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If a stepchild molests your daughter his half sister do I have the right to sue him for restitution’s he 18?

  • Posted on December 14, 2010 at 1:21 pm

He was under age when it happened 2 years ago she is still going through therapy which I cant afford the state was helping but not anymore her therapist thinks its in her best interest to stay in therapy for that she still has nightmares and there is allot for her to go through.He hes now turned 18 and has a trust fund that I feel could help my daughter in paying for her therapy, he has also stated that he blames his biological mother for what she has put him through we, myself & husbandreceivesd custody of him in 2005 because his mother was in prison for 3 dui’s and failing a drug test(crack cocaine)so as the stepmother I opened my door to him only to find out he was abusing my little girl his half sister! He is now back with his mother and now shes wanting child support for him go figure because he is still in school till next May2011.Yes to all that answer this was reported to the police and CPS the case is closed on that hes cured as the state of WV says but I have my doubtswouldn’tt any mother who never thought this would happen to your little girlex speciallyy after u took him to therapy when u got custody of him & learned what he had been through with his biological mother)What can I do, lost but not FORGOTTEN!!!
Yes I could probly sue the biological mother & father but you need 2 know we just got custody of said child & he ,in his words started molesting my daughter his half sister as soon as he moved in and blames it on his mother & the lifestyle she had when he was living with her,as a parent I dont think some of you understand the guilt I have not being there as a mother and a protector for my daughter.I feel my stepson should have to pay for what he has done also I need to say this HE IS BACK DOING DRUGS living with his mother what can I do about that?????

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If a stepchild molests your daughter his half sister do I have the right to sue him for restitution’s he 18?

  • Posted on December 13, 2010 at 1:21 pm

He was under age when it happened 2 years ago she is still going through therapy which I cant afford the state was helping but not anymore her therapist thinks its in her best interest to stay in therapy for that she still has nightmares and there is allot for her to go through.He hes now turned 18 and has a trust fund that I feel could help my daughter in paying for her therapy, he has also stated that he blames his biological mother for what she has put him through we, myself & husbandreceivesd custody of him in 2005 because his mother was in prison for 3 dui’s and failing a drug test(crack cocaine)so as the stepmother I opened my door to him only to find out he was abusing my little girl his half sister! He is now back with his mother and now shes wanting child support for him go figure because he is still in school till next May2011.Yes to all that answer this was reported to the police and CPS the case is closed on that hes cured as the state of WV says but I have my doubtswouldn’tt any mother who never thought this would happen to your little girlex speciallyy after u took him to therapy when u got custody of him & learned what he had been through with his biological mother)What can I do, lost but not FORGOTTEN!!!
Yes I could probly sue the biological mother & father but you need 2 know we just got custody of said child & he ,in his words started molesting my daughter his half sister as soon as he moved in and blames it on his mother & the lifestyle she had when he was living with her,as a parent I dont think some of you understand the guilt I have not being there as a mother and a protector for my daughter.I feel my stepson should have to pay for what he has done also I need to say this HE IS BACK DOING DRUGS living with his mother what can I do about that?????

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If a stepchild molests your daughter his half sister do I have the right to sue him for restitution’s he 18?

  • Posted on December 12, 2010 at 1:21 pm

He was under age when it happened 2 years ago she is still going through therapy which I cant afford the state was helping but not anymore her therapist thinks its in her best interest to stay in therapy for that she still has nightmares and there is allot for her to go through.He hes now turned 18 and has a trust fund that I feel could help my daughter in paying for her therapy, he has also stated that he blames his biological mother for what she has put him through we, myself & husbandreceivesd custody of him in 2005 because his mother was in prison for 3 dui’s and failing a drug test(crack cocaine)so as the stepmother I opened my door to him only to find out he was abusing my little girl his half sister! He is now back with his mother and now shes wanting child support for him go figure because he is still in school till next May2011.Yes to all that answer this was reported to the police and CPS the case is closed on that hes cured as the state of WV says but I have my doubtswouldn’tt any mother who never thought this would happen to your little girlex speciallyy after u took him to therapy when u got custody of him & learned what he had been through with his biological mother)What can I do, lost but not FORGOTTEN!!!
Yes I could probly sue the biological mother & father but you need 2 know we just got custody of said child & he ,in his words started molesting my daughter his half sister as soon as he moved in and blames it on his mother & the lifestyle she had when he was living with her,as a parent I dont think some of you understand the guilt I have not being there as a mother and a protector for my daughter.I feel my stepson should have to pay for what he has done also I need to say this HE IS BACK DOING DRUGS living with his mother what can I do about that?????

