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My toddler Is driving me insane!?

  • Posted on May 11, 2011 at 5:22 am

OMG where do I start my daughter is 28 months old and she is just driving me insane. I love her so much she is such a caring a loving toddler. But she constantly wants to be sitting on top of me kissing touching my face, eyes, nose, I can’t even drink a cup of coffee. I tell her sit next to mommy and she sits so close to me I can’t barely move I move her a little further away to only have then on top of me AGAIN this goes on all day. She does not eat well at all it is a constant fight about it there have been days where I just don’t have enough energy to fight about the food and she actually goes all day without EATING but she does have her milk when she wakes up in the morning 9oz and usually has a little bit of outmeal then for her nap like at 2-3 6oz and to go to bed 9oz. She never wants to wear what I pick for her but if I let her pick I am there for like 8 different outfit charges and OMG where do I begin about the shoes at first it was soooooooo cute she always wanted to wear my shoes but come one I am all day picking them up from all over the house. When I put her in time out I put her on my bed and tell she can’t get down “she actually listens” till she calms down it takes her about 5-10 min and during this times she is screaming I’m sorry mommy I love you. She is awesome when she is around kids very well behaved shares and all she even ignores me especially when she is with her older cousins that’s the only time I get to relax. By the way I am not a single mom but dad doesn’t really discipline and when he does he is just tough love which I don’t like. What am I doing worng?

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My mother in law to be is driving me insane!?

  • Posted on May 5, 2011 at 5:23 pm

She is almost 60. I have a daughter and when we go and visit my mil to be she always tries to pressure me to drink with her – but I don’t like to drink much especially as I have a young daughter. My mil used to be really heavy and had weight loss surgery. She now acts like she is 25 – wearing tight clothes and brands that someone of my age (25) would wear. She is superficial and always claims to have no money to come and visit us yet she always has new jewelry, bags, shoes, buckle jeans etc. She copies everything I do – buying the exact same nail polish as me, same purse, same jeans, etc. At my baby shower my sister in law told her I was wearing a purple dress – so they went shopping the day of my shower to get her a purple dress. A lot of her tendencies are for attention and I know it is because she has lost a lot of weight, but she needs to act her age. Yesterday she texted me 3 different times about drinking together over Easter weekend. One of these times said “lets pound grape” I said wth does that mean she said “get drunk on wine!”. I am currently dieting and have lost almost 10 pounds and have told her 4 or 5 times in the last couple of weeks that I am not going to be drinking more than a glass of wine all weekend but she is constantly trying to pressure me into drinking. Last time we were there i had one glass while she finished off the bottle in the amount of time it took me to have ONE. She was also trying to feed me my wine from my glass with a straw while I was cooking dinner – what an embarrassment. I am getting married next year and I can’t seem to understand this bizarre NOT NORMAL behavior for someone the age of 60! Can anyone please tell me what it is she has going on in her head so I can better wrap my head around her craziness!? My fiance’s brothers wife does not speak to their entire family for all of the same reasons – mainly the drinking – and she has been in the family for 10 years and just cut them off 3 months ago. I thought she was harsh at the time but now I am starting to wonder how she dealt with them for as long as she did. My family drinks occassionally and on special occassions and my parents think she has serious issues.

HELP!

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My mother is driving me nuts!!! How would you handle this?

