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me and my friend need some help convincing her sister?

  • Posted on May 8, 2011 at 2:21 am

my friend Lauren and i are really trying to convince her sister Amanda not to name her daughter Crystal as her boyfriends last name is Meeth and her daughters name would be Crystal Meeth, would sounds and looks like Crystal Meth. She says she doesnt want to name her daughter anything else because ever since she was a little girl she has wanted to name her daughter Crystal if she had a girl and her son Kendall if she had a boy. What should we do? Her child will go through hell in school

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Friend problem? Has this happened to you?

  • Posted on April 21, 2011 at 1:21 am

Okay first let me start by describing to you what type of person my “friend” is. she is very very very NEGATIVE. she barely ever smiles, although she is a pretty funny person (?). She hates just about everyone she comes in contact with and wishes them death. Whenever I have some good news or something good, or exciting has happened for me she finds a way to bring out the bad in it. for example if I were to say “Oh my gosh, guess what I’m going to a concert this weekend!”, she’ll reply in an annoyed tone, with an angry look on her face “What if at the last minute your parents say you can’t go?”, which really pisses me off because aren’t your friends supposed to be happy for you? I do not know if she does it because she is jealous or what. Also she’ll say things that are really rude and hurtful, but then say “just kidding”, but she’ll kind of smirk about it so you wonder if shes REALLY kidding. Like recently got a haircut, and she was asking me if I liked it or whatever, and I said “yeah I’m actually getting used to it”, and she says “haha its so f-ing ugly. No I’m just kidding”, but because of the type of person that she is, I couldn’t really decipher if it was a joke or not. She also answers me in a really rude way when we talk.

Anyways she has kind of been avoiding me for the past 2-3 days. On monday we talked a little. On tuesday I was like “are you mad at me?”, and she was like “oh no! I thought you were pissed at me thats why I kind of have been avoiding you”, and then I said “oh I’m sorry I wasn’t even mad at you”, then we hugged and forgave each other or whatever. The following day we only talked like a tiny bit. But the following day *(today) we didn’t even talk to me, and I didn’t say anything to her either.

I admit in a way I am hurt, but I am also kind of happy. I feel liberated in a way. I don’t feel like I’m being held down by her negative clutches. I’m deffinetly okay with moving in on, but I’m also amazed because, shes a really f-ed up person with a f-ed up life. I have pulled through for her and been there for all her crap, and this happens. Her dad has a marijuana buisness thing, her mom is a psychotic b-word who puts voice recorders in her dads car, and puts gps systems in every electronic device her husband owns. She doesn’t even take care of her 2 year old daughter, because shes too busy listening to voice recordings. her brother is a 14 year old pot head, heroin addict, who does LITERALLY gets high EVERY day…for some reason her brother doesn’t like me? i think its because I’m half black…I’m actually pretty sure thats why…her family is also racist, so yeah. In a sense I’ve always just wanted to dump her because she really is a HORRIBLE friend, and I don’t deserve how she treats me. I am kind and nice, and understanding with her. She has NO reason AT ALL to treat me the way she has. I actually feel bad for her. She won’t make anything of her life, she’ll be a failure like EVERYONE in her family. acting the way she acts, she won’t be able to keep friends with her mean rude attitude.

But basically what I’m trying to say has this ever, happened to you? Or have you ever had a friend like this? Also I just needed to vent. I’ve had this on my mind for a few days. But I’ll be okay. I’m starting to realize I really DONT need people like that in my life. I can’t live if I surround myself with that kind of people.

What do you guys think? Tell me some stories of failed friendships you might have, I’m interested.

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One day Peter complained to his friend?

  • Posted on April 10, 2011 at 1:21 pm

My elbow really hurts. I guess I should go see a doctor.”

His friend said, don’t do that.
There’s a computer at the Wall Mart that can diagnose anything quicker and cheaper than a doctor.

Simply, put in a sample of your urine and the computer will diagnose your problem and tell you what to do about it.
And it only costs $10.00.”

Peter figured he had nothing to lose, so he filled a jar with a urine sample and went to the Wall Mart.

Finding the computer, he poured in the sample and deposited the $10.00.