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My daughter has a half brother out there, how do I find him (if possible) so my daughter can meet him?

  • Posted on September 17, 2010 at 3:26 pm

I have an almost 4 year old daughter with my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years. Recently he lost parental rights because he supposedly abandoned his son. What really happened was the mother was a heroin addict and got with an extremely abusive/controlling man. He tried to fight my boyfriend whenever he tried to see his son. He then went to the courts to complain, to which they did nothing. Josh eventually stopped coming by to see his son because of the horrible conflicts that happened in front of the child. Later, he received a document telling him that his parental rights were gonna be revoked. The mother already gave up her rights willingly. He fought as much as he could (hired a lawyer and everything). But it seems they already had their mind made up before they even sent the letter. Nothing he said had any credibility it seems. Anyway, he lost his son. Now I’m here stressing about my daughter having a half brother out there that she will never get to meet. Is there anything I can do? I don’t even know where to start. If I could do anything at all?

How can the courts just take a kid away because of a statue of abandonment without even hearing the story? He wasn’t even given a fighting chance!

The worst part is My boyfriend is heart broken. I tried making him feel better by saying his son will want to find him some day, and will. It was horrible to watch him go through this.
He tried to tell the courts that this was happening. They did nothing. If he took his son and didn’t return him it would of been kidnapping. I witnessed it once. They really scared me. We were sitting at a red light and his ex (mother of the child) and her new husband saw us sitting next to them. I didn’t know who they were but I noticed the lady was staring at my boyfriend. I pointed it out in a joking way. He looked over and gave her a glare. I asked what that was for and he pointed out who she was. They then started following us. I kept telling Josh were to turn to try to get away from them. All the while the guy was yelling out the window to stop so he could kick my boyfriends ass. That’s when I started to believe my boyfriend and his situation. And for anyone to call him a bad father is bull. He’s a great father to his daughter. Loves her with all his heart. Second, his grandparents on his mother side has custody of him now. You know, the ones who raised a drug addict daughter.
Oh yeah, and he may of made mistake by not seeing his son anymore because of a real messed up situation, but he was young and didn’t know what to do. I fully believe that. I know him. His choices were to risk the child’s mental health and his health to see his kid regularly. Go to the courts to complain about the apparent situation (since they worked out visitation), which he did and it didn’t work. He talked all the time about how he could win his son back if he could of afford a lawyer. Every time we saved a little, something would happen (like the car breaking down). His choices were limited.

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Can I have my two and a half year old grand daughter tested for drug exposure?

  • Posted on September 15, 2010 at 6:20 pm

Her mother got temporary custody during a divorce because she filed first. She is a known drug addict, crack, pills and pot and we fear that she is still using around the baby.
We have had wellness checks done by the local police several times and there was nothing found as far as the baby being in danger.
How can we have our grandchild checked to make sure that she is not exposed to drugs?

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My 19 Month Old Daughter Has Been Severely Constipated For About A Month And A Half, What Should I Do?