  • Posted on May 3, 2011 at 9:23 pm

Deep breath, count to ten Katie.
God she drives me mad!!! My mum (I am 32 and married with 3 children & work part time just so you know) likes a drink shall we say.
We don’t live near each other (thankfully) and this week she has ahad a week off work, does she come to see me and the girls? No she sits in doors drinking. I don’t take the children to her house because she insists on smoking in the very small house (and drinking) and i don’t want the girls breathing in the smoke and it makes all of our clothes & hair smell. Anyway’s my mum likes taking my oldest who is 6 to the ttheatre to see various musicals – that is the only time she does anything for the children or even sees my daughter.
Now, she rang during the week (she had been drinking) and was going on about wether Abbi would want to go & see joseph or the sound of music I said i would ask her later as it was tea time. Mum rang again last night but whilst we were talking my daughter had a bit of a tantrum over something & spoke to me quite abruptly i dealt with her whilst mum was still on the phone listening but once i had finished sorting out my daughter my mum went into one “thats it i’m not taking her anywhere, she can’t talk to you like that” etc etc so i said “ok don’t then” and told her i had to go. She rang again yesterday but i was to busy to talk on the phone & forgot to call her back.
She just called me. MUM: “you didn’t call me back about the tickets”
ME: “what tickets, you said you weren’t going” MUM: “no I didn’t”
She had no memory of it & then after i repeated the conversation she said that she was joking well she was not & obviously didn’t remember.
So I told her not to book any tickets (when i spoke to my daughter she said she didn’t want to go but so far I haven’t found oout why) I told her lets get xmas out of the way before we start booking theatre tickets for next year. And she got all moody & silent on me & said “well fine then hope you have a nice day goodbye” and off she went (she has been drinking)
What do I do?
P.s thanks for letting me rant I can’t speak to anybody else about her. I don’t want to hurt her feelings but she is driving me mad.

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If you had proof that a former bosses underage child was driving stoned and drinking, would you tell?

  • Posted on February 25, 2011 at 1:23 am

I stumbled across my former boss’s 16 year old daughter’s myspace page. She states on her profile that she spends her time smoking weed, and there are several pictures of her smoking a pipe, drinking beer, and behind the wheel stoned and laughing about it. Should I tell her dad, or should I just mind my own business?
My old boss and I aren’t “talk every day” kind of friends, but I left on excellent terms, and we have a cordial relationship.
Okay, so I sent him an email, and he replied “I checked it out, and didn’t see anything that bad. Get ready, it happens. She’s graduating a year early at the top of her class”….

I tried…

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How can i make her move on, its driving me crazy! Advice, MATURE ANSWERS?

  • Posted on February 21, 2011 at 9:21 am

Im a 29yo firefighter and have been in love with my now fiance who is 26 for 7years, even though we weren’t together until a few months ago. She was 19 when i met her and she had a 3yr old daughter with her then fiance who was a well known musician in a band & never really talked to her only him a few times. I knew i never had a chance with her at that point as she was crazy in love with her then fiance who she dated since she was 13, she honestly couldn’t stop expressing her love for him, basically everyone knew how in love they were with each other, he was a guitarist and would write her songs, he worshiped them. Two years ago he died of a heroin overdose and she completely fell apart, she disappeared for a while and doesn’t seem like the same person anymore. The only way she ever tries to deal with stuff is by writing poetry about him or her pain. We ended up getting together and her 10yr old daughter is so lovely i love both them but she always talks of her daddy. She sometimes looks like she is falling apart, she never grieved for him and everyone says part of her died with him. I turned on her the other day for living in the past when i wanted to talk about having a baby together & she told me she wasn’t ready, i felt horrible after. She told me that she loses what she loves most both her parents,brother,nephew,aunt have died. I also asked her if she thinks we would have been together if he hadn’t of died and she just looked through me and didn’t say anything and i ended up walking out. I love this woman with all my heart and i feel close to her daughter, i wont give up on her. How can i help her get over this completely?

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My Daughter is driving me insane?

  • Posted on February 15, 2011 at 7:23 am

It’s been about two weeks since her punishment started, and I’m ready to burst. She’s 14, and I found out she’s been bullying a girl through texting and the internet, so as punishment I canceled her cell phone and told her she can not have one until I consider her responsible .. which will be at LEAST 16, and I canceled the internet. I have the internet on my own computer (an internet stick I use for work) and I told her she could use that for projects or go to the library, but I will know what websites she’s on because my bill will show it.

