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My husband and daughter both critisize my poor driving skills?

  • Posted on September 7, 2010 at 1:22 pm

My husband has totaled two cars. He got my keys one morning before I got out of bed, went drinking, and flipped my car five times that afternoon. He has wrecked his car many times and finally totaled it. He finally got a long sentence in rehab. Tonight after a weekend pass, he made fun of my driving as I was taking him back to the halfway house.

My daughter that is sixteen failed the computerized driving test two days ago.

I have been driving over thirty years and have been in one minor traffic accident that was my fault and that was over twenty years ago. I have had one speeding ticket in my life. What should I do about the constant criticizism of my driving abilities?

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Why can’t we have tougher laws against illegals that kill Americans while driving under the influence?

  • Posted on September 6, 2010 at 4:23 pm

Ball on reforming parole guidelines
January21From state Assemblyman Greg Ball, R-Patterson:

IN LIGHT OF DONOHUE SENTENCING,

BALL AIMS TO REFORM

STATE’S PAROLE GUIDELINES

Following the sentencing of Conses Garcia-Zacarias earlier this week, Assemblyman Greg Ball (R, C, I – Patterson) has pledged to reform the state’s parole guidelines and to renew his call that state lawmakers immediately take action to enact a “zero tolerance” for Driving While Intoxicated (DWI) law statewide. Ball is the main sponsor of such
legislation, which he drafted in response to the death of Lori and Kayla Donohue, the Brewster mother and daughter who were killed by Garcia-Zacarias, an illegal alien who was driving while intoxicated.
“Regretfully, the current maximum sentence of 8? years to 25 years is not enough. And sadly, with our state’s current parole guidelines, this killer could be released in one-sixth of that time. Idiotically, corrections Law 803, Section 2, Subsection A outlines the maximum parole for convicts serving concurrent sentences is one-sixth the minimum sentence and one-third the minimum sentence for those serving consecutive sentences. This is despicable and insensitive in this case and a perfect case of New York’s revolving door justice. This is exactly why the crime of DWI continues to pervade our community. The victims of DWI deserve better than that, our community deserves better than that, and I am determined not only to heighten sentences for those who choose to get behind the wheel drunk and murder others, but to reform our state’s broken parole system as well,” said Ball.

Ball now is taking a hard look at the state’s parole guidelines and aiming to heighten them. He stated, “We need to move forward aggressively and intelligently at the local level to make Putnam safer in the wake of this tragedy. This was no accident and could have been prevented. Now, elected officials must do everything in our power to keep
residents safe.”

On June 8, 2010 2009 both Assemblyman Ball and the entire Brewster community were shocked to the core when Garcia-Zacarias drove drunk into the 8-year-old second grader and her mother as they were leaving the Seven Stars School of Performing Arts. Garcia-Zacarias had a blood-alcohol level of twice the legal limit and no driver’s license. Following the devastating tragedy, Ball vowed to reform the state and county DWI laws and formed a coalition of
state and local lawmakers, law enforcement and business owners who all aimed to finally curb the high instances of DWIs in the Hudson Valley and prevent deaths like these from happening again.

Last summer, Ball announced the coalition’s plan, which included agreements to implement a designated driver program, creation of a Task Force on DWI through the Putnam County District Attorney’s Office, implementation of
mandatory countywide TIPS-certified training for bar owners and employees and a public awareness campaign, as well as strengthening countywide DWI laws to include mandatory ignition interlocks, SCRAM bracelets and vehicle
seizure.

On a state level, Ball authored and introduced the toughest DWI legislation in the nation. His statewide bill would heighten all penalties for driving under the influence or DWIs. Ball is in the process of further strengthening the bill to include the strictest possible sentences for those who kill someone while driving under the influence. While Albany agreed to heighten some penalties through the enactment of Leandra’s Law (with Ball’s support) in November, which increases penalties for those who drive drunk with children in the car, a zero-tolerance statewide law was not put on the books. In 2007, Ball also voted to enact Katie Flynn’s Law, which created the crimes of Aggravated Vehicular Homicide, a class B felony and Aggravated Vehicular Assault, a class C felony.

“I support Assemblyman Ball’s initiative to tighten parole laws to help ensure offenders, who continue to pose a danger, do not obtain early release from prison. Justice demands that someone who takes a life while committing
a crime, must pay his debt to society,” Putnam County Sheriff Donald B. Smith said.

