondsman. enough is enough already. I`m tired of her mom disappeaing with her for the night and me not knowing where My daughter is. (she is normally with me every night after work) Now my ex is gonna be locked up for 6 weeks, I want to see about getting primary custody of Maya before she gets out. I do have lots of other stuff to show of her moms escapades in the recent past, like other arrests and such to show her as an alcoholic and an unfit mother. So what would be the first steps in filing for primary custody? I would like to do this without lawyer involvement. thanks in advance
I am in New Mexico if this helps with my question

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Does this story im doing for my drama play sound realistic?

  • Posted on October 8, 2010 at 5:22 pm

Like does it sound like it would happen in real life:

A group of friends are drunk and they start driving, a daughter and her mum are about to cross the road and the mum pushes her daughter away to save her from getting run over. The mum gets run over instead and the daughter wants to get revenge on the people and follows them home and kills them.

Thats just brief, thanks for your answers x

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Sister drama – should I see her?

  • Posted on January 4, 2010 at 4:09 am

I come from a family that has never been taught unconditional love. In fact, what has been encouraged is disowning each other. All kinds of betrayal, lies and tear down of any self esteem one of us might have. Last year, my sister was the last one that I communicated with. She has always felt the need to tell who the %$ck up in my family is, and although hurt, I did forgive her for all the things she has said about my 2 kids and my husband. In the meantime, her kids have been arrested for driving under the influence, assaulting a police officer, etc. I never once thought about seizing any opportunity to tell her how screwed up her kids were, nor did I attack her upbringing of them. All of our kids are adults. So when she and her daughter started mouthing off and accusing me & my daughter of being loyal to them, I finally said enough is enough. So did my daughter. Through face book, my sister sent me an email about 2 weeks ago asking if we were ever going to open up the lines of communication. I initially had no intentions of responding, but alas, I did this past weekend and in essence told her that if she was willing to let go of the drama and not re-hash everything, I might be open to reconciliation. She responded back that if I loved her and our relationship was as strong as she thought it was, I would want to know what is bothering her about me and my daughter. That was Saturday. I blocked her from receiving any more communication from Face Book. I honestly feel that this will be like any other time. We’ll talk, she’ll get it off her chest, managing to make me feel guilty for being such an awful sister and then we just wait for the next time. I feel bad for not wanting to see her at. Should I? I am 50 years old, my sister is 54. This has been going on far too long!

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