This is my husband’s mother and grandmother we’re talking about. The mother has been addicted to crack for 20+ years. Seriously. She has stolen from her family (including Grandma), lied, prostituted, been in and out of jail, etc.
Grandma is in denial about her daughter’s recovery and always believes she’s doing “better.”
This has nothing to do with my husband wanting a “piece of the pie” when Grandma dies. He just doesn’t want to see his grandma’s house and all her belongings sold for crack – which his mother WILL do.
Is there anything he can do? Or does he have any say in this business?
Thanks.
His mother is 1200 miles away and Grandma lives here by us.
At this point, there is nothing that can be done about his mother – atleast not by him. She’s a grown woman – almost 50! She’s has had many opportunities to straighten her life out. She’s even been through an expensive rehab treatment. She’s been in jail…
Honestly, if his mother was sober, he would have no problem with it. He just hates the thought of all Grandma’s treasures being sold for crack and smoked up.