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WHEN will we force legislation on jailing drunk drivers?

  • Posted on April 30, 2011 at 5:22 am

from today’s Chicago Sun Times newspaper:
DEADLY CRASH NOTHING TO SMILE ABOUT
Crossing the street on their way to church, Frank and Helen Lilly were run down by an alleged drunken driver. Helen died, and Frank is in intensive care. The driver, Thomas Postulka, had been charged in another DUI just two days before.Frank G. Lilly, Helen’s husband of 50 years, remains in intensive care nearly three weeks later.
What makes this tragedy even harder on the Brookfield couple’s family and friends is that an alleged drunken driver struck the Lillys — only two days after he’d been charged with another DUI.
“It just seems like someone who had a DUI, his second one in that many days, just shouldn’t be driving around,” said the couple’s daughter, Lisa Lilly, 41.
But under Illinois law, Thomas J. Postulka had full driving privileges Jan. 22 when the fatal crash happened in front of St. Barbara Catholic Church in Brookfield.

http://www.suntimes.com/news/metro/250323,CST-NWS-dui09.article

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drunk mother wants custody, hasn’t bothered to see our four year old daughter in two years?

  • Posted on April 4, 2011 at 12:17 pm

My ex-wife and i have a four year old daughter together. When she left our daughter was one and a half. She took our daughter with her at first, but brought her back after two weeks because ‘she couldn’t handle it.’

Over a period of about six months I tried letting my daughter have a relationship with her mother. At first we lived six hours apart so i would drop her off with her mother and plan to pick her up again in a month. Each time she would bring her back after about a week or two because, once again ‘she couldn’t handle it.’ After a few months she moved closer, so she was only an hour and a half away. I would bring our daughter to see her about every other weekend but would later find out that the whole time my wife had her, our daughter was with a babysitter the whole time, and my wife had been out drinking.(This was the case when she lived farther away too) Whenever I would call to check on her, my wife would sound wasted. I would hear from mutual friends and see on myspace that the whole time she was supposed to be spending time with our daughter, she was out at the bars and sleeping around instead. She didn’t deny it. Sometimes she would just not show up when it was her time to come get our daughter.

Finally I told her that if she wanted to see our daughter, she would have to prove to me that she could handle it and would be responsible. I told her if she called every day for one month to check on our daughter i would let her see her again. She stopped calling after a few days.

Over the past two years she has called sporadically to tell me that her dog died, or to wish my family a merry Christmas, usually not even mentioning our daughter. She did call once after about a year to ask if her father could come visit our daughter, but i said no since she didn’t even know who he was, and because he had never bothered to see her before. Our daughter now has no idea who her mother is, because she hasn’t seen her since before her second birthday.

When we were divorced my ex-wife didn’t show up to the custody hearing, and later signed a paper saying that i would have full custody, and she would be able to visit occasionally when we both agreed on it. She was supposed to be paying child support but hasn’t paid a penny.

My ex-wife is now pregnant with another child (mutual friends have told me she didn’t want to get pregnant in the first place, and that she is working at a bar, still going out to the bars drinking non-alcoholic beer so it looks like she is still partying, and didn’t tell anyone she was pregnant until really late into her pregnancy)and is suing me for FULL custody of our daughter. She is claiming that i violated our parenting plan by never letting her see our daughter and by not telling her when we moved into a new house. The only time she asked to see her was after she found out she was pregnant and i said no because she hadn’t called to talk to our daughter or asked to see her in two years, and our daughter doesn’t even know who she is.

Everything in the papers she sent is complete LIES, saying that i never let her see our daughter and that she has been trying to. I have about seven character witnesses lined up to testify against her. They are all mutual friends, or her friends who she has screwed over. My brother, who must have been a reference or something, has gotten numerous phone calls from debt collectors and even the police a couple times looking for her.