“The closing of loopholes in New York sentencing guidelines is necessary. This illegal alien criminal, by actions of his own choosing, took the lives of two of our neighbors and friends. The DWI aspects of these deaths are only half of the story; sadly, the problem of criminal activity among the illegal alien population in our area can only be addressed when our elected officials recognize the scope of the problem and address it in a uniform, consistent way. This means enforcing existing laws and fully prosecuting those individuals who employ illegal aliens,” Ed Kowalski of 9/11 Families for a Secure America said.

Ball stated, “We need to do everything in our power to keep residents safe. That is the most important priority state lawmakers have. What good are tough punishments when our

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My 4 year old Daughter is driving me crazy!?

  • Posted on August 31, 2010 at 5:22 am

I am at my wits end! I have 3 children 2 years, 4 years and 6 years. My two boys are 2 and 6 and im not saying they are perfect, but they are much better than my 4 year old daughter. I fight with her ALL day.. To clean her room, take a nap, just about anything I ask her to do I have to fight with her over! She destroys everything in my house, I’ve tried letting her lay in my bed for a nap, thinking that would encourage her to be a big girl, she destroyed everything in my jewlery box. and threw powder all over my room. I’ve tried laying her down in her own room and she destroys that as well, not just the normal usual toys every where. She broke the bookshelf headboard of her bed into pieces, managed to get ahold of food coloring and make circles of red blue and yellow all over her floor and walls. She gets up at night and gets into the kitchen and eats and drinks anything thats there, ie coffee creamer, cookies, juice.. anything thats in there. Just this morning I was getting my 6 year old dressed for school and she was in the Kitchen putting a combination of butter, salt and peper all over my floors. When I yell at her, she tells me I dont love her. And im starting to think that she thinks that, becasue of all the distructivness I am always yelling at her. But every single day its something else. When her father is here she is not like that. Her dad is in the Army, He is deployed right now for the third time. I know some of you will say this is her way of lashing out cause she misses her father, which your probably right, but HOW DO I MAKE IT STOP?! She gets plenty of outside time. At 1 we walk to the park till 3 then go up to the school and pick up her brother, its usually outside in the back yard until dinner, then baths, prayers and bed.. Please help!!
I do set aside for mommy and daughter time. She is a middle child, but also the only girl, so she gets “girl” attention above the boys. I’ve tried taking her toys, time out, corner, just about everything
I dont make her nap all the time, if she has quiet time that is fine by me. I’ve locked the fridge and cupboards.. she figures those out 10 seconds after they are done. Doing nothing about her destroying things.. and just throwing it away suggests she will never recieve anything again .. how do i pull that off..

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how can a judge drink and drive and still hand down decisions of others drinking and driving.?

  • Posted on August 30, 2010 at 7:22 am

this judge goes to the local resturant every week and drinks a full bottle of vodka with his meal at lunchtime and when he’s finished he gets in his car and drives out of town to his residence and the local police just look the other way.i would like to know how he can do it and not anybody else.personally,i don’t do it myself but how can he do this and he won’t let others do it.what i’m saying is not the poor people.most of the high class and middle class are allowed to get away with it.is there a place where we can get this changed?it makes me mad that this judge is breaking the law and we can’t do a thing about it.my daughter has a job and because it’s not a high paying job he treats her like crap and she can’t be rude because the job says that the customer is always right.so how can we stop this judge?thank you allowing me to express my voice about him.he’s worthless if you ask me.just like this cop years ago,hit this kid and killed him and the town made him cheif of police.help me

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Daughter, ADHD + Addict, Driving Us Nuts?