  • Posted on August 17, 2010 at 11:24 am

Hello…
I Cannot Get Any Solid Answers.
I’ve Been To My Childs Primary Care Physician And To The Emergencey Room.
Nothing.
My 19 Month Old Daughter Has Been Severely Constipated For About The Last Month And A Half.
At First The Bowel Movements Were Few And Far Between And Of Normal Consistancy.
Then They Slowed Way Down, It Was Taking 30 Minutes Of Grunting And Pushing And Getting Red In The Face Just To Pass A Marble Sized Stool, Harder Than A Rock And Dryer Than Dust.
Now She Hasn’t Had Any Sort Of Bowel Movement, No Motions, At All, For About A Solid Week.
I Am Getting Worried.
She Hasn’t Started Acting Any Differently.
She Is Still Full Of Energy As Normal.
She Is Still Eating Normally.
She Has Had A Pretty Good Diet So Far, But I Just Altered It Since She Has Shown Signs Of Constipation.
She Has Been Drinking Nothing But Water, And Prune Juice.
She Has BEen Eating Alot Of Fresh Fruits And Veggies.
Alot Of Whole Grains And Fibre.
I Have Been Giving Her Prunes And She Loves Them, Maybe 6 Of Them A Day!
But Still Nothing Has Produced Any Kind Of BM.
I Took Her To Her Docter And They Did An X-Ray, They Said, “Oh Shes Really Constipated!”
Like I Didnt Know That.
They Told Me To Alter Her Diet, Which I Had Already, Not That It Was Bad TO Begin With.
They Said To Give Her Little Tummies Childrens Laxitive, And Glycerine Suppositories..
I Had Been Using The Combination For 4 Days Already, And Nothing.
I Told Them Everything And All They Said Was “Hmm, Keep Trying.”
So The Next Day I Took Her Into The Emergency Room BEcause She Has Struggled So HArd For About 30 Mins And Didnt Pass Anything.
They Did Another x-Ray And Told Me The SAme Thing.
Shes Really Constipated.
They Administered An Anal Suppository.
Her 3rd One Of The Day.
They Said She Should Have A Bowel Movement Within 24 Hours.
Nothing. It Has Been 72 Hours Since That Visit.
I Do Not KNow What Else To Do.
I Have Exhausted My Resources Here In Town With These Ignorant Doctors Who Do Not Listen To What I Tell Them.
And Now Im Wondering If You Have Any Advice For Me Now?
I Just Want TO KNow Based On Your Opinion, What You Think Is Wrong And What You Think I Should Do.
There Is A Childrens Hospital About 2 Hours Away From Me In Madera California, Childrens Hospital Central California.
They Do Have A Specialty Service In Gastroenterology.
Do You Think I Should Contact Them And Try To Get Her Seen There?
I Think It Is My Only Other Choice But I Dont KNow.
Because Her Doctor And The ER Both Said I Have NOthing To Worry About, But Quite Frankley, I Am Worried Sick Because A Month And A Half Is A LONG Time To Be Irregular.
So PLease Your Opinion Is Deeply Needed.
Specialist Or Just Another Trip To Her Doctor Again?
Thank YOu

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my year and half daughter is eating a lot, should I let her?

  • Posted on August 12, 2010 at 9:24 pm

My daughter have been going through a phase where she was barely eating. She was just drinking milk and snacking for the longest time.. it was soo frustrating … Now that she is back to eating, she have been eating good 3-4 square meals with healthy snacks in between.

Problem is, I think she is eating too much for a year and a half old.

here if sort of her whole day meal.

breakfast- two scrambled eggs, 1 dry toast, half an orange cut in piieces, about 5-6 oz of milk or orange juice

Lunch- 1 corn dog, about 2 cup of mac n cheese, <- 2 cups BEFORE cooked.. which is a lot.

before dinner- yesterday she had almost half of regular sized of chicken flame boiler terriyaki bowl

Dinner- one whole breast chicken, 1 cup of green beans, 1 cup of mashed potato

I think thats all about what she ate yesterday. She had cup of juice and handful of gold fish.. and some other little snacks inbetween her meals..

i noticed she have gained about 2 lb in just short 2 weeks.

She always have been a big baby. She is tall too. I am not too worried but I am wondering, since she sort of not an infant anymore, Am I suppose to measure her food?

I am just soo use to offering her food until she is fufll.. hm

what do you think? is she eating too much? or all just normal?

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My Husband always tells me he feels funny changing our daughter’s diaper. She’s a year and a half.?

  • Posted on July 27, 2010 at 7:21 pm

My husband has an addiction to porn websites and chatting with them and texting them. He even told me masturbates watching porn. Can this be a reason that he feels funny changing his daughter’s diaper. The first day she was born he told the nurse he felt funny changing her diaper and that was not a good sign. Why do you think he feels funny about it?? Please help me let me know what you think.

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my 10 yr. old daughter drinks about one half to one gallon of milk per day. 2% is this ok?

  • Posted on January 8, 2010 at 1:32 pm

that good ? .she is not a heavy girl. just big for her age she is taller than her 13 yr. old sister

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