We have met with our lawyers, and our lawyers have recently met with the judge to determine if she will throw the case out, or if she wants to take it to court. I have been waiting a week and haven’t heard anything. What are her chances of her actually winning full custody, or any custody at all? Our daughter doesn’t even know who she is.
i was acting not nicely??? did you even read the story? why would i let my daughter go spend the weekend with someone she doesn’t know? someone who chose a life of partying over a life with her daughter..someone who didn’t bother to call her own daughter for two years? Would you let your child go with a complete stranger?

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Losing child to drunk driver.?

  • Posted on April 2, 2011 at 5:23 pm

Yesterday, I was reading a week old newspaper that arrived in the mail from my old hometown. My ex lives there along with my only child a daughter who was to graduate this coming June 2007.

As I do everytime i get this paper I read every page saving the obit’s or the last. It’s a small town and thus paper isn’t more than 20 pages including classified ads.

I get to the last page which contains the obit’s and first thing i see is a picture of my daughter and her obituary, she was killed in a traffic accident, the funeral was held and lists various family members including me and date and time the funeral was held.

I was in total shock I was and still am numb, but getting more furious by the minute that i wasn’t notified of my daughter’s death.

I feel like driving the 120 miles to this small town jerking my ex and her husband out of their house and beating their butts into the ground for not giving me the courtesy of so much as a phone call.
Am I wrong to feel this way?
My ex fought both my daughter and I for years about us having a close relationship, always accusing us of loving each other more than her. We’ve been close since she was born and had to hide our communications and visits with each other from her mother.

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My husband says if I’d have went with him, he wouldn’t have got so drunk…?

  • Posted on March 25, 2011 at 11:24 am

I know I’m now his babysitter, and I have responsibilities at the house (he wanted me to bring our child with us when she needed to do schoolwork). He made his choices, and I made mine. I chose to not go to my family’s get together because of my prior commitments for the past weekend. I suspect there being something mixed in with his drinks or that there was a bad reaction with his medications, he says he drank a lot more than he remembered drinking after calling someone else who was there. I still don’t trust the situation. The guy could have been telling him that he went off alone with someone else or did something else, but my husband told me supposedly what the guy said. If my husband was accurately truthful, then all he did was he went out for a long time on a bad note with me. To me, that is not faithfulness and comittment to the marriage and our family and our plans we had which we ditched. He says he is sorry. He had me worried about him and I thought he could have alcohol poisoning or something else, which is serious, and also especially since I did not know where he was and could not come pick his sorry but up and check on the situation to make sure if a promiscuous woman was taking advantage of him or not or if he was acting wrong otherwise. I don’t think I could have stopped him even if I had been there, or even if I had made ultimatums before he left. He has had another time years ago he left me stranded at a hotel for I don’t know how many hours while he was supposedly test driving the car for problems. He supposedly went to his partying relatives house (in the daytime). But I still have suspicions that something else may have gone on, even if he did go to those particular relatives. I didn’t want him to put me in another situation and worse to involve our daughter with seeing a bunch of drunks or people cursing and stuff…..
My questions are these: Do you think I did anything wrong by not going with him and by not getting myself and our child stuck in this situation with him? Do you think he is right that he would not have gotten so messed up if I had been there with our child? And can you understand (even if you don’t agree) how I see this as being not faithfully committed to the family, even if he was accurately truthful and did not do something sexual with another woman?
Sorry this is so long, but please try to read before answering….

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Need help finding movie title.. about a alcoholic singer who rides motorcycle through window when drunk?

  • Posted on March 24, 2011 at 12:17 pm

the guy is an alcoholic who rides his motorcycle through a window and ends up (I think) in a mental ward. Then there is a girl (teenager) who finds out that he is her father and goes to meet him. The guy is surprised to find out he has a daughter, because he was never told about her. The mother was against and is against them spending time together. It then show the father and daughter getting to know each other at his mansion. He finds out that she can sing. The girls grandfather is also having a reunion with the band he was in, against his daughters wishes. The girl records a song at her dads studio and the dads manager steals it and she hears it on the radio (i think). She wants to go to some music school and mom says no she runaways to go to auditions for this school, dad and mom find out go to school on motorcycle to get her and watch from balcony and mom realizes how good she is.