  • Posted on August 25, 2010 at 5:22 pm

daughter is 42 and has been on and off crack cocaine for 2 years. Xanax b4 that. Two months ago she left a close male friend and her ten year old son, “D”, at the circus after saying she was going to the restroom. We had to drive 550 miles to pick him up and she wasn’t there. D was with the male friend. Before third grade, she was on crack and
her bf’s relatives brought her son to our town where we kept him for 9 months. For second grade, her sister kept him. I’m losing track. Her father told me she drank all his vodka when visiting. I hate to say it, but she is living for the third time with a 79 yr old rich guy (he kicked her out twice and called the cops) just for his money. I know she has never wanted to work, even to support her son. I can’t say all that has happened but she LECTURES ME on “forgiveness” while Never saying she wants her son back. She doesn’t want to raise him and takes it for granted we will in our sixties. She is driving around in a Mercedes convertible with bleached out hair suggesting that I READ BOOKS ON HOW TO LIVE. Would YOU simply forgive this girl? She claims the boy as a dependent but we did ,too, so I don’t know what will happen there. Her son keeps going back to her, thinking she’s ok now, then she turns to drugs again. Even if she’s not on them, she gets very depressed and sleeps/cries a lot. This anger and resentment hurts me. My husband, not her real father, wants to move away from here to avoid contact w/her. Should we move? I get SO DOWN hearing her voice, hearing her “suggestions” on how I SHOULD CHANGE and we are drug/alcohol/tobacco free around here and love D so much. He wants to see her for brief periods of time; it stresses us out ’cause we know it stresses D out.

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finacee’s daughter is driving me crazy part 2?

  • Posted on August 22, 2010 at 1:27 am

She is a heroin addict and our daughter together is only 11 and his daughter is 19. She has stolen from us, which also includes her own brother and sister, who resent her as well as their father for siding with her. Our 11 year old, is having challenges in school and is acting out at home. He does not seem interested in any of the childrens challenges unless it is his 19 year old. She is the one he favors at the expense of his other children. She has made her choice and decided the way of drugs and theft, the other children need his guidance but it appears to be a burden to him. I can not take his children with me when I leave, we are not married, however, I need to protect my child. Do I stay and try to make it work although it hasn’t in the past and he does not seem to care what I think or what the other children think, or do I take my child and protect her from all this chaos and move on?

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finacee’s daughter is driving me crazy part 2?

  • Posted on August 21, 2010 at 3:20 am

She is a heroin addict and our daughter together is only 11 and his daughter is 19. She has stolen from us, which also includes her own brother and sister, who resent her as well as their father for siding with her. Our 11 year old, is having challenges in school and is acting out at home. He does not seem interested in any of the childrens challenges unless it is his 19 year old. She is the one he favors at the expense of his other children. She has made her choice and decided the way of drugs and theft, the other children need his guidance but it appears to be a burden to him. I can not take his children with me when I leave, we are not married, however, I need to protect my child. Do I stay and try to make it work although it hasn’t in the past and he does not seem to care what I think or what the other children think, or do I take my child and protect her from all this chaos and move on?

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Why didn’t the pro illegal explain the law to Illegal alien Jesus Bernal drunk driving Killing TriState Couple

  • Posted on August 15, 2010 at 3:22 pm

CINCINNATI — A drunk driver with a history of offenses received the maximum sentence Saturday for killing a couple from Cincinnati.

The crash occurred in Florida last June.

Illegal immigrant Jesus Bernal admitted he was drunk when he crashed his pickup into James and Margie Rook. Bernal had two prior DUI convictions, and the judge sentenced him to 55 years in prison after he pleaded guilty last week to three counts of DUI manslaughter and two counts of DUI with serious bodily injury.

The Rooks died when Bernal’s pickup truck collided head-on with their car on U.S. Highway 331 in Walton County.

A daughter and her friend were seriously hurt in the crash.http://www.wlwt.com/news/14504576/detail.html

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Police officers, if you found Obama driving drunk would you?

  • Posted on August 11, 2010 at 11:23 pm

Make the arrest, throw him in a jail cell and forget about him until they raid all over the news that Obama’s missing the next day before telling sgt that you had arrested Obama for DUI the night before or would you stand there kissing ass all the while allowing him to call for someone to come pick him up? In all honesty.

If you would allow him to call for a ride, then whats the difference between Obama, and your family, friends, your wife’s father, your wife’s father’s mother, your wife’s father’s mothers friend, your wife’s father’s mothers friends father, your wife’s father’s mothers friends fathers daughter, your wife’s father’s mothers friends fathers daughters pet rat?

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What happens when a person totals out a friends new car while drinking and driving?

  • Posted on August 11, 2010 at 1:33 am

My Daughter was involved in an accident, she totaled her roommates car while drinking and driving, the car was pretty new and it was insured but does anyone know how that works?

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