Nothing seams to make my husband happy. We have headed for a divorce. Please help?
I know this is a long story.
I am a stay at home mom.
True enough I don’t cook for my husband but that’s only because he do not like the way I cook. I don’t like to cooking. He told me I was a sorry wife and it was a shame that other women(his co workers and friends) have to bring food for him. I through yeah it is a shame. So the next day I asked him what did he want me to cook. He told me so I went to the store to get what he wanted. I can home I cooked it so that he could take some with him to work that afternoon. He wanted me to cook enough so that he will have food at work for him. But he got ready to leave for work he told me that his friend was bringing him some food and he was not taking the food I cooked with him.
He told me I don’t clean right. But he is the person who puts leaves his stuff everywhere. And he told me not to touch his stuff because when I touch it, it seams to get lost.
But my thought is he just don’t want me anymore.
He stays out all night almost every night. The has been going on for about 3 months now. I have asked him to stop. But he still do it. I have tried just not caring but that just makes me cry more. He tells me he spends the night at his friends house. Why would a married man spend the night at his friends house almost every night?
He got another woman’s name tattooed on his leg about a month ago. He told me he got drunk and a friend bet another friend $100 to do it. How drunk you would have to be to not feel a tattoo being done?
He wont help with anything.
I am trying to get a job. I have applied for a bunch of jobs online and I was getting call back interviews. We have an 11 month old daughter. But he wont stay home with our child so I could go on interviews. He wont go with me to pick out a daycare. Is the something both parent should do together?
We don’t have a car or a washer or drier. So we do our laundry at our local laundry mate which is 2 blocks away. He will not help me to OUR laundry to the laundromat. The last time I went I called him and asked him will he help me bring the stuff back he said no and hung up in my face. I told him I was not doing is laundry anymore.
Why would you let your wife or girlfriend or baby mama drag laundry 2 blocks alone?
And he lie about little dumb stuff.
We don’t do anything together. We don’t eat together. We don’t sleep together. We don’t spent time with each other. We don’t have sex as much. Its plain to see he just don’t want to be with me.
I asked him to leave and go be with the lady who’s name is on this leg, he told me he is not going anywhere. He wont leave.
I find myself crying everywhere day. But then I think the man is not worth my tears.
Can I please have any advise from married and divorced people?
We live in apartment with no washer and dryer hook up.