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Joe Biden likes to tell the story that his family was killed by a drunk driver?

  • Posted on March 5, 2011 at 7:23 am

It isn’t true. As recently as a month ago he told a group he was speaking to that his wife & daughter were killed years ago by a truck driver that drank his lunch instead of eating it.

The facts are his wife was driving the car along with their 3 children and SHE drifted over into the lane of an oncoming tractor trailer. The driver did everything in his power to avoid hitting them, but could not.

This was a story I saw on a show on CBS, of all stations. When asked why he is passing fiction off as fact, he said “The deaths of his wife and daughter have always been the focus of his life, but it served no purpose to dredge up the details.” So, why is he putting lies out there? Is he going for the sympathy vote now?

http://insideedition.com/news.aspx?storyID=2048

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How many gun toting crazies are there in Texas. Do you think these two were drunk or high on meth?

  • Posted on March 3, 2011 at 10:20 pm

ASSOCIATED PRESS

Published: Sunday, May 10, 2009 at 4:03 a.m.
Last Modified: Sunday, May 10, 2009 at 4:03 a.m.
HOUSTON — A 7-year-old boy who was allegedly shot in the head by a couple who thought he and three other people were trespassing on their property died Saturday, authorities said.

Gayle and Sheila Muhs have been charged with shooting four people, including a 7-year-old boy and a 5-year-old girl, who they mistakenly thought were trespassing on their property Thursday night. The victims were off-roading near Dayton, Texas, when the couple opened fire, according to officials.

Donald Coffey Jr. died Saturday morning at a Houston hospital, less than two days after the boy was struck in the head by shotgun pellets, Liberty County Sheriff’s Cpl. Hugh Bishop said.

Sheila Muhs and her husband, Gayle, both 45, were charged with second-degree felony counts of aggravated assault in the shootings Thursday. They were being held at Liberty County Jail with bail set at $25,000 each and had not yet retained an attorney, Bishop said.

Bishop said the district attorney could upgrade the charges to murder on Monday, but investigators were “still trying to get the circumstances behind the incident.”

The boy, his 5-year-old sister, their father and a family friend were off-roading near a residential area about 40 miles northeast of Houston when they were shot after stopping so the children could go to the bathroom.

Authorities said the couple fired after they mistakenly thought the group was trespassing on their property.

Bishop said the area includes a dirt road, trees and overgrown brush and that it wasn’t uncommon for people to go off-roading there. The Houston Chronicle reported that a sign in front of the suspects’ home reads: “Trespassers will be shot. Survivers will be reshot!! Smile I will.”

Liberty County Chief Deputy Ken DeFoor said Sheila Muhs fired a 12-gauge shotgun once, then handed it to her husband, who also fired once.

DeFoor said Sheila Muhs then called 911 and told the dispatcher: “They’re out here tearing up the levee, so I shot them.”

DeFoor said the levee belonged to the subdivision and was not private property.

Bishop said there was no indication the unarmed victims did anything threatening toward the Muhs.

Donald Coffey Sr. suffered a pellet wound in his right shoulder and his daughter, Destiny, suffered a wound to the elbow. The family friend, 30-year-old Patrick Cammack, was in serious condition Saturday with a head wound, Memorial Hermann-Texas Medical Center spokeswoman Alex Rodriguez said.
Divided America-you are jumping to conclusions I haven’t said anything about banning guns. Are you as dangerous as the two nut cases in the article.

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What do you think of David Hasselhoff’s drunk video?

  • Posted on February 18, 2011 at 3:22 pm

here’s the link

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oYj6TceYio0

watch the video then read the comments.
some of the comments made me laugh harder than the video itself. especially this one:

Now I know why he needed “K.I.T.T.” the self driving -talking Pontiac Trans-Am on the show ” Night Rider”… so he could make it home after binge drinking.. LOL The only thing that would make this video funnier would be if the guy that did KITT’s voice would voice over Hasselhoff’s daughter’s voice and ask the questions about his drinking… with the theme of Night Rider very low in the background.