The computer started making some noise and various lights started flashing. After a brief pause, out popped a small slip of paper that read: You have Tennis Elbow.
Soak your arm in warm water, avoid heavy labour. It will be better in two weekês.”

That evening while thinking how amazing this new technology was and how it would change medical science forever, he began to wonder if this computer could be fooled.
He decided to give it a try.

He mixed together some tap water, a stool sample from his dog, and urine samples from his wife and daughter.
To top it off, he m*sturbated into the concoction. He went back to the drug store, located the computer, poured in the sample and deposited the $10.00.

The machine again made the usual noises, flashed its lightês and printed out the following analysis:

Your tap water is too hard, use a water softener.

Your dog has ringworm, bathe him with anti-fungal shampoo.

Your daughter is using cocaine, put her into a rehabilitation clinic.

Your wife is pregnant……..twin girls, they aren’t yours.
Get a lawyer.

And if you don’t stop jerk*ng off, your elbow will never get better.”

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Have friend who’s detoxing..can I trust her?

  • Posted on March 26, 2011 at 9:22 am

soo this is a tricky situation, I have a friend who was a recovering heroin addict, she had gotten her life straightened out for two years then got into a bad a relationship, and started using again. In late Dec. she asked if her and her daughter could come here to get out of the situation she was in and I agreed, then within a week she left to go to her other friends who had kids her daughter could play with..so now it is late Feb. and she came to me again and said she has been using this entire time and wants to get clean and can she and her 3 year old can come here again…I agreed now they are here, she has been detoxing for two days…and then tonight I go into my computer room and notice my vase that I keep change in is emtpied and on the floor..at least 200 bucks..I wake her up and confront her and she completly denies it…looking me straight in the eyes saying she has not will not and never would do that..I know nobody else was in my house..what do I don now ..her and her kid have nowhere to go..need advice:(

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Drug Addicted friend of mine has HIV?

  • Posted on March 19, 2011 at 11:21 pm

Well, I have a friend who I deeply love (as bffs)
and she is an on and off drug user of heroin and crack cocain.

She has told me that she has HIV and I’m worried because she has 3 Kids right now, (3, 8 13)
and she’s having twins in 4 1/2 months..

Her daughter has told my daughter that her mom made her help her pop a pimple on her face and she has HIV!

I’m scared because like what if she cuts her self and the kids touch it, or what if they share food?

What can I do, help

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My mom is an alcoholic; I don’t want her to meet my best friend?

  • Posted on March 19, 2011 at 10:17 pm

This sounds so bad to say, but I really really REALLY don’t want my mom meeting my best friend. My friend lives around here, but is moving to the other side of the country … So, in a couple months I’m going to see her there. My mom wants to come, since I’m only 16 and “not old enough” to go by myself. I have been best friends with this girl for like, forever, but my mom and her have never met. Mainly because my mom is an alcoholic, bottom line … and I didn’t want them meeting. Now my mom says she wants to meet her when I go to see her. [I don't even know why she does though, she never even cared before.] My mom is also very sensitive and gets very verbally abusive if I bring up her drinking. And that is obviously the main reason I don’t want them meeting. So, is there anything I can do to prevent them from meeting? I was thinking of me meeting my friend in a public place then going back to her house to hang out, or something like that … so they wouldn’t meet but I don’t know. I just can’t directly tell my mom no … because of how she is … & My best friend DOES know my mom is an alcoholic, we have talked about it a lot of times. Especially when I’m really upset. When my mom is drunk [which is pretty much all day] she does crazy things … like taking her shirt off or singing and dancing and stuff like that. It’s embarassing. I just don’t want her to see that … Please help me. I’m not trying to sound like the worst daughter on earth but I really can’t stop thinking about how terrible it will be.

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My mom is an alcoholic; I don’t want her to meet my best friend?

