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Help! My daughter’s boyfriend uses drugs everyday…do I make her stop seeing him?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 7:01 pm

I knew he did drugs before he met her but he cleaned up his act (or so I thought). He was clean for a while and they have been together for almost 2 years now. He’s 19; she’s 17. They are very close. I just found out today that he uses every day and I know my daughter doesn’t do that stuff (trust me I know). She’s a good girl and we have a good relationship. Should I just let her suffer like this knowing she doesn’t like his drug use but she still cares very much for him and is trying hard to overlook this. Or should her dad and I crack the whip and demand that she stops seeing him? I know teens will do what they want, but this is about drugs, not because we don’t like him.
More…he’s not allowed at our house because of calling me a liar/fake/psycho bitch. He’s done this to her before and now we have no contact with him. This kid I took into my home to live when he got kicked out of his home. I gave him everything and treated him like my own. What a slap in the face!
Oh, and I do like him but he hates me now and I never did anything bad to him. Yes, he has a hard life at his house but it’s taking a toll on our family. So talking to him is not an option.

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Help! My daughter’s boyfriend uses drugs everyday…do I make her stop seeing him?

  • Posted on January 1, 2010 at 7:01 pm

I knew he did drugs before he met her but he cleaned up his act (or so I thought). He was clean for a while and they have been together for almost 2 years now. He’s 19; she’s 17. They are very close. I just found out today that he uses every day and I know my daughter doesn’t do that stuff (trust me I know). She’s a good girl and we have a good relationship. Should I just let her suffer like this knowing she doesn’t like his drug use but she still cares very much for him and is trying hard to overlook this. Or should her dad and I crack the whip and demand that she stops seeing him? I know teens will do what they want, but this is about drugs, not because we don’t like him.
More…he’s not allowed at our house because of calling me a liar/fake/psycho bitch. He’s done this to her before and now we have no contact with him. This kid I took into my home to live when he got kicked out of his home. I gave him everything and treated him like my own. What a slap in the face!
Oh, and I do like him but he hates me now and I never did anything bad to him. Yes, he has a hard life at his house but it’s taking a toll on our family. So talking to him is not an option.

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