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Christian Meditation—Set Free to Dance

  • Posted on July 2, 2009 at 7:15 am

“Take the shackles off my feet so I can dance”. Sounds like fun. And it is! It’s a song by a group called Mary Mary (the song is “Praise You”, if you want to listen.)

When you hear it, I’m sure you’ll understand why it’s one of my favorites for joyful dancing. It’s great for those times when you have so much inside, you just have to let it out.

Sometimes we see our Christian life as tying us down. Our mind is harsh with us–“No more of this, get busy with that –and for SURE no more of the other!”

But when God works in our lives, He actually sets us free to be the person we were always created to be. Free to dance our best dance, sing our best song, laugh our deepest laughs. Free to open our hearts to experience love…and free to love beyond ourselves.

It doesn’t happen all at once.

Say you’re treading water, making it on your own, doing fine when it’s calm and pretty…but you’re getting tired ‘cause you’re dragging burdens with you, more and heavier as you go along. You know you’re in trouble when it gets stormy, but you’ve made it this far…still, there’s no freedom to dance when you’re dragging chains–and in your heart, you know you’re headed for drowning.

“Saved” is where you let Him pull you into the boat.

But once we’re on board, we don’t have to sit there, safe but dripping, crouched down in our corner or getting in the way of anyone who comes by. Or worse yet, warm and dry, smacking down at those who are still in the water! When the folks still in the water see us there, they should see us dancing and hear the laughter, and long to come on board themselves! Not get near and then get smacked!

Once you’re on the boat, if you’ll stop shuffling around, dragging your chains, and stay still long enough to let Him, He’ll take the shackles off your feet—and off your heart too—so you can dance.

Christian meditation is a time for you to stop, a time to sit down and hold out your chains. And then He will set you free to dance your journey. He will set you free to relish the trip– free to be useful to others on board, and the ones still in the water, too.

It’s a link by link process, being set free, but we dance better every time another one breaks loose.

And as you get free, He’ll show you how to sail into the wind. To experience the beauty of the world you’re in, and trust in the adventure of the One you’re journeying to.

If you’re still in the water—take His hand and come on board.

But if you’re already on board, stop dragging those chains around. Be still for a bit, and let Him take the shackles off your feet so you can dance! And then join me for the party up on the prow.

I still trip and fall sometimes. But my chains are dropping too!

Dr. Deborah Kukal is a licensed psychologist who has been teaching meditation in a hospital setting for more than 15 years.

Dr. Kukal’s Christian meditation CDs will teach you to meditate, and support you in your meditation.

To learn more about meditation, and try a free guided Christian meditation, visit Dr. Kukal at her website, http://www.joyofchristianmeditation.com

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If You Can Believe It, You Can Achieve it! Reframing For Success

  • Posted on July 1, 2009 at 9:04 pm

The key to quickly changing a belief is to associate massive pain with the old belief and associate massive pleasure with the new belief. Think about how that old belief has held you back and stagnated your potential. See of all of missed opportunities and grief this belief caused you. Feel the pain this belief has caused you and others. Does that create a frustrated feeling within you? Good! Amplify that feeling.

Imagine if you had this new, healthier belief ten years ago. What would your life be like?
See the huge gap between where you could be and where you are. This belief caused that gap. That gap represents pain. The pain is the pain of not having the life that is your God given right to have.

Now, reframe that belief into one that motivates you and pulls you in the direction you want to go. Here are some examples how you can reframe old beliefs into new ones.

Money Belief Reframe
Money is a tool that you can use for good. You can help more people when you have more money. You can help your family when you have more money. You will sleep better at night knowing you have emergency funds when something goes awry. Money is a result of service to other people.

Attraction Belief Reframe
Attraction is not an intellectual decision. We see too many instances of average men with beautiful women and handsome men with average women. The truth is that a good person looks for qualities not quantities.

Examples of quantities are how much money does the person make. What kind of car does the person drive? What kind of job does the person have? When a person really knows his or herself, he or she will focus instead on qualities not quantities. Quality refers to the types of emotional experiences you have when you are with this person. When you are with someone who touches places within you that you maybe didn’t even know existed, you will find massive attraction. You want someone to say, “I’ve never met anyone like you before,” not, “I’ve never met someone with a car like this before.”

When you believe that you have to have quantities in order to get someone attracted to you, the message is that you are not enough with those “things.” That is massive self-doubt in action.

Education Belief Reframe
Formal education is great, but not necessary to succeed. There are too many examples of people who have done extraordinarily well with by learning from their real life experience rather than an ivory tower theory. Your author is one of them. Far more impressive is the success of Virgin founder Sir Richard Branson, who dropped out of school at age 16 and went on to become a billionaire.

To coin a corny phrase, if you can believe it you can achieve it. History is full of people overcoming incredible odds including self-doubt to achieve remarkable accomplishments. You will be one of them.

John Graden is the author of The Impostor Syndrome. The Impostor Syndrome is the feeling you’re not as smart, talented, or skilled as others think you are. It’s the feeling you’ve been faking it and are about to be found out. Learn more about the book at:

http://www.theimpostorsyndrome.com

http://www.johngraden.com

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