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Friend coming to dinner (got really drunk last time)?

  • Posted on February 13, 2011 at 3:22 am

My friend (of many, many years), his wife and daughter are coming to our house for dinner next weekend. In the past, we have usually had a couple of glasses of wine with the meal and then, if his wife is driving home, follow it up with a couple of glasses of whisky as the night progresses.

For some reason which he has never explained (perhaps stress at work or worrying about something), the last time they came, he got really drunk. He was too unwell to travel home so the family had to spend the night at ours. The kids and our wives went to bed after which he was sick several times – including one time in bed (as he couldn’t get up quickly enough and once on the way to the bathroom when he didn’t quite make it). I had to help him wash as he wasn’t steady enough to use the shower on his own. He was sick down or soiled all his own clothes plus some nightwear and underwear that I lent him and eventually went to sleep naked on two plastic sheets we had kept from when the children were very small.

The next morning, as well as having no clothes to wear and feeling very ill, he was mortified at his behaviour. He took home and either cleaned or replaced everything that he had dirtied and returned the things to us accompanied by a letter of apology.

I have explained to him that, as far as I am concerned, there is nothing more to apologise for and that I would rather him do what he did at my house where he was safe rather than out on the town or away on a business trip when anything could have happened. His wife has confirmed to my wife that it hasn’t happened again since.

However, on the basis that I still don’t know if there was any underlying reason why he decided to have a blast, when they come next week do you think we should follow the usual routine or have water with the meal and coffee afterwards?

Would appreciate your thoughts.

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My boyfriend Banged my head against the wall when drunk and kicked me?

  • Posted on February 4, 2011 at 9:23 pm

I went out with my boyfriend on Saturday night to the pub for his Birthday night out.There was a group of us including my older brother, my boyfriends cousin and lots of friend. He had lots to drink and was getting into a heated argument in the pub with someone who was out with us both over football. He was very loud at this point which is unusual for him as he is probably one of the most laid back guys i have ever met in day to day life. Me, my partner and his cousin ended up going into town and when we was waiting to get into a club he ended up nearly having a fight with another guy for no reason. The police had to pull him aside and have a word with him. We entered the club and he saw his other cousin in the club and started having ago at him for not coming out for his birthday, then i saw a guy i knew i was saying hi to him and he went mad at my left the club and left a horrible voice-mail message on my phone calling me a slag and that he was off to get our daughter from his mums. I panicked and jumped into another taxi stopping home first to see if he was there and he was stood outside smoking a cigarette. He then went up to the taxi driver that dropped me off shouting saying ‘ring through your radio and find out which taxi driver has stolen my mobile phone’ The taxi driver drove off because my boyfriend was being so aggressive.My boyfriend decided to chase the taxi down our street shooting a kicking the taxi. He then ran back to our house where i was and started calling me a slag, saying i have ruined his life and hes gonna take our daughter away. Because i got mad at what he said he banged my head against the wall repeatedly till i went all dizzy, he then kept leaving and coming back and each time he either kicked me on the floor banged my head against the wall again or spat at me. He then kept driving off in our family car and then when he come back and he went for me again i just said”Go on hit me you cant hurt me anymore than what you already have” and he just stood there laughing at me as tears poured down my cheeks. He has broken my house phone, broken my bin and threw this at me and also punched holes in our house walls and smashed glass everywhere. He woke up the next morning crying, begging and apologizing. I now don’t know what to do. He is now being moody with me because im in a mood and keeps saying “what more do you want me to do, ive said sorry so many times, i know ive acted wrong and i will stop drinking like that to prove to you. But it isn’t the first time he has attacked me when drunk but this time is definitely the worse. I have two children, my oldest daughter isn’t his just my youngest. i need help i don’t no what to do i have been with him for 3 years and he is normally so nice to me. He even said the day after that he will get help now hes saying he doesn’t need help but that he is just not gonna drink as much as that ever again

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