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Why are my female relatives so hateful?

  • Posted on May 12, 2011 at 3:21 am

There are a few women in my extended family who are very hateful. I have been told by my mother that they resent me because I “got the chance” to go to college, and because I make better money than they do. While they aren’t mean to me in person, I hear rumors they say about me, also one of them stares at me every time I’m around her. Anyways, besides that, they also pick on one other woman, who has been in our family since she married my male relative about 18 years ago. Well, that male relative of mine committed suicide a couple of years ago, and ever since then these women will NOT stop obsessing over his wife. They were separated but still married when he died, and they have children together. These hateful women say that his wife is the main reason why he committed suicide, which I find ridiculous because the man was addicted to heroin and xanax for years. Besides blaming his wife for his suicide, they call her a “class A sl*t”, “trashy”, “a shi**ty mother”, materialistic, and evil. It doesn’t stop there, they even attack HER mother who is a 60 something year old grandma. They say that she was a sl*t just like her daughter is. Some of it might be true, but regardless I think it is wrong of them to say these things. I feel like they are forming an obsession with her. She is their main topic of conversation when they are together, but of course they are nice to her face (just like they are with me). WHY do they do this? How can I deal with it? I try to avoid them but my mother gets offended that I don’t want to see her family even though I’ve explained to her why I dislike these particular family members.

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Why are the women in my family so hateful?

  • Posted on May 11, 2011 at 5:21 am

There are a few women in my extended family who are extremely hateful. First of all, I have been told by my mother that they resent me because I “got the chance” to go to college, and because I make better money than they do. While they aren’t mean to me in person, I hear numerous rumors that I find out have originally came from them, also one of them stares at me every time I’m around her. Anyways, besides that, they also pick on one other woman, who has been in our family since she married my male relative about 18 years ago. Well, that male relative of mine committed suicide a couple of years ago, and ever since then these women will NOT stop obsessing over his wife. They were separated but still married when he died, and they have children together. These hateful women say that his wife is the main reason why he committed suicide, which I find ridiculous because the man was addicted to heroin and xanax for years. Besides blaming his wife for his suicide, they call her a “class A sl*t”, “trashy”, “a shi**ty mother”, materialistic, and evil. It doesn’t stop there, they even attack her mother who is a 60 something year old grandma. They say that she was a sl*t just like her daughter is. Some of it might be true, but regardless I think it is wrong of them to say these things. Besides that it is just mean, I feel like they are forming an obsession with her. She is their main topic of conversation when they are together, but of course they are nice to her face (just like they are with me). WHY do they do this???? How can I deal with it? I try to avoid them but my mother gets offended that I don’t want to see her family even though I’ve explained to her why I dislike these particular family members….help?

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Why are these women so hateful?

  • Posted on April 25, 2011 at 3:21 pm

There are a few women in my family who are extremely hateful. First of all, I have been told by my mother that they resent me because I “got the chance” to go to college, and because I make better money than they do. While they aren’t mean to me in person, I hear numerous rumors that I find out have originally came from them, also one of them stares at me every time I’m around her. Sometimes they make snide remarks to me, such as when I had a minor car accident, one of them said, “haha. that’s a dumb way to wreck your car.” and walked away. Anyways, besides that, they also pick on one other woman in our family, who has been in our family since she married my male relative about 18 years ago. Well, that male relative of mine committed suicide a couple of years ago, and ever since then these women will NOT stop obsessing over his wife. They were separated but still married when he died, and they have children together. These hateful women say that his wife is the main reason why he committed suicide, which I find ridiculous because the man was addicted to heroin and xanax for years. Besides blaming his wife for his suicide, they call her a “class A sl*t”, “trashy”, “a shi**ty mother”, materialistic, and evil. It doesn’t stop there, they even attack her mother who is a 60 something year old grandma. They say that she was a sl*t just like her daughter is. Some of it might be true, but regardless I think it is wrong of them to say these things. Besides that it is just mean, I feel like they are forming an obsession with her. She is their main topic of conversation when they are together, but of course they are nice to her face (just like they are with me). WHY do they do this???? How can I deal with it? I try to avoid them but my mother gets offended that I don’t want to see her family even though I’ve explained to her why I dislike these particular family members….help?

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