  • Posted on March 19, 2011 at 12:17 am

This sounds so bad to say, but I really really REALLY don’t want my mom meeting my best friend. My friend lives around here, but is moving to the other side of the country … So, in a couple months I’m going to see her there. My mom wants to come, since I’m only 16 and “not old enough” to go by myself. I have been best friends with this girl for like, forever, but my mom and her have never met. Mainly because my mom is an alcoholic, bottom line … and I didn’t want them meeting. Now my mom says she wants to meet her when I go to see her. [I don't even know why she does though, she never even cared before.] My mom is also very sensitive and gets very verbally abusive if I bring up her drinking. And that is obviously the main reason I don’t want them meeting. So, is there anything I can do to prevent them from meeting? I was thinking of me meeting my friend in a public place then going back to her house to hang out, or something like that … so they wouldn’t meet but I don’t know. I just can’t directly tell my mom no … because of how she is … & My best friend DOES know my mom is an alcoholic, we have talked about it a lot of times. Especially when I’m really upset. When my mom is drunk [which is pretty much all day] she does crazy things … like taking her shirt off or singing and dancing and stuff like that. It’s embarassing. I just don’t want her to see that … Please help me. I’m not trying to sound like the worst daughter on earth but I really can’t stop thinking about how terrible it will be.

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My mom is an alcoholic; I don’t want her to meet my best friend?

  • Posted on March 18, 2011 at 2:17 am

This sounds so bad to say, but I really really REALLY don’t want my mom meeting my best friend. My friend lives around here, but is moving to the other side of the country … So, in a couple months I’m going to see her there. My mom wants to come, since I’m only 16 and “not old enough” to go by myself. I have been best friends with this girl for like, forever, but my mom and her have never met. Mainly because my mom is an alcoholic, bottom line … and I didn’t want them meeting. Now my mom says she wants to meet her when I go to see her. [I don't even know why she does though, she never even cared before.] My mom is also very sensitive and gets very verbally abusive if I bring up her drinking. And that is obviously the main reason I don’t want them meeting. So, is there anything I can do to prevent them from meeting? I was thinking of me meeting my friend in a public place then going back to her house to hang out, or something like that … so they wouldn’t meet but I don’t know. I just can’t directly tell my mom no … because of how she is … & My best friend DOES know my mom is an alcoholic, we have talked about it a lot of times. Especially when I’m really upset. When my mom is drunk [which is pretty much all day] she does crazy things … like taking her shirt off or singing and dancing and stuff like that. It’s embarassing. I just don’t want her to see that … Please help me. I’m not trying to sound like the worst daughter on earth but I really can’t stop thinking about how terrible it will be.

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My mom is an alcoholic; I don’t want her to meet my best friend?

  • Posted on March 17, 2011 at 4:17 am

This sounds so bad to say, but I really really REALLY don’t want my mom meeting my best friend. My friend lives around here, but is moving to the other side of the country … So, in a couple months I’m going to see her there. My mom wants to come, since I’m only 16 and “not old enough” to go by myself. I have been best friends with this girl for like, forever, but my mom and her have never met. Mainly because my mom is an alcoholic, bottom line … and I didn’t want them meeting. Now my mom says she wants to meet her when I go to see her. [I don't even know why she does though, she never even cared before.] My mom is also very sensitive and gets very verbally abusive if I bring up her drinking. And that is obviously the main reason I don’t want them meeting. So, is there anything I can do to prevent them from meeting? I was thinking of me meeting my friend in a public place then going back to her house to hang out, or something like that … so they wouldn’t meet but I don’t know. I just can’t directly tell my mom no … because of how she is … & My best friend DOES know my mom is an alcoholic, we have talked about it a lot of times. Especially when I’m really upset. When my mom is drunk [which is pretty much all day] she does crazy things … like taking her shirt off or singing and dancing and stuff like that. It’s embarassing. I just don’t want her to see that … Please help me. I’m not trying to sound like the worst daughter on earth but I really can’t stop thinking about how terrible it will be.

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My friend asked if Im an alcoholic?

  • Posted on March 15, 2011 at 8:17 am

I had a very bad day yesterday and lets just say that the father of my 4 year old gave me full custody and walked out of her life. My mom knew how upset I was and said I need to get out of the house instead of crying all nite. She watched my daughter for me and I went out with one friend to a bar.

Well, Ive been talking to this guy who just moved up here and has an 8 year old daughter. I just found out he walked out on his girlfriend and his daughter and has seen her once in 6 months. He just texted me that he thinks I drink too much because I went out to make myself feel better and I must be an alcoholic. I am outraged. He knows what is going on in my life and is making me feel worse. I’m 28.

What is up with this behavior? I haven’t texted back. Thanks.

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