He is cheating on me with a meth addict. We have a young daughter.
I have him nailed to the wall. BUT!!!
I’m the stay at home mom who never had anything in her name, no credit, no job…nothing.
He is fixing to file. If I beat him to the punch, I come off better.
I can’t afford to pay the startup attorney fees.
I will be starting a job soon, but not soon enough.
He has taken all things of value out of the home minus a few odds and ends that, when pawned/sold, would bring about $600-$800 *IF* I’m lucky.
I need $2000 for the attorney and $1000 for the private investigator. How does one go about doing this?
There is no one I can borrow from. I have no collateral. Nothing.
There’s no hope for me, is there??? :(
I will answer any questions and add info where necessary, so please check back in and try to help me.
I tried legal aide and they said they are too busy to take my case but could help me in a couple of months. We are in a small town and he has the best lawyer on retainer, but hasn’t filed for separation or anything.
I have no solid proof because his friends and family are helping hide what he is doing.
He was born and raised here and knows everyone.
The only lawyer I could find within a reasonable distance says he needs a start up fee and that my ex would have to pay the rest.
He can guarantee that.