She’s going on every day about how she’s bored or she NEEDS the internet or she NEEDS a phone. I told her she’s making her punishment worse by telling me she needs it, because to me – that’s an unhealthy addiction. You shouldn’t need a cell phone or need the internet. When she does go out, she borrows mine since all it can do is make phone calls, but she will not get her own. Personally, I think the whole “emergency” argument is bs, anyway. If she’s going to a friends house – I know all of her friends have landlines, and her school has payphones (which the office will give you a quarter if need be) .. so there’s no need for one.

I told her I’m not cutting down her punishment, at least not until she shows some responsibility and even then I’ll only cut the cell phone restriction to 1year instead of 2 – but no personal internet still sticks. I do NOT take bullying lightly because I’ve raised her better than that. She’s even trying to say “But all of my other friends that bullied didn’t get punished” and my relpy is “That’s because their parents don’t care”.

Anyway, what can I do to shut her up ? The punishments are NOT coming off. I know I sound strict, but she proved that she isn’t responsible for those freedoms.

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If i got a ticket for driving with suspended licence and a child with not the proper restrain… ?

  • Posted on February 3, 2011 at 11:22 pm

So we were coming home from my daughters god parents and my husband was drunk. So I decided to drive I was not gona let him drive like that. I had one ticket pending for not having a seat belt I got an extension for that ticket at the time of the court date I was in the hospital for about 2 month I had spine surgery viral menengitis and mrsa. So I am barely getting back on track I mean health wise so I didnt have time to clear that ticket so it turned to a warrent I had two tickets one day after another so I finally got around to clear one bcuz one is too expensive and two I was not too good health wise to be up and down. so now I have this one for the suspended licence and not the proper child restrain. so yesterday I went to court but aperently the court was floded and they gave me another court date but they send me to division 7 which is criminal..??? I mean is the first time i get a ticket for driving with suspended licence.. so why is it a misdemeanor??? and why criminal???? please help and explain it to me if any one knows??? will I go to jail???
should I take my doctor paper
Should I take my doctor paper work so when I was sick… would it matter…???
I had a child restrain only that it was not the proper one… I thought after 45 pounds it was the regular car seat not the 3 point one. SO the officer put not the proper child restrain…

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5 drinking and driving charges?

  • Posted on January 16, 2011 at 3:23 pm

and missed court, broke probation, how long in jail (it’s for my daughter’s husband)

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when i pass a hooker driving, i see gods daughter…i see her in her innocence. what do you see?

  • Posted on January 14, 2011 at 7:22 pm

now i am not going to rant about the state of affairs that positioned this woman tragically into the grips of poverty, addictions and self-loathing, but i will give only one warning to the juvinelles:

IF YOU DEGRADE ANY LIVING BEING I WILL BRING YOU AS LOW AS YOU GO so help me god… and noone will be laughing…it’ll be a hard lesson in humanity.
ya’ll just made me lol…i didn’t mean i saw a hooker driving and i could spot her a mile away…i meant while i am driving past a hooker…
anyway
and the girl who said i was drunk yahoo-ing…thats what set me off. i am not drinking, in fact i just got out an aa meeting tonight…its the wiring upstairs…it had lapses in judgement which happen way before alcohol. thanks for the laugh.
bengali – i appreciate your positive insight however, most prostitution is forced by external factors…like a man who offers random women money in exchange for her body. the woman may act and say she is a nemph, but thats a misnomer…its like psychoticly laughing when you are frightened…by laughing, she trys to relieve the pain of being used like a dumpster.

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does anyone know this movie title,,i cant remember and it is driving me crazy!?

  • Posted on January 13, 2011 at 9:23 pm

okay, so there is this movie that i watched about a year ago and i cant remember what it is. it starts off with the teenage daughter going to live with her father for the holiday i think, and then she meets this boy and asks her dad about sex. and he goes all awkward. and i also remember a part where he comes home drunk and slaps her,,tha’ts all i can really remember. does anyone know cos i would really appreciate it. thanks.

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